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In most clubs business will suffer if the ratio of black women is significantly higher than the population in the area the club is in. Customers do want some variety, but the fact remains that what men want is what they will stay and spend money on. For whatever reasons, customers don't want to see a really high ratio of black dancers unless there are a lot of black customers in the club. If the customers don't like the lineup of dancers, they won't stay--and EVERYONE working in the club suffers. It's not racism, it's business.
We have been beating shit out of the club down the street for over a year now, despite the fact that they spent frar more money on their construction and interior, and they are known for having a lot of 'Barbiedoll' type dancers. The one night they did beat us very clearly, in the last several months, was the night we had about 33% percent black dancers working, which was an unusually high ratio, and also a lot of 'thick' white girls. That was very unusual, and now we are back to ripping their balls off on a regular basis.
There are so many racial types and cultures represented here in Key West it is amazing. Generally speaking we have about a third hispanic/latin (actually from Central or South America), a third Eastern european, mostly Czech or Russian, and a little less than a third USA citizens, about a third of whom will be black, including one of the most beautiful dancers I have ever worked with, a living doll named Jenna. It is the perfect mix for the customer base which is roughly the same in Key West.
While I have had a great deal of trouble with inflexibility in music and lousy tipping from black dancers, some of them have been extremely professional, flexible in musical selection, and excellent tippers. So you can't judge them harshly, of course not. But you can't freak out if owners and managers want to retain a balanced rotation.
Speaking of which, it's frequently the black dancers who don't want me putting them back to back in the rotation. That is one very strict rule in the vast majority of the clubs I have worked in or heard about--keep the rotation changing so there is always a variety. It's a rule because it keeps the money coming in.
As far as customers go, a thug is a thug whatever race they are, and most of them neither spend money nor show nearly the level of respect to the dancers that I want to see. If they are getting rude, grabby, not spending money, and insulting the dancers, hell yes I will play music to discourage that activity, and hell yes it works.
We have several black bouncers in the party complex I work in. I would go to the wall for these guys and they would do the same for me. That's all that matters.
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8) It's not racism, it's business. In a busy strip club, time is money and I tend to gravitate to guys who from my experience, like to buy from me. Usually it's Asians, nerdy white guys, old professor types.
I've made money from black guys usually older and the young, professional types. Guys with hip hop "bling" are normally huge time wasters.
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Djoser
In most clubs business will suffer if the ratio of black women is significantly higher than the population in the area the club is in. Customers do want some variety, but the fact remains that what men want is what they will stay and spend money on. For whatever reasons, customers don't want to see a really high ratio of black dancers unless there are a lot of black customers in the club. If the customers don't like the lineup of dancers, they won't stay--and EVERYONE working in the club suffers. It's not racism, it's business.
This is true. Clubs also refuse to hire senior citizens and big fat ladies as dancers, but nobody accuses them of being prejudice against old people and fat people. Racism implies that the clubs owners are judging people based on their race, which simply isn't true. Hiring quotas are about giving customers what they want. It's not only business, it's good business.
That said, I don't discriminate when it comes to race or anything else really. After 13 years of dancing, I've had every one of preconceived notions challenged and proven wrong over and over. I've had young teardrop tattooed thugs take me to a champagne room and sit on their hands, and the best dressed most respectful looking middle-aged guys try to finger my ass as they slip one dollar into my garter.
You simply can't judge how people will spend or act in a strip club by the way they look. You can guess and be right most of the time, but if you're choosing to sit in the dressing room rather than talk to a black guy, then you are just not very smart.
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Damn I hope I'm tactful enough since I want to contribute. Sorry if this is lengthy.
I'm just going to put this out there: Strippers avoid most groups for a number of reasons. Nuff said. One it's easier to approach men who are solo. They are an easy sale and are usually there to spend. So when all the easy sales are spent, we move in onto other avenues. It is analog. We are instinctive and do what works. We learn real quick sub-consciously by rewards and failures.
My body type is 'thick' and or 'curvy' but my club gets a mix of lot of business types, high rollers and blue collar types.
Chinese, Korean and Japanese American men adore me. (Japanese men absolutely hate me! I'm old and obese.)
East Indian men love me.
Some black men think I'm scrawny. LOL Some will settle.
