what do you do when a girl customer or a group of women or men actually come in and start degrading you or making rude comments about your body or how you dance, etc? Can you get them kicked out or do you have to suck it up and deal with it?:-\
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what do you do when a girl customer or a group of women or men actually come in and start degrading you or making rude comments about your body or how you dance, etc? Can you get them kicked out or do you have to suck it up and deal with it?:-\
Walk away. There's no reason to subject yourself to that. The other girls will likely stay away from them as well and they will leave on their own.
Walk away and tell all the other girls so that they get ignored.
At my club, if the customers are loud about it, they can get kicked out. If they're not being too loud, we usually just walk away, though some girls will get really riled up. However, the ones who are degrading are usually also somewhat grabby, and the instant someone puts their hand on me, I get to go tattle to the bouncer. And the bouncer will go up to the guy, and if he doesn't like what the guy has to say, the guy gets thrown out.
I've gotten this a few times at work. The worst two was a bachelor party making fun of me on stage. The second was two guys... one told me he was going to buy a dance, so while we were talking the 2-4-1 special came on. He kept wanting me to say "what's going to happen" and I told him "let me get naked and show you!" and he wouldn't let it go. The other guy kept telling me I had a horrible hustle and should have his friend in the LD room. The the special ended and the guy told me maybe later. I lost it and went off on both of them. And got yelled at by my manager and almost fired...
It's really not worth your time, just ignore it.
Just walk by and "accidentally" spill a drink in their lap. }:D Works like a charm.
^^^I'm a fan of this move.
Ignore it. I know it's annoying but why give any response to some dumb asses. Don't let it effect you.
You can do two things: walk away or take their money some how.
This works for all groups. If one person is being a shit, turn around and talk to someone who is not a complete douche. Sometimes I stick my butt in the rude persons direction (sometimes less than a foot away from their face. ::) ) while I'm chatting up someone else in the group.
Sometimes it is best to walk away but use your judgment what you think is best. (You don't have to do the butt thing...)
...Oh yeah and never be insulted by negative comments ever. ;)
Walk away and ignore it... but be sure to tell the other girls & management so it doesn't get out of hand.
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Walk away mumbling your personal thoughts on how they are handling themselves... just loud enough for them to hear.
No one is perfect, so all the outright judgment is totally unnecessary.
They are being rude because they want to get a reaction out of you.If you ignore and go about your business they won't get what they wanted and will back off or try to get it from someone else.
Sometimes it IS very hard to hold it in though
Those used to intimidate the hell outta me, but once you're able to feel out the weakest link, it's very profitable! I go for the shyest, most timid guy, boost his ego in front of everyone, then take him aside & rape his wallet, atm cards, whatever. I've even made him go back to the group to borrow $$$ from his buddies, it's hilarious! Luckily I was able to get some of my highest spending regulars this way, so now I look forward to rude groups. ;)