omfg please someone help me!!
i just got back omg it has been the worst night of my life i worked from 4 until now and whilst i was working someone smashed into my car and stole my stereo and gps omg i dont know what to do i think it was something to do with the club because as soon as i left and just before i got to my car the manager came out and asked me if i was ok, i said i was and then before i even got to my car i said i was fine walked to my car and then saw what happened(my car completeely smashed up) and i ran back to the club and told them what happened and they werent even surprised! the manage just came out and said he would put a black bag over the windowto make it better for when i go home! and then told me my window was smashed and my cd player was gone!!! im so fucked i dont even know what to tell my mum she doesnt even know iv been working there but she pays for my car so im going to have to tell her everything!! omg i didnt even make money tonight and then this happens! what do i do??!! also im sure its to do with the club because i saw the DJ as soon as i got out my car before i started working and iv only been working there a week omg what do i do.... i cant afford to fix this!!
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Have you called the police to file a report? You can handle this w/o your parents knowing the exact circumstances, just stay calm and think through the steps that everyone takes when they are victims of vandalism.
1. Call the cops and file a report. You are an adult and there is no reason for your parents to be involved.
2. Call you insurance company and submit a claim. You'll need the police report for the claims adjuster.
3. Stay calm. This kind of thing happens all the time to thousands of people everyday. Getting emotional with the cops or your insurance company isn't going to help you at all. Just stay relaxed and talk calmly about the situation as if you were watching it on TV. You don't have to happy about any of it, just know that this is extremely common.
You'll probably be able to get the car into a shop and fixed before your parents even have to know anything happened. After you have taken care of all the reports and paperwork, then tell your parents that your car was vandalized (tomorrow or the next day, whenever you've got the situation handled). Tell them whatever you want about where the car was or what you were doing. Just don't lie to the cops or the claims adjuster, they will know bullshit when they see it.
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I'm so sorry this happened to you. I know how you feel. You need to call the police and file a report. If you really feel that the management and/or DJ was involved then you should find a different club to work at. But unfortunately, unless they have cameras in the parking lot you probably will not find the person who did it. I don't know what to tell you about your mom. If you really don't want to tell her that you were working there then tell her you were visiting the club with some friends. But moms are wise and if you tell her she may be able to offer some good advice. Good Luck, hun.
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Holy crap hun, what club are you working at?!
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metropolis in hackney... i told the police they will find out if cameras caught anything but other than that there is nothing they can do :( anyways i will not be going back to that club now as i think that was kind of dodgy. i cant work now until i get my car fixed soooo will have to sit and be patient for a while lol.
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Oh no thats a complete nightmare for you. I had heard mixed reports about Metropolis but never things like that. I am thinking about scooting down to the coast for the summer either brighton or bournemouth or heading north to peterborough or birmingham- London really isn't much fun at the moment!
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yeahh the thing is it was actually quite a good club to work in and i had a couple of ok nights and the management was really nice but then this happens so i dont think i can go back. omg same i was thinking about that too!! a couple of girls have recommended bournemouth especially! where abouts in london are you??
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Do you think they were involved, it sounds a little sketchy to me. I was going to tell you exactly what Paris said. There's no need to tell your parents unless they see the police report. Otherwise you can tell your parents you were at a bar or shopping when it happened. That kind of "Smash and grab" crime is getting very common. FYI if I were you, when you do get a new GPS pull it off the windshield when you go inside a place, and if possible get a radio with a removeable face plate, these two things might be safer in your locker.
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^I also hide my GPS in my dashboard. I don't know if anyone would actually go to the trouble of breaking into my car to get it since it's not a very expensive one, but one less reason to break into my car works for me.
My question is, where the fuck was the valet? If someone seriously smashed the side of your car I would have to think that would be loud enough for him to take notice.
Honestly I doubt it was anyone at your club doing it on purpose... they might have done it by accident, but it's too easily traceable for vandalism. Maybe a drunk custy?
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^^^
its england strip clubs dont have valets, or anywhere else realy.
some idiot drove into my car last week and i had to miss work while i got it sorted was so pissed off!
do you think it was something to do with the DJ?
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I honestly dont know who did it. It was parked on a quiet back street near the club. The DJ saw me get out of the car and when i left for some reason the bar manager came out really radomly before i even got to my car after i left the club and theyve never done this before. Im really not sure and i dont think ill ever know but im not going back there. its soooo annoying i will have to find somewhere new to work now and i cant even do that until my car is sorted.....