Mexican and white men love it if I'm bossy or don't take their shit.
Why I won't dance for certain groups in no particular order:
*Too handsy and too cheap.
*Entitlement issues.
*Exclusively looking for the hookup and not there to spend money.
*Thinking money can buy you anything.
*I'm not slutty enough.
So my list of four types of customers that I don't like or wont dance for pretty much sums up a majority of men who frequent strip clubs.
One example of a small group of customers - A guy told me not to bother talking to his friend because he only likes black girls and told me "good luck". I just glanced over in his direction and smiled and he looked at me, paused, grabbed my hand said "let's go to the VIP." snatching me away from the guy I was hustling.
Some guys will only, only, only dance with Asian women. They have to fuckin announce it like they are special with such refined taste. Those guys bother me.
It's a two way street in my opinion. Some men are very disappointed when I tell them I'm not Asian and then they wont buy a dance which is dumb because they like what they see but when they find out the details the prejudices come out.
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As far as customers go, a thug is a thug whatever race they are
Right on! It's not about the race, although different ethnic groups seem to favor certain "cultures" more that can be either positive or negative. I for example have had mainly two kinds of Indian/Middle Eastern customers: either sleazy macho young guys (gold jewellery, white shirt, lots of hair gel and aftershave...) who think you're a prostitute, or intelligent students that dress either nerdy or casual stylish and are very polite. Older black guys are usually nice whereas the 'young pimp daddys' I stay as far away as I can. Never have had a bad experience with Japanese men of any age, that's why they're my other favourite. The other favourite group I call cavemen, after Nick Cave, because these a bit gothic brooding guys and me get on like a house on fire. Also old white guys and middle aged white working class guys usually like me and therefore I like them. White 'lads' and business suits on the other hand I can't handle unless they just want a dance and keep their hands to themselves, conversation with them doesn't lead into anything after their chauvinism and egotism makes me turn very cold.
About experiencing or witnessing racism, I have seen a pretty Indian girl struggling to make money when most of the other girls were white even though the clientele was quite 50-50 white and Asian. Blondes, natural or not, were also clearly favored.
As for myself I've received mean looks from blacks and latinas in a clubs where they were in the majority, probably just because I was/am the skinny white chick, hadn't really done anything else to piss them off./:O
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Some hiring quotas are based on good business. Others are based on a few hatefule or racist people in power and the opinion isnt in the best interest of the club.
Some hiring quotas are because " im sorry your beautiful but the owner just doesnt like black women personally, he thinks theyre unattractive and doesnt want any to work here ever, i think your gorgeous so im going to hire you on probabation as long as you dont act too ghetto and bring around a bunch of black people". In a city that is largely black in a neighborhood mostly black , in a large club w/ mixed race custies ...and i was the only black girl to work their along w/ 1 friend who was too gorgeous for them to not hire i think it may have been years before or after that another WOC danced there.
That was not about good business but the owners preference and their business did/is suffering. I made bank off of stage as i was like the only exotic looking girl out of almost 100. The customers loved me and were sooooo awesome. the staff and girls were horrible and kept yelling racial slurs loud enough for me to hear. My friends nice acura had a puncture in the tire when we got home. I guess thats my most negative experience w/ racism in clubs and it kinda had to do w/ a hiring quota/racist owner/club.
Fortunately i dont really have another story quite like that in 11 years....but i also only go where i know im wanted. I tell people before i audition over the phone now. I called another club in pittsburgh and bust out laughing at the owners response "ill tryyyyyy not to hold your races against you , come on in" lol. They were cool in that aspect.
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Yes, I personally know two club owners who are very racist, and they both let that spill over into their business decisions. They are stupid. I've also known managers and owners in other businesses who did the same. It crosses all walks of life.
I worked at a Pizza Hut eons ago; one day a young attractive black girl came in during the slow time to apply for a job. I didn't know where the applications were so I went to the manager who asked me what the girl looked like. The manager had JUST said a day or two prior that she was looking for another waitress. She asked me what the girl looked like, and I asked what she meant - "you know, clean, neat..." so I said yes she looked neat and also pretty. Manager got right up to go talk to her, but when she got to the girl, she told her "we're not hiring". I was 18 or 19 and that was my first time seeing such blatant workplace racism, and I was shocked, appalled, and disgusted knowing I was one of that manager's "favorites". A few days later, in conversation with other employees, they started talking about how racist the manager was, and how she didn't realize one of the cooks was half black (he was very pale), and if she ever found out he'd get fired, and we all agreed to keep our mouths shut. I didn't last much longer there.
