A question I just thought to ask customers....
So, I'm not really one of the "dirty talkers". I enjoy talking about sex in general and I don't mind doing so with customers, but I don't actually talk dirty TO them...if you know what I mean. Nothing against it, I just always feel ridiculous when I try. Anyway, I was trying to think of ways to bring up sex without making it about "me" and "the customer". I'm wondering if asking him something like "So, what's the hottest thing a girl ever did for/to you?" or a variation on that. I'm thinking maybe the act of him telling me the story will get him in the mood for dances. Does anyone ask anything like that? I don't know this -just- dawned on me, lol.
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When in VIP I almost always something like "So whats the kinkiest/hottest thing you've ever done?" I prefer to get them talking and get the focus off of them trying to grab or things getting too heated.... talking kinky but not talking about what you are going to do to them (don't know if I'd have that in me to do either..) but talking about your sexual experiences and what you like or don't like... (even if it's exaggerated, just make it exciting but not too unrealistic). Getting them talking is best when possible b/c that's the way you keep them in VIP for extended periods of time. If you're just dancing they might get bored quick.. Talking can get them intrigued and wanting to hear more.
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I generally don't "dirty talk" before the sale, it just feels crass. Once in the room however, my two favorite questions are:
What would you be doing with me if we were back at your place? (I'll jump into this conversation while describing things I would do to him, while moving my body in turn; ie- "I would start between your thighs with my tongue and tease the tip of your...." while I'm kneeling between his knees and looking up at him)
What is your unfulfilled fantasy? (then I tell him about the time I had a threesome, went to a swingers party, had anal sex, whatever it is that he fantasizes about)
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I make up some story about taking some other stripper home.
example:" There's this girl that's not here tonight, but I really wish she was. Her car broke down and I told her to just stay at my place. I didn't think we were going to have sex, but it was awesome. We decided to take a shower together to save water...were girls, girls do that all the time...yada,yada,yada." and just answer any questions that he has and act like Im remembering something. I don't even like girls, but I come up with all sorts of kinky stories lol. It works great if your straddling them and looking them in the eye. shift your weight and rub your boob a little. Eats up a ton of time in champagne.
I even play a game with another girl that dances with me. I say a few sentences and then ask her if she "remembers the other night". Then she makes up a few sentences. we go back and forth trying to make the other crack up.
I also excuse myself and say that I need to ask my friend something before I forget. I'll very innocently ask her if shes staying at my house tonight. We go back an forth and explain how we bathe and sleep together and describe the bed. we never really say anything dirty, we just act like its normal.
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I only do this with couples in VIP. I'm actually surprised how many of you talk about sex! It kind of makes me want to puke in my mouth talking about it with customers. And it seems trite. Or maybe cliche is what I am looking for.
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I generally avoid the sex subject. I hate it when guys l ask if I've ever done anal or would I? Then they look shocked when I say with a disgusted face "Hell no, sometimes followed by "if my kitty isn't good enough, then their dick is too small" that usually takes care of that.
i can deal with being asked what my fantasy is, but i"m never detailed
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holly07
I generally avoid the sex subject. I hate it when guys l ask if I've ever done anal or would I? Then they look shocked when I say with a disgusted face "Hell no, sometimes followed by "if my kitty isn't good enough, then their dick is too small" that usually takes care of that.
i can deal with being asked what my fantasy is, but i"m never detailed
I usually respond with "I do, occasionally, but what really gets me hot is doing a guy in the ass with a strap-on". Either shuts them up or gets them to ask questions about the pegging, but either way gets the focus off of my body. Haha.
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I only do the dirty talking for fun, good looking customers.. and the way I normally do it is.. I end up slapping them in the face, pulling at their shirts choking them with it and telling them that they're my bitch. lol
And I'll ask them "who's your dirty slut huh!? TELL ME! *SLAP* SAY IT!" lol they eat that shit up and LOVE it.
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LittleMissy
I only do the dirty talking for fun, good looking customers.. and the way I normally do it is.. I end up slapping them in the face, pulling at their shirts choking them with it and telling them that they're my bitch. lol
And I'll ask them "who's your dirty slut huh!? TELL ME! *SLAP* SAY IT!" lol they eat that shit up and LOVE it.
LOL I wish I had the balls for that. I always hate when guys ask me to talk dirty because I never know what to say-- I feel like that kind of request is too open-ended to generate a positive response. Maybe next time I'll just slap the fucker around. !!!!! ;D
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bella du jour
I generally don't "dirty talk" before the sale, it just feels crass. Once in the room however, my two favorite questions are:
What would you be doing with me if we were back at your place? (I'll jump into this conversation while describing things I would do to him, while moving my body in turn; ie- "I would start between your thighs with my tongue and tease the tip of your...." while I'm kneeling between his knees and looking up at him)
What is your unfulfilled fantasy? (then I tell him about the time I had a threesome, went to a swingers party, had anal sex, whatever it is that he fantasizes about)
I would be wayyy too scared to talk to a customer like that. i feel like that just gives him an open invitation to molest me or bugme about meeting him outside the club.
I cannot talk about sex to customers AT ALL. I feel like if they think I enjoy sex they will be offended when i tell them im not going to sleep with them. Maybe this is why im not getting 1 thousand dollar tips like the other girls :-(