Meeting Customer Outside of Club ... HELP
I'm not sure if I'm putting this in the right category, but it's the closest I could come ... I think.
Let me start by saying that this is not something I normally do, and don't ever recommend it, but I have a customer who has been a regular of mine for going on 4 years now and he asked me to go gambling with him the next time he's in town. He's never been weird or anything (he knows no sex), and the casinos are very public so it seems safe enough. I've also picked a casino where I have a friend who deals blackjack so I've got a little bit of backup just in case.
My dilemma is what to wear. I have tons of mini dresses, but they're not really appropriate outside of work. I also don't have much of a social life and my 'going out' wardrobe is dated at best so I'm going to have to buy something new. I want to look hot of course, but I also don't want to put the goods out there for easy access if you know what i mean.
I've done some browsing and here are some outfits that I've come up with as possibles:
http://howcool.com/catalog/product_i...ducts_id=63697
http://www.sexycreationsroma.com/m22...duct_info.html
http://www.sexycreationsroma.com/m22...duct_info.html
http://www.flirtcatalog.com/p-90435-...e-dresses.aspx
http://sexycreations.com/open-back-dress-p-8424.html
http://sexycreations.com/tube-top-sk...ts-p-9563.html
http://sexycreations.com/burnout-stripe-p-7006.html
There's a couple of pants outfits that I thought were kind of cute, but it's really hot in Vegas right now so I'm not sure how comfortable they would be. I just thought it might be good in case hands start to wander ... there wouldn't be as many places for them to go. The others are pretty basic I suppose. The last one is a little longer than the others so I thought it might have some potential as well.
I love to shop, but also don't want to spend too much because it's probably not something I'll wear again for quite some time. I've had really bad luck with How Cool in the past, but I really like this dress. Is it cute enough to take the chance? I get good discounts at Sexy Creations and have never ordered from the other two. I look forward to your input.
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I like the shorter mini dresses, maybe you could wear some kind of hose underneath it? Not sure what would look good though.
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It is hard to say what kind of dress you should buy without knowing your build and complexion. I'm from the east coast so I don't know if my advice will be helpful for Vegas. I don't want to be mean those outfits are cute but they kinda seem like strip club wear. If that is the style in Vegas or what you are going for then that's cool. If not maybe you should go to a mall or clothing store and try on some different looks. When I'm dressed up out of the club I usually follow the rule of showing off one feature at a time. Like if I'm wearing a short dress and showing a lot of leg I'll go for a looser fit. You can always do the classic little black dress and dress it up with sexy heels and jewelery.
http://www.charlotterusse.com/produc...ductId=3573225
That's just an example of a classic lbd. Whatever you decide just make sure it works for your body type. I hope I didn't offend you at all:)
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Ask your customer what he'd like to see you in - then have him pay for it. Why should YOU spend any of your own money?! Lol
Have fun! :)
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Yes! This is how I got a pair of patented leather pants!
Um, I'm not in Vegas but do people really get THAT dressed up to go to the casino there? That's crazy!!!
Of the pics you put up there I think the backless dress and the tube top and pants are the best options, you should go for a cute party girl look, not a stripper/ possible hooker look.
< I know you're not a hooker, people at the casino do not!
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You guys are awesome -- Thanks for the feedback (and keep it coming please).
I don't mind paying for the outfit (for this customer) because I know I'll get it back and then some in the end. He's always been a big spender so I'm not worried about the payback (and of course I'll tell him it cost more than it actually did :) ). Plus he plays enough that the food & drinks are free so all he has to do is play & tip. I just need to be a real lucky charm! ;)
audrey_k ... I'm a fan of the short dresses too. The only downside would be hose. In the winter is no problem, but July in Vegas ... it's 80 degrees in the shade at midnight so they get a little uncomfortable. It is something to consider though ... casinos are all over air conditioned.
Marilynxoxo ... No offense taken, or possible for that matter. To go partying in Vegas you do see a lot of the girls wearing stripper outfits ... everyone wants to be Paris Hilton in the micro mini's & such. I find it a bit annoying but when in Rome.