In most strip clubs I've worked, the hiring quotas used are generally done as a business decision to reflect the customers and their tastes, because clubs are in business to make money not be PC. However it is my opinion that those club owners and managers who are racist and show it get away with it more in our industry than in others.
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I am not a racist by any means. Really.
But, I won't dance for anyone that doesn't speak English (no matter where they are from). I've just had way too many bad experiences that were either truthfully or falsely explained by lack of communication. IOW, I think there are some foreign guys who "pretend" not to understand the rules. Then there are some who genuinely don't "get it".
Either way, I don't have the patience for it anymore.
That being said, I'll dance for anyone of any race so long as they are respectful. I really don't care. In fact, I like talking to and dancing for people of all different backgrounds, especially foreigners, because I like learning about different cultures and just hearing different accents and whatnot. The job can get repetitive, so it's a nice change. I just have to be able to communicate with them.
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BuxomBeauty
In most strip clubs I've worked, the hiring quotas used are generally done as a business decision to reflect the customers and their tastes, because clubs are in business to make money not be PC. However it is my opinion that those club owners and managers who are racist and show it get away with it more in our industry than in others.
Yeah I would say this sums it up pretty well. While I haven't personally seen racist hiring policies per se in action, I have no doubt it does occur. Just not nearly as often as some dancers feel it does--like I say, I haven't seen it at all or heard of it from anyone I know personally in ten years in the business.
What's funny is (OK funny in a sort of bad way), in spite of the fact that I have yet to work in a club where blacks were discouraged from working as a deliberate policy of racism, I have worked in a couple of clubs where the managers or owners were racist as hell, but nonetheless hired all the black girls or any other girls of any race that they could get.
They didn't give a fuck about it, all they cared about was getting as many house fees as they could. Consequently they would hire not only way more black women than the customers were willing to pay to dance, but also some of the ugliest, nastiest women imaginable. There simply were no hiring standards at all, none whatsoever. The only requirement was a possession of a vagina, and even that was in doubt in a few cases from what I heard and could tell from appearance (these were not the nude clubs I worked in, lol).
Which of course is really fucking bad for business. You want to make money in a stripclub, you have to have rational hiring standards.
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Clarifying here: I am not racist and I'll dance for anyone of any race who isn't an asshole. But I have learned over the years that my odds of experiencing sales, no sales or harassment are higher with certain races, cultures, genders. I am not **afraid** to approach anyone, but I prefer to try and minimize wasting my own time and well-being by not cold-approaching people who fit certain criteria. If they signal or directly invite me, I will happily oblige (except in the case of straight/bi women or couples, I often refuse them, just tooooo much hassle for the money).
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Ugh, there are some truly ignorant mofos in this thread. Good Gawd. Anyway, I've never had any problem getting hired at any club I've worked at and I agree that there should always be reasonable and some standard of hiring practices at the club. Clubs don't want to become a "black" club, so many are reluctant to hire "too many" black dancers. The question is what is too many? There is truly no real way to find out if a dancer will 'sink or swim' until you hire them. Clubs hire black girls, they happen to make no money, then they say oh, black girls don't sell, instead of SHE couldn't sell. I am in no way saying that it isn't harder for black women in this business. It is a lot harder. Yes a club should cater to its clientel/demographics, but a larger club that won't hire a couple of black girls is bullshit. As long as they look decent then they should be given an opportunity. Luckily I've never experienced this, as I got hired everywhere.
I ask everyone for a dance and I will dance for everyone of any background/nationality. I dance for mostly white men, then I would say mexican and middle eastern men second, and rarely black and asian men. I get the most problems with white men because that is who I primarily dance for. There are nights when it seems like every guy is grabby or an asshole of some sort. Then there are times when they are all cool. If I let a 'bad asshole week' spoil me off white guys, then I would make no money. I simply don't sell to enough men of other races to make a profit, not to mention that the customer base is mostly white. I rarely dance for blacks, but one of the best tips I've ever gotten on a lapdance was from a black guy. Imagine if I had avoided him because he was black and was going to "give me problems," based sheerly on that fact. I would have lost that $$$. If guys are trying to "holla" at you then why wouldn't you just walk away? One of the best 'features' of this job is our ability to walk away. I will NEVER understand why any entertainer would avoid a group of people based on race. Yes, go to who you think you can sell to first. That is smart and thats business. It shouldn't matter what race a custy is. Keep doing it though, more money for us who are more tolerant.
