Newb needs first outfit advice... Please help!
I am officially starting next Wednesday, I'm soooo excited!!! I just bought my shoes, Multi-color light ups and now I must buy my first outfit online!
HELP ME CHOOSE 1 PLEASE...
A. Black and Red Flames Skirt Set
B. Salsa style Multi-Color Skirt Set
C. UV Yellow Skirt Set
D. Metallic Violet Bikini Set *** This is the one I'm getting, thanks for the advice!!!
***Added another picture- I am going to get a belly dancing hip scarf to go overtop, what do you gals think? I think it looks totally cute- has the same violet color as the bikini in it- and will also incorporate some of the colors from the light up shoes I got!!!
Background information that could help you in deciding: I'm 5'5" without shoes on, petite frame with decent sized A cup, I'm Asian with long black wavy hair, I do smokey eye makeup with clear lipgloss, I will be working in an upscale gentlemen's club.
THANKS!!!
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The flames are cute but I worry that the top will make an a-cup vanish. The metallic bikini set has a top that is very flattering on small breasted ladies imo. Plus, most Asian girls that I have worked with have adopted an "innocent" club persona and say that works best for them, so the flames might be a bit counter to that (not saying that is what will work best for you, it just seems to be pretty effective for some).
BTW - If thats you in your avi, your gorgeous and should do very well! Good luck!
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Here is some general advice about outfits:
Try not to buy anything asymmetrical. It tends to make people's proportions look weird. At least keep that in mind when looking at options
Also make sure the outfits looks good on you. You don't want to buy something that looks cool online only to find out that it doesn't fit quite right (which ends up meaning less money for you in some cases). There is no shame in going to your local dancerwear shop, trying some stuff on and then going home and ordering it online. Just make sure with the store about their try-on policies (I know some places wear if you bring a thong into the dressing room you have to buy it).
I even asked my fiance about some outfit advice for you. He says, "I know you're Asian and this is a stereotype, but you should rock the schoolgirl outfit"
(I kinda agree with him ^__^)
I like the long skirt outfit (specially the skirt cut) but not really digging the colors. The strappy pink metalic bikini looks really cool too.
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the other girls there wear stuff like that? those outfits all seem a little skimpy. if its a nicer club, usually the girls wear dresses. also, you want guys to pay you to take your clothes off, if you're basically naked already they don't need to.
might i suggest something like this...
http://www.chelseasofnewyork.com/v/v...701SL-RB-3.jpg
http://www.chelseasofnewyork.com/Dra..._2701sl-rb.htm
just a suggestion though. if the girls are wearing stuff like you posted then go for that. but the metalic bikini looks like it'd be hard to take off and put back on.
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Yes, my vote is for the strappy metallic pink one. Just strappy enough that you can tease your fans with it(untie one, tease a bit, untie the next :p), not so strappy it becomes impossible to take off gracefully. It's also small enough that it doesn't make your boobies disapear. I love it! Which website did you find it on?
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Originally Posted by
laurcon
but the metalic bikini looks like it'd be hard to take off and put back on.
True that. I didn't notice until know, but the back looks like it has 3 ties that you have to undo and the redo.
I don't know how your club is, but you usually get naked and then rotate to a different stage and do it all over again. Anything with string ties makes this problematic.
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Great, thanks so much everyone!!! I REALLY APPRECIATE IT.
And yes, that is me in my avatar (Thanks a lot- that compliment makes me feel totally awesome!) And I will definitely be going with the Violet Metallic Bikini.
And the 3 straps shouldn't be too problematic because we don't go from stage to stage. And when I was in the club for my audition, most girls were dressed in outfits like these so I'm just trying to fit in (but stand out with funky colors and shoes).
And I will be sure to post a picture of myself in my shoes and outfit next week before work!!!
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I think the straps may take a little bit of practice but it shouldn't be too bad once you figure it out. After many years of practice I can take the typical back-clasp eye/hook bras off one-handed 8) Something that ties shouldn't be too bad. If it takes you a second, just act like you meant for it to be that way :p You're teasing, after all!
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I just updated the thread with a picture, let me know what you gals think please :-)!
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the skirt you just posted looks really awesome, but it would get torn apart from club wear and tear. Plus I don't know if every guy would find thing jingling thing cute
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Actually, screw what I just said. Judging from your options, it seems like you want to go with a more funky exotic look. Don't be afraid to work it! And you'd definitely be the only one with that kind of outfit....although you might need to replace that skirt every month or so
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Yeah...those skirts shed coins and beads really easily, kind of a hazard if you slip on em! But you can get them at a pretty low cost. I've even seen them at flea markets!