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custies "busting a nut" during lapdances
This was inspired by a previous post in this forum
"if you cum in your pants, you have to tip me an extra $100 for being a lame-ass who can cum in their pants from a lapdance"
I thought that it was a GOOD thing for guys to cum in their pants during a lap dance
In fact when I was hired, my manager strictly told me that the best way to sell lap dances is to have the guy cum in his pants
So I'm a little confused here...
Is it bad for a stripper to make a guy cum in his pants?
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Re: custies "busting a nut" during lapdances
How would getting a custy off help you sell lap dances??? If the fucker gets to come then he's done buying dances. And he'll probably hang around in wet, icky pants for awhile spreading nast.
The last thing you ever want is for a custy to do that. Aside from the gross factor, he's not going to spend any more money. Sickness.
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Re: custies "busting a nut" during lapdances
What the?
I can't decide if this is a troll post or just a case of "extremely pervy and disgusting manager meets naive new dancer."
I do strip-TEASE. And I second Perry, the customer would stop spending money after they were done anyways.
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um, wow. i hope you are joking.
aren't you the same person who made a post about "falling for" your manager? a man who's basically telling you to prostitute yourself? that's so, so wrong.
lapdances are ENTERTAINMENT, *not* a sexual "release." to make sure your customer doesn't cum avoid grinding for prolonged periods of time. good luck honey, i hope you can educate yourself a little more on what being a dancer entails or you'll be eaten alive.
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Re: custies "busting a nut" during lapdances
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Originally Posted by
ticklemepink
This was inspired by a previous post in this forum
"if you cum in your pants, you have to tip me an extra $100 for being a lame-ass who can cum in their pants from a lapdance"
I thought that it was a GOOD thing for guys to cum in their pants during a lap dance
In fact when I was hired, my manager strictly told me that the best way to sell lap dances is to have the guy cum in his pants
So I'm a little confused here...
Is it bad for a stripper to make a guy cum in his pants?
Your manager shouldn't have told you this. It's the complete opposite of anything you should be doing. If this is the kind of club he is running I would suggest finding a new one. It is not your job, nor should you want to get the guys off. You are a DANCER/ENTERTAINER not a hooker (nothing bad against prostitues it's just a diff job then what we do). If guys want that they should go to a brothel. We have such disdain for the guys that do this bc it's disgusting and most of us feel it's degrading (I'm not talking about the "accidents" Im talking about this being the goal). The point of a SC is to be entertained, not to get off. If anyone is telling you differently they're lying.
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Re: custies "busting a nut" during lapdances
I'm shocked that your manager told you this! A lapdance does not involve getting a guy off at all. You should definately look into finding another club to work at.
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Re: custies "busting a nut" during lapdances
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ticklemepink
I thought that it was a GOOD thing for guys to cum in their pants during a lap dance
In fact when I was hired, my manager strictly told me that the best way to sell lap dances is to have the guy cum in his pants
So I'm a little confused here...
Is it bad for a stripper to make a guy cum in his pants?
Ugh - I hope I never have to work with you.
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Re: custies "busting a nut" during lapdances
I'm not a troll
But i am a new young stripper
I'm completely serious...unfortunately
But this isn't the same manager (p.s. I don't like my current manager in that way anymore)
I worked one night in North Hollywood
because my friend moved there to dance and I wanted to try it out
Regardless, I'm currently living in San Francisco and don't work at the club in North Hollywood
I just work at a club in SF
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Re: custies "busting a nut" during lapdances
Quote:
Originally Posted by
ticklemepink
This was inspired by a previous post in this forum
"if you cum in your pants, you have to tip me an extra $100 for being a lame-ass who can cum in their pants from a lapdance"
I thought that it was a GOOD thing for guys to cum in their pants during a lap dance
In fact when I was hired, my manager strictly told me that the best way to sell lap dances is to have the guy cum in his pants
So I'm a little confused here...
Is it bad for a stripper to make a guy cum in his pants?
Jesus. No. It isn't a good thing. It's skeevy and gross. I had it happen once, and I socked the dude in the face.
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Re: custies "busting a nut" during lapdances
however, it seems to be SOP for many San Francisco clubs ...
