How to "milk" being the new girl at a club...
At one point, you were all new to a club and I was wondering what you said or what other girls you have heard said about being "the new girl" in order to get a dance with ease or more tips.
Example: "I'm new and I'm really shy... but for some reason I feel really comfortable with you, would you do the honor of being my first lap dance customer?" *Wide smile*
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i guess its a sign to get the fuck out of a club if customer after customer keeps saying "i dont dance with new girls". wish i had gotten the hint faster...
anyway, that would work nicely in a club that is not completely filled with guys that have their regular girls who go home with them for the price of a dance.
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pinkkitten
anyway, that would work nicely in a club that is not completely filled with guys that have their regular girls who go home with them for the price of a dance.
:O thats unfortunate..
i want to add, thats a great line, however, keep in mind that guys sometimes thinks you're more susceptible to their moves.
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^ Agreed. Honestly this isn't something I'd advertise.
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I always over exaggerate how long Iv been dancing. If they know you are new, they think they can pull shit and take advantage of you
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The only guy who seeks out "the new girl" is usually the one who is trying to take advantage of the new girl.
Fake it til ya make it!
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I was also wondering why do guys want to know how long I have been dancing? what's up with that? sorry jasmine for hijacking your thread I hope you don't mind .
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^^^Nope I don't mind at all!
Thanks to everybody who responded, I will keep the fact that I'm new to stripping to myself. I'll just let the customers who go to my club regularly- realize that I'm new to the club (not necessarily the industry) on their own.
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Chiming in on the newbie thing - most guys who are turned on by that are just looking for someone to take advantage of. I think when strippers talk about "new girl money", we are referring to being new to the club, not new to the business ;)
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^^^Thanks for clarifying, I was confused but now I get it! :-)
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yes, I tell people I started at the club a few months ago, (true), so I'm (semi) new to them. In reality, I've been in this business for almost 10 years, but I am fortunate to still look really young, and I don't want to give hints to my true age. Not because I'm embarrassed about my true age, but I find it works better for my money if I am ambiguous and mysterious about how old I really am.
The beginners luck works, I believe because custies are curious, wanna check you out, and see if you are gullible, or easily taken advantage of.
Now I'm thinking about it, I did seem to get a lot more champagne rooms my first few weeks, but I think the reason was because I hadn't worked in months, and was REALLY HUNGRY. and not burnt out or jaded in anyway, just a fresh beginning.
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Customers usually follow up this question with where else have you worked? They want to make sure they're not going to get a bad experience with somebody new who doesn't know what they're doing.
I usually emphasize how much I like the club. That way they know I'm doing well here (I must know what I'm doing) and I get along with everybody (I'm a nice person to spend time with).
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Yes, I've gotten this question too, as I have done a lot of traveling as a dancer in the past. I always enjoyed the weekday cash, and the perk of being one of the newer faces in the club for the week. It seems like every Monday, I was the new girl, in a new town, at a new club.
I don't think it's wise to let a guy know how long you've been dancing, that's really irrelevant, especially if you're someone who can play up the role of the girl next door, or the young college co-ed, or whatever. It's just another awkward question that men ask, in lieu of something more appropriate to talk about. Change the subject to anything (except money, religion or politics) and move on from that area. In my experience, conversations like these don't often end up with any noteworthy results.
Sometimes in response to this question, I'll say something like, "I've been dancing since I could walk," or again, "I was just gonna ask you that same question!" Really, they've got to know that questions like that are silly and inappropriate. I try to avoid being too unfriendly, by throwing a witty question or comment back at them when questions like this do arise. I think that being quick-witted is a major part of being successful in this line of work.