I hope everybody that reads this thread votes it's anonymous so nobody will see how you vote.8)
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I hope everybody that reads this thread votes it's anonymous so nobody will see how you vote.8)
I wish girls would see they can made money without being sexual with a complete stranger likely in a VIP with an unwashed couch.
It totally breaks my heart.
I really appreciate all the funny, caring, and serious posts. It is possible to get your point across without attacking people and it could be even more effective.
No customer is coming anywhere near any of my bits with their grubby little hands (or worse) and that is that!
I'm a STRIPPER, this means I take my clothes off and nothing else. If you want something else go to a brothel/escort or whatever, stop wasting my time and get the hell out of my club!
You know it's sort of how I thought it would turn out, 75% clean girls and 25% extras girls.
This survey does not accurately reflect the type of activities/extras that goes on because dancers who pride themself as being clean will naturally are most likely to respond. Dancers who do extras are not as likely to participate.
^^^ Also, the question is what extras HAVE you done, not what extras do you regularly do. So some of these votes could just be about a one time mistake.
Some of the stuff you've mentioned are not extras based on the club you're in. In missouri we have something called a "hands on LapDance" That means they can touch your boobs all they want. Also in Missouri there is no alcohol served in any club that allows full nude dancers.
Also In East st. louis some clubs allow you to touch the girls, like Pt's.
rayna, how can a club mandate if a customer can touch YOUR boobs? i wouldn't last an hour. i am prone to backhanding people on impulse.
I can't thank everybody enough for voting especially honestly. If you haven't voted on the poll, please do it's anonymous.
Yes, I think there needs to be an option like "I have done some of these in my past when I was addicted to substances and abusing alcohol, now being a sober dancer I do not allow extras at all and live a happy life as a clean dancer"
Is it possible to add that in there? :O
^^^^ I know, but there have been quite a few idiots coming out of the woodwork lately.
Most of the Clubs in Missouri where a custmer can grab your boobs are in rual areas, meaning all of the girl (with the exception of me and a few others) are locals. Thus they won't have a problem with it as most of them have never been anywhere else. Also the set up for these clubs makes it impossible for any further action to go on.
These girls can't object to it as they've never been anywhere and when they do go somewhere else they find it wierd that guys can't touch their boobs.
Dancers that come to these clubs and object to the boob touch rule either quit or they rarely make any money.
A lot of this is also state law. In the clubs in Missouri that serve alcohol the dancers must wear pasties and can only do air dances
Missouri stirp club law is kinda funky as it changes from city to city in missouri.
There are no strip clubs in St. louis city but four in st. louis county where you're not really even allowed to hug custormers, but we did it anyway.
Uh....hmmmm. ok.
I think some people were just making some observations, not criticisms. Probably nothing to get so defensive about. Just my POV.
Oh Kansas city is the only city in missouri to have nude girls dances and alcohol.
I don't think the poll is skewed, with all the weirdos and trainwrecks that have popping up and posting on here and the mods doing nothing about it, it's an accurate sample group IMO. (not directed at any of you guys)
My club is high contact so I voted for the boobs option although it isn't considered and extra.
^^^No, it's anonymous
No extras here. I just... can't. It doesn't matter how bad I need the money, I can't compromise myself like that. I don't think Id be able to look at myself in the mirror or ever let my husband touch me again without feeling dirty.
Btw, this isn't me judging anyone else, this is simply me stating how I feel.
Also, it's not in your poll, but I consider kissing an extra as well.
Not to me. I find that most boob touching people are very respectful (keep in mind it's not an extra here)
Sometimes you get that person who wants to squeeze like they're sqeezing a lemon for lemonaid, or the jerk that wants to pull on your nipples, but for the most part no. To me it feels no different than giving someone a dance where they are holding on to your waist. In this case my waist is just really high up.