Michelle Chanel ... Nice styles. I saw a couple that I really liked.
Gia2608 ... Honestly, if you're just a regular person going to gamble it's all jeans and t-shirts. This customer is a high roller. $200 a hand & up player with large markers so he gets to play in the private rooms. Well, they're not actually private, just 'gated' so everyone else can stand around and watch him play. You usually see people dressed up a bit more in there. Now that I'm sitting here writing this, I think you're onto something with the backless one.
Thanks again girls ... Ladies ... I REALLY appreciate it!!!!
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if he's a high roller maybe you should dress the part too. ware something more expensive and as above have him pay for it.
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If you want a classier look and more expensive. No girl can go wrong with bebe http://www.bebe.com/b/675950011?ie=U...A2FMOXN01TSNYY
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they all look like something i'd dance in. i don't know about any of you but i work night shift so when i come in during shift change and when customers see me in my every day clothes when i'm on my way to the dressing room they LOVE it. they see us in that stuff all the time at work and at work it's sexy but outside of work it's a little different. you can look dressed up and sexy without looking like you just got off stage. you know how they say men want a lady in the streets but a freak in the bed? at work it's a fun sexy fantasy but most guys want you to look classy type of sexy when you are with them not like a stripper.
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Thanks again for all the added input. I really do appreciate it because I really am not a going out kind of person.
shinysugar ... He'll definitely pay for the dress. Even so, I still can't bring myself to spend too much on it. For one, I probably will never wear it again. And second, the less the dress costs the more of his money is mine for me instead of for clothes. I'm not trying to sound cheap, and I love to shop, I just don't like wasting money and going out clothes for me is not a sound investment. :)
Michelle Chanel ... I have to say I'm not normally a BeBe fan, but there were a couple on that page you linked to that were pretty nice. We'll priced too. I'll be checking them out a little closer once I finish my morning coffee. I definitely want to be on the classier side of things, but, as he says, I have to be a good distraction for the other players as well as making him look good.
xoxo ... None of my customers have ever actually seen me in street clothes. We're not allowed to walk through the club when we're coming or going. That said, the whole lady/freak comment is completely true. Most of my work outfits are pretty skimpy though so this will be the first time he actually sees me in real clothes. I definitely need to make it count.
I've got another week to shop before I really have to lock things down & get something ordered so maybe I'll go check out what the rest of the arm candy is wearing this weekend.
Thanks again and keep the advice coming. You've really given me some good ideas and things to think about.
Good luck on today's endeavors ... Happiness & High Profits!
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Hey.. please don't buy any dresses from "stripper clothes" websites because they are meant to be worn IN THE CLUB. It will look tacky and completely tasteless if you wear it in public. I promise you! Go with
bebe.com (looks cute, I dont own anything from them though)
marciano.com (sale section is great!)
amiclubwear.com (cheap, never ordered but looks ok)
forever21.com (or in store, also cheap but sometimes you can find a goodie)
I would personally buy a dress that you may find on websites like shopbop.com or electriccouture.com but thats just me. If you buy cheap stuff, you will look cheap in them.
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CarlyMIA
Hey.. please don't buy any dresses from "stripper clothes" websites because they are meant to be worn IN THE CLUB. It will look tacky and completely tasteless if you wear it in public. I promise you!.
I agree, but I'll add that even if it looks classy online it might be stretchy, stripper-clothes material. While stripperwear is awesomely durable it just doesnt have that same pretty delicate feeling when you touch it you know? :) Bebe does have some really hot clothes but I've never worn any of it cuz of how expensive it is. This might be a nice opportunity to treat yourself (since he's buying), and to him a $120 dress is probably nothing
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Lisa G
I'm not sure if I'm putting this in the right category, but it's the closest I could come ... I think.
Let me start by saying that this is not something I normally do, and don't ever recommend it, but I have a customer who has been a regular of mine for going on 4 years now and he asked me to go gambling with him the next time he's in town. He's never been weird or anything (he knows no sex), and the casinos are very public so it seems safe enough. I've also picked a casino where I have a friend who deals blackjack so I've got a little bit of backup just in case.