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Re: custies "busting a nut" during lapdances
DO NOT listen to that manager, and for god's sake, don't work for him. Not only is it somewhat gross, but you lose any chance at additional dances. If you tease them instead of getting them off, you can sell a series of dances to the guy. Once they cum in their pants, they are gonna head out immediately.
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Re: custies "busting a nut" during lapdances
listen to the above girls. It unsanitary and gross. Dont do it...please.
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Older guys manage to do it all the time at my club. And for the longest time I thought it was just spilled beer on their pants.:-[
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This is considered prostitution, not dancing. Prostitution is against the law, so do you really think this will help your stripping career? HELL NO! Id get out of that place ASAP! This has got to be a fake post I am sorry but good greif! On top of that asking for extra tips for this is not a good idea. What if dude was a cop? Think about it.
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Re: custies "busting a nut" during lapdances
It will also not make you any extra money being a dirty dancer. You charge $20 for lapdance, still the same money for a dirty dance, so you make no extra money and asking for extra money for such acts is prostitution.
There are instances where this isn't the dancers fault, some guys just cannot control themselves, but if you get caught and it is your fault or not, you will be responsible because you are an independent contractor. But girls like you who ask for it and clubs like yours hurt this industy horribly!
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Re: custies "busting a nut" during lapdances
First night stripping, the manager told me to screw guys in VIP.
Doesn't mean I did it...
Just never came back
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It can be unavoidable if the guy is wearing air thin sweatpants and is a grabby motherfucker.... but I wouldn't try to make it happen!
What club in noho was this? I have a guess :P
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Re: custies "busting a nut" during lapdances
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Originally Posted by
ticklemepink
I'm not a troll
But i am a new young stripper
I'm completely serious...unfortunately
But this isn't the same manager (p.s. I don't like my current manager in that way anymore)
I worked one night in North Hollywood
because my friend moved there to dance and I wanted to try it out
Regardless, I'm currently living in San Francisco and don't work at the club in North Hollywood
I just work at a club in SF
He's taking advantage of you bc you're a newbie. I would seriously find somewhere else to work.
A LD is sensual not sexual.
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Re: custies "busting a nut" during lapdances
Just stay out of TX, cause we don't call 911 around here
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Re: custies "busting a nut" during lapdances
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Originally Posted by
Melonie
however, it seems to be SOP for many San Francisco clubs ...
::) whatever you say.
Exactly how did you come to this conclusion? I'd be willing to bet you haven't actually worked in a San Francisco strip club within the past decade, so where are you getting this (grossly exaggerated) information?
As with any other city in the western world, there are a few sketchy clubs where too much is the norm. There are also plenty of decent clubs where you can certainly make money without ever making a customer cum in his pants. ::)
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OMG,I still hope OP wasn't serious....To OP,how do you think a strip club is a legal business if this was a job "requirement"?Please don't listen to people like that manager or customers who'll tell you to do similar things,they are just taking advantage of your naivete.Your job is to be an entertainer,nothing more!
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Re: custies "busting a nut" during lapdances
You need to make us all aware which club you are referring to here, I smell bullshit otherwise! Why would you go on protecting management and this seedy ass club, nless you want to get away with extras?
What is the club so we, and new girls like you can avoid getting into situations like these???
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Re: custies "busting a nut" during lapdances
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Originally Posted by
cyberstripper
You need to make us all aware which club you are referring to here, I smell bullshit otherwise! Why would you go on protecting management and this seedy ass club, nless you want to get away with extras?
What is the club so we, and new girls like you can avoid getting into situations like these???
she's probably embarrassed by the stupidity of it all...:-[/:O
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Re: custies "busting a nut" during lapdances
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I thought that it was a GOOD thing for guys to cum in their pants during a lap dance
In fact when I was hired, my manager strictly told me that the best way to sell lap dances is to have the guy cum in his pants
So I'm a little confused here...
Is it bad for a stripper to make a guy cum in his pants?
/facepalm
Really? I smell a fat troll...
Quote:
I'm not a troll
But i am a new young stripper
Really? Who is buying this. *sigh