In addition to not accepting generous tipping, what is the nicest thing a dancer can do in the club for her favorite PL? ::)
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In addition to not accepting generous tipping, what is the nicest thing a dancer can do in the club for her favorite PL? ::)
A little stick-shifting works for this fella.
I have a number of dancer numbers in my phone and while it has only happened a few times it is very nice to get a text that does not involve when ya coming back. I know that is the ulterior motive behind the text, but it is nice to not come right out and say it. Just letting me know that it was a good night for them and that i am a pleasant customer. Sounds pathetic i am sure, but i like it.
another one over the years is buying me breakfast after hours....twice and it was a nice gesture. Nothing else just breakfast and neither time was my idea.
^^^ Agree w.r.t. text not involving "when are ya comin' in?"
Leaving another customer to sit with me.
It's all about ROI. I go on slow days and spend half the afternoon with my ATF including sixty to ninety minutes in the PD area for a flat fee that amounts to the price of ten dances at her club.
Over the years I have had similar arrangements with past favs. The most generous gift a dancer can give you is more of her time than you are paying for.
1) Being pulled into the dressing room when a bar fight broke out. :duck:
2) Being invited to the club's annual sailing trip. :drink: I was the only patron on it and I had a blast.
3) Invited to join a penny poker game in the dressing room ... that quickly evolved into a strip poker game ... which then became a game of truth-or-dare for those that last all their clothes and then lost again, which was even more fun. I was the last one to be naked (poker is a hobby of mine), but then I had the most clothes on. The women only could lose two to four pieces of clothing to start with. It was a really fun night.
4) One came in the limo that the club sent to pick me up. I wasn't expecting her. Now, yes, I know her likely intention was to secure me for the night, but it was still appreciated.
5) Sent a dozen red roses on my birthday.
There's more. It is mainly out-of-the-ordinary stuff that I appreciate.
The nicest thing a dancer can do for and with me is just let her guard down and be herself. That is not only what I enjoy most but there is an expression of trust in that act that is very complimentary in that it suggests that I am someone she need not have any defensive concerns about.
In an environment like a S-C that is a very nice compliment indeed.
Make that three in a row. I agree with GR completely.
^Caveat that the guard down could still be a further act, but, if so, it's one I appreciate and pretty much fall for.
^^^ Count me in, too. It's rare, but all the more appreciated when it happens. Thanks for the observation, GR.
Wow, five in a row. You think I'd get at least one thanks. {LOL}
Tough crowd. :D {just kidding} Thanks.
Make me number six, I found a girl who has let her guard down and told me some pretty intimate things. We converse regularly via e-mail and on the phone. We talk about random sh*t, and have some great laughs, and rarely talk about ITC stuff. She seems to defy the dancer stereotype.
All of this goes to the larger point I've tried to make straight alone though.
That being if we simply acknowledge we are all just folks strip-clubs should be more fun then many seem to find them [at least if you go by what you read in here] being that they can be places where people can enjoy other people on mutually agreed to terms. The only things negative about them is what we bring into them on both sides of the equation, customers and dancers alike.
Perhaps this comes under the heading of quitting while I'm ahead though... :)
For what it's worth GR that has always pretty much been my philosophy towards strip clubs and my approach to enjoying them. What is fascinating is how many times over eight or nine years of espousing that view here on this board I have been called a dancer kiss-ass, a suck-up, a liar and even a dancer. I've been accused of kissing ass to try and get stripper nookie more times than I can keep track of. I've yet to figure out by the way how saying something nice to a retired stripper 2000 miles away from me will get me laid...
People come to websites like this to complain. If it wasn't for bitching the post count here would probably be about a third of what it is. This is BLUE I'm talking about by the way not pink and the vast majority of the accusations and BS have come from customers here, not dancers.
So anyway, I agree with you again but, as I learned long ago, what goes on here and on other sites about strip clubs has very little to do with what actually happens in a strip club...and thank goodness for that!
SC are difficult to enjoy as dancers hate customers; especially customers that don't like being played for a sucker.
I guess it depends on what one is looking for.
Here is my list:
- Take my shoes off and give me a nice foot massage
- After that, give me a nice neck rub
- Then, pour me some wine
I think this will initially get us on the right footing.