$2,000 to spend the night
I received that offer from a custie and his business card. At first I played coy to get him to buy dances but now the offer is actually really tempting...I'm not rationalizing and thinking. This guys from out-of-town, I checked his company out...what do you guys think?
I blame the economy for making me second guess this! lol
Guys, please don't attack me, understand where I'm coming from and that the $ in the club isn't what it used to be, but escorting seems to still be profitable...
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Hey I hear ya. I'm feeling happy if I take home $200 for a shift, so taking home 2grand for a night would be tempting as hell for me also. I don't have any experience in escorting, though, so I really don't know what to tell you. Obviously safety would be my main concern. Good luck!
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I think you'll get mixed responses that won't really help you. $2000 is a nice chunk. It really comes down to how you feel about being an escort for a night. If you do decide to do it, I think you should see the legit cash upfront and have solid rules about what is and is not allowed. Maybe find an escort to give you some guidance in how to handle it?
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It's cheap for an overnight here in Vegas, but I guess it depends where you're from, although I've heard New York rates are pretty high too.
It comes down to what you want. If the guy's not gross and it might actually be fun, then what the hell, get yourself $2000 buck. If he skeezes you out then I'd pass, because that's too good of a deal to give to some gross out.
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I would limit the time together to 4-5 hours if you do it and mention that upfront. $2000 for all night is ridiculously cheap.
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Thank you for the input guys. I decided in the end not to do it but this helps because this might happen again!
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ViolaStrings
I would limit the time together to 4-5 hours if you do it and mention that upfront. $2000 for all night is ridiculously cheap.
Yeah, I agree. And spend the night? Would you have to have sex with him? Call me a prude or a narcissist, but no way in firey HELL would I sleep with someone for $2k.
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Although $2,000 is a reasonable amount of money for one night I'm not sure I would personally go through with it.
Don't feel bad I'm sure there have been a lot of strippers who ponder the thought of crossing that intersection. I know I have but I don't think I'm ever going to be able to do it. Some girls do and there is nothing wrong with it. But think of it this way, in ten years you will never say "I wish I would have escorted." You'll say "I'm glad I didn't."
Not only is it not worth going to jail for it's not worth possible negative feelings you may have later.
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^ when you think about it hourly, if she stay with him for 8 hours, she's getting paid $250/hour. That's lowball prostitute money. Staying 4 hours would mean a nice dinner and a reasonable amount of "private time" and would work out to $500/hour, which I think is reasonable.
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i think violastrings really hit the nail on the head here in regards to the hourly rate.
I also think that if you don't feel right doing it, you shouldn't do it. If something comes up sometime when you know you'd have fun and like the guy, however, that might be cause for reevaluation.
I dunno, man.... I dealt with shit like this in vegas. The only time i ever slept with a guy for money was when i was in a really bad spot, about to lose everything, and I'm very happy to say that that had a happy ending.... We've been together for almost 2 years. He's my guardian angel.
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Though $2000 in one night is pretty good, it is cheap to spend the night with a customer...hang in there it's slow these days, but you should make at least $2000 in a week without having to do anything that gross.
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Yea, you all have good points and you're all correct. aAnd montana girl, you hit the nail on the head. Last night I had my best night ever (granted it was my second shift at the club) but I'm more than half on my way to 2Gs a week:)
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It sounds like you've already made a good decision, but I'm going to add some thoughts to this.
First off, you need to define up front whether he is seeking time together or sex since it really changes the whole scheme of things. Second, in most areas you could still get in legal trouble for this unless you have a license to escort, which is not the same in most places as legally having sex for money. I would say that if you are really serious about this find out what your local laws are and stay within the legal limits. If you want to get paid for spending the evening with him, without sex but for pay, just make sure you are doing it legally so you don't end up with legal problems.
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lecoeurnoir
Yea, you all have good points and you're all correct. aAnd montana girl, you hit the nail on the head. Last night I had my best night ever (granted it was my second shift at the club) but I'm more than half on my way to 2Gs a week:)
;D I'm so glad for you!
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my own two cents: I did this once because they guy really had me turned on, and I was very excited to be getting laid at all (between boyfriends then). It was fun- But I didn't know I was supposed to leave afterwards :( I thought we could cuddle up and have breakfast the next day. He just kept tossing and turning and then talking about how he wasn't able to sleep and had a head ache till I got the hint. So sad...Much later I heard the old adage that the madame says to her young recruit "Honey, they aren't just paying for you to sleep with them, they're paying for you the leave afterwards."
That guy ended up coming back to my club anytime he was on business and he definitely has wife and kids across the country. I felt like I contributed to something I don't stand for. But I don't resent myself for it...I'm still my biggest fan! so I think whatever you decide, if you regret it later, it's not like your life will come crumbling down it's just one moment in time.
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You just started dancing, focus on that. Dancing and escorting are two different things, don't get them mixed up this early in the game.
Once that stripping money starts rolling in you'll shudder to think you almost slept with a guy for a measley 2k.
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$2,000?? You can make that in an upscale club in a shift without leaving the club.