Re: customers talking shit?
ugh i HATE customers like this. i'd suggest keeping it low key, you don't want to draw attention to yourself - it only causes drama. if anyone asks you about it, be HONEST. say that you had to cut your dances off early because he was being aggressive about extras, but he paid you and tipped you appropriately. also make sure that anyone that accuses you of doing extras sees you consistantly giving clean dances.
make sure that any bouncers know that if you are clearly doing something wrong, it's because you need their help and are trying to get their attention. tell them you're not the kind of girls that gives extras, but if you get in a situation where the guy just won't quit, then you're gonna be obvious about doing something that will get their attention - that way they know you need backup. don't cite the guy as a specific example, but just say you've noticed some guys are getting aggressive and you want to make sure you will remain safe.
Re: customers talking shit?
Thanks!
I know girls are talking shit that I'm doing extras because I am making more money... but I have just gotten better at hustling I guess, lol.
There is a specific area that is more secluded that the girls I've seen giving extras take their customers to, and I never go there and stay in the more open lap dance booths... so I feel like they have to have an idea I'm not doing them. But girls are so catty I can see one of them hearing it from the customer and going to the manager just to get me in trouble/fired. >:(
Re: customers talking shit?
Everyone thought I was an extras girl at both the clubs I danced at; mainly because I made a lot of money in short amounts of time. The reason I made so much is because I am good at selling (doesn't matter what I sell, I am good at it). I was also in the CR a lot; again, I am good at selling!
I helped my rep by staying in open areas of the club and not going into dark corners. I also was honest with everyone, saying I didn't do extras. I also had a really nice regular who when he heard people talking shit about me would say it wasn't true. When I was in a CR, I would keep my thong on for the majority of the time, and never stay to long in any move that would look compromising.
Hope this helps!
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^^ Same here with making TONS of money in a short amount of time & people assuming I'm an extras girl. I don't even acknowledge that kind of petty, immature b.s. Why should I? Luckily, management is familiar with my hustle (the floor managers are SO amazed at the kind of cash I can pull in just sitting with customers, fully dressed & yakking away for hours on end AND gettin' paid INSANE cash!)
I'm always polite & fair with everyone. You can't let them get to you. I've been accused of hooking & shit, but thankfully my reputation for being a straight-shooter precedes that. I know when I first started, girls would tell custies I'd do bj's for $5, that I had std's or that I could fist my own ass (my personal fave, lol). They hate how it makes me SO much money, and that in the end, I'm having the last laugh! :D
This kind of shit just comes with the job, esp. when customers tell other girls you do more for less. Or when the other girls send decoys over to try to see what you're about, your hustle, what you're willing to do & for what. They're all such SAD little fucks... If you're not doing anything that'll come back to bite you in the arse, you don't have anything to worry about!
All you can do is try to build a positive rapport with those who help YOU in the course of making money - house mom, d.j., bouncers, floor managers. Having them in your corner is imperative to being successful, safe & profitable.
With customers, ALWAYS be straightforward & honest about NOT being an extras girl. Tell the pushy ones that you make WAY more money actually being a stripper, that you don't having to stoop to selling sex, and that you're flattered how SO many people constantly have your name in their mouths, but you're just WAY too busy making $$$ to worry about that nonsense & you wish them the best! ;D
As for the other girls, don't waste your energy/time trying to defend yourself to them. They obviously see you as a threat & as BIG TIME COMPETITION! When you're innocent, you don't even HAVE to justify yourself by answering. The best revenge is to just smile & make your cash!
Re: customers talking shit?
if he "already got a blowjob" from you then wouldnt he be done? that guy sounds so dumb
Re: customers talking shit?
^I'm amazed at how many times some of these customers can go a night, makes me wonder why they have to go to the SC to get laid.