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Yes, if I was a tolerant person I would just ignore the dozen times I've had to have a young black guy thrown out of the club because he refused to leave me alone. I would just tolerate him walking up to me when I'm talking to a paying customer and tell the customer not to buy dances from this "greedy bitch".
Maybe I'd just go ahead and give them the free dances they want or I should really be tolerant and go ahead and let them pimp me out because hey, I'm there to make everybody feel equal and happy not to make money for my bills, right?
You want to call me ignorant go for it. I already said I'll approach people who are acting like CUSTOMERS but a jackass white guy will leave me alone when I tell him to go fuck himself while a jackass black guy will follow me around and do everything in his power to destroy my night until I have him thrown out. I will not waste my time on it, if that offends you then so be it.
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i could not even post here this morning i was so irritated by some of the asinine postings. that said, everybody gives me money unless my tattoos freak them out. i have one of those weird looks that translates to whatever culture i am mingling with. thank god i speak spanish cause the super shy spanish speakers love it when i bust out with my espanol.
when we walk into clubs we have the opportunity to leave certain social graces and respect at the door. we can choose to ignore social norms and let all our dirty laundry air. i have heard more rascist b.s. in strip clubs than anywhere.
the power suits get to try and finger your butt and the scared get to come out of the closet and hate.
i think its incredibly dumb to avoid anyone that might give you money.
people are so pliant and gullible they like to believe the media more than their own instincts.
there are fuckers in every color.
i personally enjoy interacting with as many different "types" as i can. the more you step outside of yourself the more you learn.
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This is true. Clubs also refuse to hire senior citizens and big fat ladies as dancers, but nobody accuses them of being prejudice against old people and fat people...
Get this, one club I worked in had a Russian woman working there who was really, really unattractive. She looked like a fucking babushka (Russian slang term for an old lady, named after the distinctive bandanna type thing they tend to wear over their hair). She didn't wear a babushka, but her hair was really stupid looking, like a really bad imitation of a 1940's hairstyle. She was also fat (though sad to say I have worked with fatter). And she couldn't dance for shit, her efforts being almost comical if she wasn't so repulsive, like when she would sort of try to stand on her head and clumsily roll over while doing so. To top it all off she wore one of those distinctive WalMart grandma perfumes you could smell a mile away. I always knew she was near the DJ booth because of this goddamned perfume.
Anyway a new and much wiser manager came along and tried to cleanup the dancer rotation of ugly and fat women of several races killing our business every fucking time they went up, by saying they could work dayshift but weren't allowed to scare customers away by going onstage after 9 PM. The babushka was the first to go, praise all the gods.
So, get this, the woman sued the club for age discrimination! I have no idea how old she was, she actually looked to be in her late twenties or early 30s, but a sort of advanced aging process appeared to be at work at the same time, sort of like in those little kids with that weird disease who look 60 at age 8 kinda thing. Maybe she was a sort of weird young-looking babushka of 40, tops.
Anyway we had to rehire her just to avoid the hassle of a frivolous but possible expensive lawsuit. Fortunately for everyone--the other dancers, the customers, the bartenders trying to sell drinks to customers complaining about nasty looking dancers of all races clearing the tiprail, and myself trying to run a fucking show up there in the booth--she left soon afterwards anyway, possibly because like so many dancers some of these clubs put onstage even though no one wants to see them up there, she wasn't making jackshit.
I still joke with Maria, the exquisite Puerto Rican dancer whom I miss to this day, about the bubushkas. This might make me a racist in the eyes of some, but she started it (there was another Russian dancer she was fighting with who looked sort of like a babushka).
ETA--Broke long post into two for ease of reading.
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One of the best customers I ever had was this thug black guy, complete with tear drop tattoos. He saw my Nine Inch Nails tattoo and was like, "Oh my god, girl, I fucking love NIN!"
