selling dances and dancing for couples?
I usually avoid talking to couples, they make me sort of nervous and I usually assume they won't buy dances and rarely sell dances to them (I wonder why).
When I do talk to them, I usually just focus on the woman because I figure she's either uncomfortable or nervous about someone moving in on her man. And guys usually love seeing their woman getting picked up on by another girl.
But how do you guys hustle couples? Do you focus on the woman or the man or just be equal about it? Do you try and sell a couples dance or get the guy to buy one for the woman? How do you phrase your sales pitch?
I got my first couples dance last night. I went up to talk to them and did for a bit, talking to the guy more because there wasn't a way to sit next to the woman. The guy asked me when I was onstage and said they wanted to see me, I was like whatever and told them I would go ask the DJ. He said he would put me up next and while I was waiting the guy came up to me and said they wanted to buy a dance from me, his wife had talked him into it.
I danced for them but he seemed to just want me to dance for him, so I did but rubbed her arms/legs and touched her hair and whatnot, but she told me "don't worry about me." I just felt really awkward and like I was doing a horrible job! They bought a second from me and afterwards I told them it was my first time dancing for a couple so I hoped they enjoyed it. He asked me if I liked it and if I liked woman and I was like yeah whatever sure I'm bisexual ::) which is what I always say when guys ask me. He got super turned on and was about to ask me for more dancess when she said quickly and curtly "thanks it was nice meeting you good bye" and looked very uncomfortable and angry.
So when dancing for couples, do you focus on one or both? And what are some good moves you use?
Re: selling dances and dancing for couples?
I generally apply the rule of directing 70% of your attention to the woman and 30% to the man. If the wife/gf likes you and wants you to dance for them, the guy will follow through.
It's weird but when I dance for couples I usually end up dancing for the woman and set the man up in a chair in front of the dance booth so he can watch. That way most of the attention is on the woman and guy is enjoying the girl-on-girl show :) Either that or have them sit side by side and take turns dancing on each of them, but again always paying more attention to the woman.
Re: selling dances and dancing for couples?
I rarely bother with couples, which is silly. Most of the time they're only good for one dance, but then again last Sat I got two back to back private rooms with couples...soo.....
I talk to the women, playfully tip them with their BF's money, threaten to steal them away from their men, compliment their nice natural bewbies, tell the men how lucky they are that their GF is so cool and sexy. I just try to be funny and friendly on stage and even though I never bother asking couples for a dance, most nights they'll approach me.
Most of the time when dancing for couples, it's all about the man watching us girls together, so even though I'm dancing for her I focus mostly on what we look like together. She may say "oh no, oh no dance for him I'll just watch" pffft yea ok. No he wants me to dance with her, and he's got the money. In a regular lapdance it's all about her, in a VIP room I may spend a few minutes dancing with him to give the girl a break, but that's about it.
Unfortunately VIP couples tend to want more than I offer, so even though the money is good I will take the single guy any night.
Re: selling dances and dancing for couples?
I focus on the woman. I usually will compliment her and ask if she'd like a dance. I don't chit chat as much as I do with men. I'm more direct and to the point.
Tonight a man came up to me and asked if I'd dance for his wife. Then when I was done SHE asked me if I'd dance for HIM. It was funny. Then she asked if she could dance for me! :) It was awesome. I got paid to have a smokin hot chic dance all over ME! Ha! :) I love couples. I dance for them quite often actually.
Re: selling dances and dancing for couples?
If it's on the main floor, I turn the chairs so they are facing each other and dance in between their legs. That way the guy gets the view of my butt, and I also make sure I kneel in between her and focus more on looking her in the eye, smiling, tracing her neck and clavicle, touching her hair (if she's ok with it) while I am kneeling so the guy can see that she is enjoying it.
Then I lean back into him (remember they are facing each other) and give him a little bit of the dance with the arched back so she can watch.
Then I go back to her, usually turning around so he can see both of our faces,
Then I go to him like a normal table dance with boobs near face.
Those four positions, if you give each one 45 seconds are about one song length.
Repeat for song 2....
Re: selling dances and dancing for couples?
Always ask couples for dances and don't worry about pissing the chick off... Thats their problem, not yours. You don't need to hustle them they know before they walk through the door whether or not they are going to buy a dance. Chances are no one else is going to talk to them so they will say yes to pretty much anyone who talks to them if that's why they are there. Some people don't get jealous of anything by the way, so don't assume she's a jealous girl.