My dilemma is what to wear. I have tons of mini dresses, but they're not really appropriate outside of work. I also don't have much of a social life and my 'going out' wardrobe is dated at best so I'm going to have to buy something new. I want to look hot of course, but I also don't want to put the goods out there for easy access if you know what i mean.
I've done some browsing and here are some outfits that I've come up with as possibles:
http://howcool.com/catalog/product_i...ducts_id=63697
http://www.sexycreationsroma.com/m22...duct_info.html
http://www.sexycreationsroma.com/m22...duct_info.html
http://www.flirtcatalog.com/p-90435-...e-dresses.aspx
http://sexycreations.com/open-back-dress-p-8424.html
http://sexycreations.com/tube-top-sk...ts-p-9563.html
http://sexycreations.com/burnout-stripe-p-7006.html
There's a couple of pants outfits that I thought were kind of cute, but it's really hot in Vegas right now so I'm not sure how comfortable they would be. I just thought it might be good in case hands start to wander ... there wouldn't be as many places for them to go. The others are pretty basic I suppose. The last one is a little longer than the others so I thought it might have some potential as well.
I love to shop, but also don't want to spend too much because it's probably not something I'll wear again for quite some time. I've had really bad luck with How Cool in the past, but I really like this dress. Is it cute enough to take the chance? I get good discounts at Sexy Creations and have never ordered from the other two. I look forward to your input.
The fifth link, the backless dress, that one is perfect I think. It's classy, very in style right now, very flattering without showing too much.
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Thanks carly that's what I was trying to say, the words just didn't come out right!
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Thanks again ladies! I emailed him this weekend and he thought it might actually be fun to pick what I wear so I'm off the hook! I sent him the outfits I found, as well as everything you guys suggested, and am just waiting to hear his choice. I'll let you know what he goes with.
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I've been gone for a little while, but I wanted to thank you all again for your input. He ended up ordering me the backless dress: http://sexycreations.com/open-back-dress-p-8424.html
I have to say, it was great and I looked fabulous. It ended up being a very profitable excursion with no physical (sexual) requirements. We have plans to do it again in the future!
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They have some really nice boutiques in most upscale casinos. And most guys love to take a girl shopping.
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My response is kind of late for the thread but might be helpful to other people in the same situation. I think Bebe's or marciano's dresses and even bottoms with a sexy top will do the job quite well. I find their clothes sexy but classy at the same time.
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Lisa G
I've been gone for a little while, but I wanted to thank you all again for your input. He ended up ordering me the backless dress:
http://sexycreations.com/open-back-dress-p-8424.html
I have to say, it was great and I looked fabulous. It ended up being a very profitable excursion with no physical (sexual) requirements. We have plans to do it again in the future!
That's the one I picked. It was easily the classiest on your list. What color did you go with?
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I went with the basic black. I thought about the banana but my skin is so white (my friends say I glow in the dark :) ) that I thought it might be too light for me so I decided to keep it simple the first time out ... and it worked!!!
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I bought a beautiful outfit from Express when I went on a date with an older man last year. I bought a pink shirt, a matching tank top, and some darling pin stripe pants. I picked up a bra from Victoria's Secret as well. I had to hem the pants at a tailor because they were a bit long, but the outfit has served me well.
I don't know what kinds of outfits other people wear to casinos, but I have never been much of a dress type of girl. If I was going to a casino and I was buying the outfit, I would probably wear the same outfit I bought last year because it's so damn cute. I still looked sexy, but the outfit was casual enough to be used later. I got laid that night too. ;)
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OMG ladies ladies ladies! Stripper wear outside the club is a no! ... If your going to spend money on a sexy dress... topshop.com has some fabulous dresses... very simple chic and sexy... I suggest trying a little glamorous line Sky Clothing... unicamelrose.com has a bunch.... Not trying to be judgmental at all! Coming from one fashionista to the next xo :)
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I'm with victoria! Make him take you shopping lol
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I also suggest this little black number.............