Heya, I've lurked this site a little in the past but joined because I'm after some advice and it's not really the sort of thing I can talk to my real friends about as I don't discuss work much with them.
Anyway, I am just so confused and baffled by this one guy at the club that's been coming in for the last few months. He is the most miserable guy I've ever met, just sits there with his drink staring at nothing. When I first saw him I thought I'd go over and see if I could cheer him up and maybe get a few dances. Well the latter part worked, he bought 5, but honestly, he looked even more miserable during them. I tried all of my tricks and being sexy to make him smile, but eventually the dances just became uncomfortable. He must only be early-mid twenties but he looks like he has the weight of the world on his shoulders.
He comes in a lot, barely speaks to anyone, buys A LOT of dances from me with barely a word, never smiles or seems to enjoy it, has just given me extra money on occasions without my asking. He asked to buy a pair of my shoes one time for like waaaay too much money, so i was like yeah ok, and sold them, then the next time he came into the club he had a brand new pair of louboutins for me :O I've tried talking to him to find what's up but he wont open up or anything, i don't know what his job is etc, but did say he doesn't have many friends :( He seems kind, but just so sad.
But this is the weird part, I bumped into him out of the club while shopping which was awkward, but i tried to be polite and pleasant. We spoke briefly, then he took me to an atm and gave me a load of cash to pay for all my shopping and more, and i saw his balance and it was seven figures!!!!!!
He dresses like a complete bum, doesn't seem to care about his appearance, i saw his car when he left which was a piece of crap and he looks down in the dumps and like he just wants his life to end all the time, but he's super rich?!?!?!
He suggested hanging out in future and made it clear tha he's not interested in sex or anything, and he really doesn't seem to be, he'd just like to buy me things and spoil me etc. He told me where he lives and it's in a bad area of town, not the sort of place you'd expect someone with that money to live. I declined as I'm unsure...but was I right? I mean, what is with this guy? I feel kinda bad for him, I'm so confused... :-\
Sorry for waffling on...

