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Male strippers dating female strippers
Ladies, i could be wrong but it seems like male and female strippers dont date each other for the most part. why is that? Have u ever given a lapdance to a Chippendale? What are female strippers p.o.v. on male strippers? Do u see them as tools, players?
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Because most are gay and if they are straight they are extremely arrogant. (their women customers usually throw themselves at them) I've had a few male dancer friends in the past, some used to screw 2-3 women a night from their clubs. Some also have Sugarmammas or Cougars.
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Originally Posted by
holly07
Because most are gay and if they are straight they are extremely arrogant. (their women customers usually throw themselves at them) I've had a few male dancer friends in the past, some used to screw 2-3 women a night from their clubs. Some also have Sugarmammas or Cougars.
i would love some gay male stripper friends...that sounds like a fun time!!;D
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I dated a Chippendale when I was younger. He was GORGEOUS! Very fun to be around until he got drunk and then he was just horribly arrogant.
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Originally Posted by
bstillmatic
Ladies, i could be wrong but it seems like male and female strippers dont date each other for the most part. why is that? Have u ever given a lapdance to a Chippendale? What are female strippers p.o.v. on male strippers? Do u see them as tools, players?
Hahahahaha! If only that were true. If male and female strippers work together, they definately hook up, and frequently marry one another. I married a male stripper, and I know many couples that are BOTH in the skin biz. Many male strippers will also drive the girls to gigs on their free time, as well.
The girls always talk trash about the male strippers, but then the girls end up together with those guys anyway.
And no, most male strippers are not gay. As a matter of fact it is really, really difficult to find a male stripper for a gay bachelor party even in uber-liberal Seattle.
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I work at a ladies club, and have to admit, most of the male strippers date female dancers. I asked a couple of girls about the relationship, and they told me it was nice having someone who could relate to work issues, had schedules that were similar, et cetera. So, it works for some!
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I'm in love with a male stripper right now.
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Originally Posted by
Deacon Frost
I work at a ladies club, and have to admit, most of the male strippers date female dancers. I asked a couple of girls about the relationship, and they told me it was nice having someone who could relate to work issues, had schedules that were similar, et cetera. So, it works for some!
I was going to say the same thing. It seems to me that it would make life much easier bc you'd never have to worry about your SO understanding what your job is like.
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My experience with male strippers was working separate venues in the same establishment...the guys expected us to go hang out and party with them. We all had other plans as it was girls night out and we all had bfs.
Male strippers are not bad. I would only date the ones that love what they do, are business oriented and don't abuse it as a way to get laid and are down to earth or at least can bring it down a few notches when I'm around. Someone like me. :)
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Deacon Frost
I work at a ladies club,
So you know that when women get a few drinks in them and they think no one is watching they would make a sailor blush.
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I don't even know where to go about looking for male strippers, or what I would do to one should I find it, lol. I'm so averse to pretty-boy types, the idea of an overly groomed man dancing around and trying to look sexy just kinda grosses me out!
No offense mysterious male dancers, guess that just makes me old fashioned :)
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my boyfriend is interested in becoming a stripper
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I think the real reason we don't date male strippers is that there just aren't that many male strippers. Much less straight male strippers.
Not that I would date one anyway. I'm not into that thick-necked, shaven, oiled, jean shorts wearing shit.
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Personally I don't like pretty boys.
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I would marry a male stripper if he fit all my other criteria; same as anyone else.
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I don't find them attractive. Some girls are saying they are too pretty. I wouldn't call them "pretty" I like pretty boys. As in boys who look a bit like girls. LOL so ya a guy with huge muscles just makes me wanna barf.
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^^^ i think what people mean is they seem a little too dolled up. With the oiled up muscles and the overly styled hair, it comes across as a little artificial looking. My fave male dancer ever didn't do that. He had rocked a cowboy look, had good muscle definition but wasn't too bulky. He had more of a natural, rough look I liked.
