how do i sell--and do--these VIPs without ripping them off and becoming exhausted?
My club offers half hour and full hour VIPs- $600 for each half hour. I know our VIPs are more expensive than most clubs in the area, and since its CA we don't do champagne rooms or serve any alcohol, and my club doesn't serve food.
I've sold 2 since I started working a month ago. I didn't have to "sell" my first one, I was giving the guy a dance and he asked me for a VIP. The second one I sold by just talking about how we could be alone and spend more time together and not be walked in on.. then he started asking me "what could we do then?" to which I didn't really know how to respond. I tried to keep it ambiguous but he kept asking me "well what exactly?" I don't even think he was trying to get me to agree to anything specific, the $600 price tag w/o any alcohol just makes guys assume there has to be something else going on! I didn't tell him anything specific but finally just gave up and said "i do anything." He agreed and I did the VIP but of course didn't do anything, just danced so I think he was pissed afterwards. And in both VIPs the guys just wanted me to grind on them for 30 minutes, which is exhausting and uncomfortable.
I don't know what to do in the VIPs to make them not so strenuous for me and more exciting for the guy without having to do extras. Since we're not drinking any alcohol or eating, I feel like sitting and talking is sort of lame and dancing is all there is....
When I've talked to the girls at my club they've told me just promise them whatever and then don't do anything in VIP, but I feel like a bitch doing that and I know I'm not going to build up any regulars who will come back and do lots of VIPs with me if I'm just promising guys shit and then not doing any of it. But I don't know how to really sell the VIPs at that price so I usually just don't bring them up...
Anybody have advice?
Re: how do i sell--and do--these VIPs without ripping them off and becoming exhausted
i would strongly advice against listening to the other girls about ripping guys off by lying and promising things.
since there is not alcohol and im assuming its a typical california vip room (a smaller booth, not like an actual vip room with a bar and special waitress and stuff) what i suggest is dancing for the full time. to avoid getting tired you can dance kinda slow and for lack of a better word, lazy. since grinding is allowed, at times you can just kinda sit on their lap and barely move to conserve energy.
also, even if you dont know how to kill time during these vips, still bring it up. you never know if the guy will agree to it without much (or any) questions.
Re: how do i sell--and do--these VIPs without ripping them off and becoming exhausted
yeah, basically its just another lap dance booth, couches against the walls and no tables.
do you have any advice for selling points? i kinow in general i need to dance slower :(
Re: how do i sell--and do--these VIPs without ripping them off and becoming exhausted
You need to concentrate on the fact that VIP means private and uninterrupted. You don't need to lie about anything. However, if say you are the type of girl to hang around talking to a guy for 20 or 30 minutes for free then it's not much incentive to go to VIP. You need to be (or at least act) busy so that the incentive is that VIP means they get to spend time with you to actually talk and have more intense dances that aren't interrupted.