I was really taken aback, and I said, "Really?"
And he was like, "Oh, yeah, I fucking hate that hip-hop shit. I just dress like this. I like real music."
I thought that was wicked funny, and when I went onstage right after that, he made it rain several hundred dollars. He didn't buy any dances, but kept tipping me $20's every few minutes just for talking to him. And several of the club's black dancers kept coming up and telling me (in front of him), "What are you doing? Those guys hate the rocker chicks. You're not going to make any money, so move and let me talk to him." He got mouthy with them after awhile and told them to fuck off because he was having fun talking to me, and they tried to get him kicked out for it.
That whole night made me really, really angry, and I think I ended up calling in for like a week because I didn't want to deal with any of those girls, I was so pissed. When I finally came back I found out they'd all been fired when they got caught doing that shit to someone else.
The guy never came in again...don't know if it's just a coincidence, or if it's because the way he was treated in there.
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One of my favorite customers ever was a black guy who loved Metallica and tipped really well for it. He apparently used to be a DJ as well, but always resisted my offer to get him hired at that club.
One of the funniest stories I ever heard about reverse racism was from good friend of mine I worked with in Daytona who had this black guy hounding her to try sex with a black guy because she would like it so much better, who finally got pissed off at her and called her racist for not agreeing to meet him after work. She never told him she was engaged to a black guy. :D
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ETA--broke this off from previous post for ease of reading.
The most ridiculous case of really, really stupid hiring practices I have seen was one of the several Daytona clubs I worked in that were affiliated with biker gangs, one of these clubs that would hire hideous women of all races just to get their house fees, despite the fact that the manager was one of the worst bigots I have encountered in my entire life.
They hired a whole bunch of new black dancers right at the climax of Race Week in Daytona. When rednecks from all over the southeastern United States come to get fucked up and try to get blowjobs while listening to horrible country music (though it must be said that as in any racial/cultural profile group, there were many fine outstanding examples of humanity, and that not all country music sucks donkey balls). Well they came to the right place for that, since in addition to having no hiring standards whatsoever, they had no fucking rules about blowjobs, or fucking, in the private dance room.
So anyway, being a smallish club, I think they had maybe 27 dancers that thursday of Race Week, just when it was really starting to kick in, and when I as head DJ started my weekly schedule. Well 8 of the 27 were black, which might have been OK even though 500 out of every 500 customers were crackers demanding Toby Keith and Alan Jackson while trying to bargain down the price of getting their dick sucked to 15$ a song.
Only, get this, no one explained the music rules in effect that week to the new dancers when they hired them. It was up to me to tell them they had their choice of classic rock or country. Almost every one of the eight black dancers were pissed as hell when I put them up to rock, even when I tried to play rock/rap remixes such as that RunDMC/Aerosmith Walk This Way, etc. I also played a lot of Limp Biskit and Kid Rock since it has a bit more of a funky sound for rock, even though the rednecks wanted Mel Tillis, just to try to keep the new girls from screaming at me from the stage that they couldn't dance to the music as they kept doing over and over again all night long.
I should have just played the fucking Kenny Chesney and let them scream at me from the stage, because I wound up losing my head DJ status for trying to take care of those new black dancers, and all the other dancers of all races that insisted they could only dance to hardcore rap no matter what the customers wanted--and later lost the job altogether for daring to justify my actions to one of the owners, who happened to be French. My knowledge of French gained from one of the top ten universities in the country did me no good whatsoever in this case.
I also tried the trick I used the week before (when there were a lot of rednecks there already) with all the girls of all races, that said they couldn't possibly dance to anything but hardcore rap, no matter what the customers wanted to hear. This was playing old school booty music at the very end of the night when the rednecks were drunk and had gotten blown and were happy as pigs in a sty, and getting all the dancers that wanted rap up there at once. The cooler of the two French owners liked this as he saw the rednecks liked it, and it made the girls happy as I had promised them I would do it all through the night playing rock and country. The asshole French owner blew a gasket when I did it that thursday night, though, and came running up to the booth yelling at me, his face almost literally purple with rage.