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Originally Posted by
Paris
And no, most male strippers are not gay. As a matter of fact it is really, really difficult to find a male stripper for a gay bachelor party even in uber-liberal Seattle.
Maybe in the Pacific NW but not in NYC. Most of the male strippers around here are decidedly gay. Its no where near a scientific estimate but I'd make it at least 3:1.
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Originally Posted by
Earl_the_Pearl
So you know that when women get a few drinks in them and they think no one is watching they would make a sailor blush.
I have bounced at a handful of clubs that had male reviews periodically. I have never had problem with men of the nature I have with women at those shows.
As stupid as some guys can be I have never been witness to a guy reaching up to put a tip in a g-string and try to literally yank it off a female dancer [though I am sure its happened somewhere, some time]. On at least two occasions I have had to eject female patrons who literally yanked t-bars off male dancers on stage.
This is from my personal observations but I believe them to be accurate: In general guys at strip-clubs turn into wallflowers. Only a small percentage of them are total assholes. Women in groups, while still individually in the majority well behaved, tend to egg each other on more than men do. As a group they are rowdier than men in stripping venues.
Most bouncers/club managers I know who have worked both feel the same way.
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I totally get that this is neither hear nor there. I work out at the higher end gym, mostly old white male dudes, probably a customer too, looking around at the sad body types in the shower, asking myself could i go gay? I find myself feeling it is a miracle that woman would choose to procreate, find themselves attracted to this type and oddly it finds me appreciating woman on a whole new level, thank heavens woman are can be attracted to something beyond the hot body, lord knows what our planet would consist of otherwise.
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whitelight97402
I totally get that this is neither hear nor there. I work out at the higher end gym, mostly old white male dudes, probably a customer too, looking around at the sad body types in the shower, asking myself could i go gay? I find myself feeling it is a miracle that woman would choose to procreate, find themselves attracted to this type and oddly it finds me appreciating woman on a whole new level, thank heavens woman are can be attracted to something beyond the hot body, lord knows what our planet would consist of otherwise.
That is probably because people are still great apes, despite further enhancement of the frontal lobes. Men still seek multiple partners with greater likelihood of producing healthy offspring and women still seek committed males who are good providers.
Good providers, in this society, means money producers. Since there are only 24 hours in a day and being an outstanding $$$ producer requires the use of many of them there isn't as much time left to take care of the corporal. So guys who make great bread aren't always the best physical specimens.
Its one way when women are younger. They want a tall, lean, bad boy. When they get wiser as their years progress they don't mind a man whose a little rounder but tall when he sits on his fatter wallet.
its a cliche, but it is so for a reason.
It is as it is as it is...
And so it goes...
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Golden_Rule
It is as it is as it is...
And so it goes...
Thank the creator for that. :hyper:
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Originally Posted by
Golden_Rule
That is probably because people are still great apes, despite further enhancement of the frontal lobes. Men still seek multiple partners with greater likelihood of producing healthy offspring and women still seek committed males who are good providers.
Good providers, in this society, means money producers. Since there are only 24 hours in a day and being an outstanding $$$ producer requires the use of many of them there isn't as much time left to take care of the corporal. So guys who make great bread aren't always the best physical specimens.
Its one way when women are younger. They want a tall, lean, bad boy. When they get wiser as their years progress they don't mind a man whose a little rounder but tall when he sits on his fatter wallet.
its a cliche, but it is so for a reason.
It is as it is as it is...
And so it goes...
LOL ^^^^That's one club I'm thankful I'm not a member of.
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lopaw
LOL ^^^^That's one club I'm thankful I'm not a member of.
You know what Groucho said about that.
"I sent the club a wire stating, PLEASE ACCEPT MY RESIGNATION. I DON'T WANT TO BELONG TO ANY CLUB THAT WILL ACCEPT ME AS A MEMBER."
Groucho Marx
:)
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Man, I don't care how rich a dude is- I could never fuck a fat and/or ugly/and/or old dude or date one.
Ugh.