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What was she doing BEFORE she walked up to him? That is really the question....
was he alone, looking around the room with ping pong eyes...did he turn down the last 4 girls that just walked up and said "wanna dance" ...based on his appearance what personality type is he (red, blue, green, yellow?) did he speak softly or loudly to the other girls that approached him before she did....
...or was he her regular that was waiting for her to show up or come back after stage.....
there are lots of explanations for this scenario! LOL!
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britneyireland
What was she doing BEFORE she walked up to him? That is really the question....
was he alone, looking around the room with ping pong eyes...did he turn down the last 4 girls that just walked up and said "wanna dance" ...based on his appearance what personality type is he (red, blue, green, yellow?) did he speak softly or loudly to the other girls that approached him before she did....
...or was he her regular that was waiting for her to show up or come back after stage.....
there are lots of explanations for this scenario! LOL!
what is red, blue, green, yellow?
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^^^ Get DancerWealth
Yes, there are just so many scenarios for this. I've done exactly that MANY times. As in the guy that counts the lap dances will make fun of me because I'm barely out of the room before I'm bringing a new guy it.
Sometimes there are things going on WAY ahead of time. I watch the customers, find out who is REALLY into me. Then if they are say a Red I use a lot of body language whenever I walk past with other customers or wherever (if I'm too busy to talk to him)... and when I have a spare moment I go straight up with a big smile, lean in really close and say "So when do we get to spend some 1 on 1 time together???"... then pull back and bat the eyelashes and smile coyly. It seems to work almost 95% of the time.
You really need to know the back story to this though, so I would suggest asked the dancer about that particular situation.
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Well this girl doesnt look around and analyses anyone she just walked up to any body (i know their not her customers) touches their face, says blah blah blah, little wiggle and BAMM there goes another dance.
I was really impressed cause it was just so smooth and painless lol. I've tried asking her but its like a well kept secret. Thats why i need your help. What is something sexy and playful i can say??? Do i just sit down???
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If she won't directly tell you see if she approaches guys at the bar. If she has a tendency to then sit next to some of them without talking and see if you can hear what she is saying.
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It's intuition. Once you've been doing it for a while you just know what to say, what to do and who to target.
Totally automatic. Sometimes I don't know how I do it. When I see other girls do it. I want to know how they do it too!
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Hello everyone, I to seem to have this problem. Dancers don't seem to want to share they tips on what to say or what they are saying to cos. It seems as though if they tell they secret you are cutting into their money somehow. I believe girls are walking up to cos and talking dirty. One club I worked at I did doubles all night with this girl and low and behold she was talking dirty to cos and they went for it. I however, could not walk up to guys and just start wisphering in their ear and saying the first nasty thing that comes out of mouth its just not my personality. I for one would like to know what you can say without talking nasty to get a guy to go with you to the dance area in 5 min. I always had trouble doing that but I what other girls and BAM the guy is gone. ;) Thanks
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A little moan, a little breath down thier neck and tell them you want to play with them.
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^ I've done that or I'll say things like.. "I've seen you eye fucking me across the room.. I know you're ready.. lets go *grabs their hand and they usually follow*"
Works well for me.
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^ That's awesome...eye fucking...lol. Love it! Any mention of the word "naked" or "play" usually gets me some dances...it depends. However, my point is proven by this clip from one of my favourite shows:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D1sN3...om=PL&index=33
See? It works...lol. hah hah.
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maybe she's just really hot and has game
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i just go up to groups of guys and say .. " whos ready for me and my sexy boots?" (or sexy whatever different thing im wearing that day)
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exoticsteel
Hello everyone, I to seem to have this problem. Dancers don't seem to want to share they tips on what to say or what they are saying to cos. It seems as though if they tell they secret you are cutting into their money somehow. I believe girls are walking up to cos and talking dirty. One club I worked at I did doubles all night with this girl and low and behold she was talking dirty to cos and they went for it. I however, could not walk up to guys and just start wisphering in their ear and saying the first nasty thing that comes out of mouth its just not my personality. I for one would like to know what you can say without talking nasty to get a guy to go with you to the dance area in 5 min. I always had trouble doing that but I what other girls and BAM the guy is gone. ;) Thanks
I had girls ask me "what do you say to them???" and I always smile, wink and say "i just asked them if they wanted a dance and they said yes!"
haha.. of course I would NEVER tell anyone what I actuall say. Partly because it's different everytime.. i'm not gonna say "hey whats up" to a guy in his 50s+... and I never just ask "wanna dance?" with bored eyes. If its towards the end of the night its usually "hiiii *smile* we only have about 15 minutes left...*shoulder rub* we still have time to get a couple of dances in before closing... *super duper eye contact*" thats the easiest... if I know a guy saw me on stage "hiiii *smile*.. did you see me on stage? (nods with a patrick face), did you like it? (of course, you're hot, bla bla bla), it gets even better on the couch.. lets go!"
There are so many more but Its too late right now lol.. maybe i'll add later
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i was that girl the other night. i just got off the stage and saw this guy staring at me, he didnt sit at my stage, i made eye contact and smiled. that was it. i dont know what personality he was but we went upstairs and i danced for quite a while. it was awesome
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The dancer probably talked to him earlier, and she was just getting back to him.
Or
She was on stage and he was giving her the look when she got off. You know that gaze that they wont break even if their life was in danger.
Unless she is ultra advanced...you get a guy the minute he walks in the door.
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^^^^ Thats a good point. If a guy tells me 'maybe later' I ALWAYS go back to him after an hour or so and say 'So.......... It's later!' bat eyelashes/wiggle eyebrows/whatever and it usually works.