I have never had that happen before, is that common? And how can I get him to have a multi-o again? Has anyone had this experience?
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I have never had that happen before, is that common? And how can I get him to have a multi-o again? Has anyone had this experience?
You mean he cum and sort of stayed hard and then got properly hard again and cum again..because Ive done that but I dont see that as a multiple orgasm. I didnt know men could even have them haha
Assuming you are talking about a male mutiple orgasim without an intermittent flacid period that inlcudes mutiple ejaculations, and without the assistance of medication or sexual aides - then there may be a few possibilities...
- He's a young man, with an extremely brief refractory period
- You haven't had sex in a while, and he was built up, thus reducing his refractory period.
- He unintentionally contracted his prostate muscle and ejaculated a bit, but held back most of it for an additional orgasim
- He's been studying tantric meditation behind your back
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- You're just that amazingly sexually stimulating. ;)
verfolgung, we had just had sex that morning. He said they were both as intense as a normal orgasm, but he doesn't think he came the first time. They were within 5 mins of eachothe. We were having sex missionary and he orgasmed and then we switched so he was behind me (he always stays hard for a while after he comes), and then he came again! He's never had it happen, and I've never had that experience with anyone else.
My man does that every time. Its just his thing. He actually always wants to go for three, but he won't switch condoms (the delay in between would kill his hard on). I'm not totally comfortable with him using the same condom for the second one, so I guess 2 is a compromise?
Well not many guys reach the level of sexual awareness and maturity to learn how to do this on a consistent basis.
The key point you mentioned was that he did not think that he ejaculated. It is highly likely that he contracted his prostate muscle which allowed him to orgasim the first time without ejaculating. With time he can learn how to do this consistently.
Best of luck!
Lucky bastid. LOL ;)
...and extensive knowledge, and a proper nutritional and exercise regimen, one can aspire to someday be a sex god.
http://www.love-egypt.com/images/sex-god.jpg
Nice picture of Min there.
Once an ex of mine got me to come three times in half an hour, which was pretty impressive, but I'll give her the credit there, the girl could deep throat all the way.
I have also experienced the ESO/tantric thing with multiple contractions/orgasms, but in that case you don't ejaculate--though it feels just as good. That is considerably harder to pull off (no pun intended haha), though with practice it would be easier than 2-3 full ejaculations in a row in a short period of time. You can come a lot using this method, but you have to keep in form with it or you will lose the ability to some extent.
this is a very interesting subject
i didn't know that there was such a thing as tantric meditation
i can't wait to have sex now!
=]
Men and women both can come a lot of times. With practice you can have one long one that just doesn't stop for like half an hour or even more--but that's really hard to work up to, and easy to lose if you don't keep at it.
I have a freind from high school that i use as a fuck buddy... anyways he can cum keep going without stopping then cum againg a few secs or mins later. And this would go on for hrs the longest time for us was 10 hrs! Granted my pussy was swollen shut for 3 day but it was soo worth it. I call him honey bunny cuz he fucks like a rabbit and wont stop until i ask him to. Too bad for me we are both in realationships now....
from time to time that will happen to my bf. he will feel like he came, but didn't ejaculate.. then he can keep going and do it again. for us i haven't really noticed a pattern. it just seems to happen sometimes.
Tantric release is the greatest! He feels like he's having an orgasm, but not actually ejaculating... do that to him a few times before letting him explode... man, the look on his face... very satisfying! *pats self on the back* ;)
My hubby can cum two times without going flacid in between, but it doesnt happen that often. he can also stay hard for like 30 minutes after, which is nice. Sometimes it's a bit much though-I get sore really easy.
From my own experience, it's not that uncommon or dfficult. One does have to be pretty well turned on.
I had one guy do this to me, no previous training involved! lol
But on the serious. Call me weird, but I see orgasm and ejaculation as two entirely different things. I've had guys in the past orgasm without ejaculating, and some guys do ejaculate without orgasm. I think it's just a matter of finding what works for you and working to improve upon it, I guess?
ugh, I'm jealous! My man is older, and he hardly comes - yes, ever!
have NO idea how the hell we're going to have kids!
To me, the orgasm itself is gratifying, the cum is just the icing on the cake. But I would HATE to be in your position! I want kids so bad, not now, but in the future!
Maybe he could talk to a doctor? There are diets and supplements to increase sperm/semen production. If he has a narrow urethra, he could try urethral sounding. I've talked to some kinkier diabetics who managed to get their women pregnant using sounding.