Though it should be said that the straw that broke the camel's back losing me head DJ status was following the cool owner's (who wasn't there that night) strict orders NOT to put one of the most hideous dancers I have ever seen up onstage. This woman, who happened to be white, looked pretty much like the exorcist girl, with two black eyes from her white trash boyfriend breaking her nose a couple days earlier, really really bad skin on her bloated looking face, really shitty cornrows, and those weird ice blue contacts that completed her look of demonic possession. Oh and she was fucking fat as well. And her costume was a prison outfit.
But the different owners had different policies about putting nasty ugly dancers of all races up, and didn't tell me I was supposed to change the rules each night, so I got in serious trouble for it.
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Djoser
So, get this, the woman sued the club for age discrimination!
Ha, I guess I was wrong.
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Well not really, I've never heard of such a thing before, and the case was ridiculous. She would no doubt have lost it but the owner didn't want to fuck with it, legal fees, time in court, etc.
It is a funny story though. ;D
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i could not even post here this morning i was so irritated by some of the asinine postings. that said, everybody gives me money unless my tattoos freak them out. i have one of those weird looks that translates to whatever culture i am mingling with. thank god i speak spanish cause the super shy spanish speakers love it when i bust out with my espanol.
when we walk into clubs we have the opportunity to leave certain social graces and respect at the door. we can choose to ignore social norms and let all our dirty laundry air. i have heard more rascist b.s. in strip clubs than anywhere.
the power suits get to try and finger your butt and the scared get to come out of the closet and hate.
i think its incredibly dumb to avoid anyone that might give you money.
people are so pliant and gullible they like to believe the media more than their own instincts.
there are fuckers in every color.
i personally enjoy interacting with as many different "types" as i can. the more you step outside of yourself the more you learn.
That's you. I don't think you should call how other ppl feel or other ppls experiences assinine based on what YOU do. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and to conduct business the way THEY want. If you're ok with subjecting yourself to the types of ppl you mentioned more power to you.
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I have had bad experiences with Bosnian and Indian men. Almost every single one has gotten overly grabby, rough, and hinted at/outright asked for extras. Of all the black men who come into my club that I have talked to, only one has ever spent any money on me, all the rest want to "take me to dinner." I don't avoid those groups of men, and I will certainly dance for them, but I don't go out of my way to approach them, nor will I spend any significant amount of time with them without getting any money.
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I don't approach Asian men anymore. I don't mean men of Asian background, but those who are actually from Asian countries. I've been mistreated by absolutely every one of them that I've approached in the club.
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Ugh, why can't people just discuss their experiences without getting all pissy about it? We all have different experiences.
For me, some of my best customers have been black and latin, mostly younger (definitely under 40, a large percentage under 30). Even in Vegas where there ARE lots of young guys of all races not spending money on the dancers but always trying to get a date - these are usually local in my experience, and young locals in Vegas are generally spoiled, entitled little twats. But if I avoided young ethnic guys just because some of them are assholes (some of the young white ones are assholes too), I'd lose out on a lot of money. There have been so many times a non-white guy in his 20s made my entire night, I'd be stupid to avoid them. Young tourists in Vegas, of any race, can be money.
A little story: I found that where I worked in Vegas, the cheap young assholes tended to hang near the bar area. One night I was having a really hard time selling anything and went to the bar for a drink. As I walked by, a young black guy reached through the crowd to touch my hand. I stopped to talk to him for a minute and he almost immediately invited me for a drink at his table where he started handing me $100s just sitting there while he waited for his friends to show up. As soon as his friends arrived and got settled, he took me to VIP and made my whole night. If I had avoided all young guys at the bar just because a lot of them were assholes, I would not have made that money that night - it really was a terrible night with a ton of non-spending assholes (many of whom were older businessmen).
But I've always made money off young ethnic men everywhere I go. Maybe I make money off them because of my looks, but I'm inclined to believe a lot of it is due to my attitude. I don't have a problem with any race, and I'm sure that shows in my behaviors at work. I probably get more young ethnic men willing to spend money on me because I don't project negativity to them, unless they give it to me first.
With all normal people, you get what you put out. If you think a certain group of people are assholes, that's going to reflect in the way you talk to and look at them, whether you realize it or not, and they will respond accordingly.
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If I would have been calling someone out, I would have done it directly, the way that you just did jayATee ;D
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^ Nice bait! However, since this thread has been completely drama free (with a few exceptions) Im not biting. ::)