How to Ask for Tips??? $$$
Hey, I'm new to this forum and new to the industry of stripping. I have my first audition tomorrow (Wish me luck!!!) And I was just reading TONS of these awesome articles and wondering...
How to Ask for Tips???
-What are your best lines you use to ask for tips?
-What are the best lines you've ever heard of/read to ask for tips?
Also if you have any other advice, that would be really appreciated!
Thanks so much.
Also my stage name is going to be "Jasmine". I picked it because I am Asian and Jasmine is a flower native to southeast Asia and the petals only open up at night. So I thought that was really clever and cute. :D
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I hope that some girls respond to this, I´m really in need of some advice!!!
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There is a search button at the top of the page hon. There is a plethora of info that already answers all your questions. Just search on the topics.
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Asking for tips is tricky.
I vary my approach depending on the customer. If I have a good rapport with them I like to round up to easier numbers because my dances go in increments of $40; "so, the dances come to $160, but 200 is such an easier number..." and smile and wrap my arm around them or give them a kiss on the cheek. I can usually tell if that's going to be too aggresive and so I'll use something lighter like "so the dances come to x, and your tips are much appreciated" in a lighthearted way with a big smile.
I can tell with some customers they do NOT want to be asked, and so I just make it clear it's the price for the DANCES because it doesn't cross soMe guys minds to tip, especially if they are new to SCs ( and a lot of them think that we just keep everything).
However if the customer is a regular I would never bring it up.
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Don't get too hung up on any stage name. Jasmine is very popular and another girl may already be using it.
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I used to say, "It's $x for the dances, and of course you can tip me if you want."
Now, I work in a club where everyone pays in advance, so I can't use that line anymore. Instead, I get dressed right in front of them so that they can't get out of the booth until I'm done. If they haven't tipped me by the time I'm dressed, then I simply say, "You can tip me if you want." and smile. Sometimes, I ask them if they had fun first.
I think that for a lot of guys, tipping on dances just doesn't occur to them, so you have to let them know that it's ok.
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when they're counting the money out for me, and they only count out how much the dances were, i make a pouty face and say "i didn't do a good job?" in the cutest way i can. they always say, "no, of course you did!" and thats when i say "well then wheres my tip?"
and then they reach for their wallets.
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I dont dance anymore, and I havent for a couple years. i used to put my hand out, with a big smily cute face say .. gimme me money! I know it sounds forward but it worked. If they say they dont have any more, tell them you dont believe them very sad. or .. let me see ... you have a credit card, give me that, I will go to the machine for you, whats your pin number.
lol.
I never really beat around the bush ... I want money, you have money, give it to me.
You cant do this with everyone. You have to read your custies. Different tactics will work with different custies. Some of them you dont have to ask. Some of them are more than happy to give big fat tips.
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We have a spiel at my club that most of us go through right before giving a private dance. "The better the tip, the better the dance." I'll follow that up with, "Most guys like to tip up front, to get it out of the way." Then the customer will start digging in his pockets. If they pull out something shitty, I'll start dancing way far away from them, like against the wall, and after a few moments I say, "Remember, if you want the dance to get better at any time, just tip more." Then they usually start digging in their pockets some more.
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I absolutely love the "I didnt do a good job?" question. Im going to work that line on my next shift.
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^ thats brilliant, i shall try this. i saw a waitress get a $1 tip from a guy who acted like he'd given her a grand and shes like, no no sweety, you need a $1 more at least. it worked for her!
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I thought I had responded to this ooops. If ur already dancing in the burgh I hope u figured out that it is the absolute norm for custies to tip in rooms and dances. Most do up front (encourage this:better tip better dance) and some do after. Don't let em get high contact touchy in rooms if they don't tip up front. I don't allow any touching w/o a tip in vip rooms.
Same goes for wv tipping is the norm. If u don't ask you'll end up making less than other girls just be cutesy flirty and polite about it....but like I said my motto is 'better tip better dance".