bigbangburrito: Thank you for sharing especially honestly! Don't forget to vote if you haven't already!
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bigbangburrito: Thank you for sharing especially honestly! Don't forget to vote if you haven't already!
I respect your honesty. ;)
Yeah, why wasn't kissing on the list. Man, I kissed the hell out of a dude one time for 800 bucks, and he was hot so it was sooooo worth it. There was a lot of spitting when he wasn't looking, and I hit that mouth wash before the song was over good, but yeah, I think that would be an extra anywhere you go.
^I forgot kissing.
The poll results are interesting even without it.
The only sentences I have a problem with are these ones.
First of all, "the rest of you" insinuates every one of us has done these activities, and that is simply not true. I know myself and a few other girls really feel we just couldn't stomach it. I know I could not go to bed with myself at night if I did any of these things. Everyone has their own boundaries.
Why insult on top of it? I guess that's the part that hurt my feelings the most. I would never call you names for admitting you have done these things. Why the reverse situation?
The club I've been working at recently is an extras club. It's pretty much full service.There are 2 seperate VIPs for clean girls and dirty girls and it seems to work well. The club is always packed open to close even on Sunday. Probably the only club around that still has $1500/2g nights. Also, probably the reason there are consistently 50 thoroughbreds working.
^^^^what city is this in? Just curious....
^ lol isn't everyone JD ;)
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The sex industry has always had a way of isolating people. One of the unfortunate effects of this is that, even though strip club environments can vary so wildly between states, cities, and even individual clubs, a lot of people tend to think their experience is the universal experience. But there are a lot of very clean clubs and even very clean cities out there.
Secondly, I think you have to realize that while this thread may have created a safe space for girls to talk openly about extras, it's also fair to realize that if you are engaging in extras in a club where that's not the standard for everyone, then you are compromising a lot of people's ability to do their job without resorting to breaking the law, so it's understandable that that is going to upset people.
Extras is fairly subjective in my club because we have a huge amount of typically clean dancers. As I've heard from other dances, my dances are considered "very dirty" by their social norms because I allow guys to kiss my breasts--for a much higher price. Sure it's borderline prostitution, but I'm not about to leave with under $300/night. Seattle house fees are phenomenally high and it's near impossible to be completely clean and sustain a decent living. I'm completely comfortable with guys kissing my body, grinding, and general high contact. I don't allow people to touch my pussy though.
I feel that if the club was more lenient on extras, I wouldn't be morally opposed to hand jobs. I'd never have intercourse or give blow jobs. Blow jobs MAYBE, if the price was right. Usually when I look for clubs, I see which ones are the "dirtiest" without offering things like sex. Higher contact generally means more money for me.
I don't understand why my actions upset people. I've never cared how another dancer conducted business even knowing that many girls let guys finger bang them. I think it's better to mind your own business when it comes to stripping.
NREXM: WoW, I want to thank you for sharing honestly!
I hope you voted in the poll
We care bc it hurts our money if we're clean dancers. Guys aren't gonna come to me for just a lap dance if they can get a hand job from someone else. That means you're taking money out of my pocket bc you won't play by the rules.
That said, if you're working in what you call a "dirty" club to begin with, you're right no one should care bc they're probably all doing the same thing anyway which is why you're referring to it as a "dirty club" in the first place.
PS. Im not judging or flaming you. Im just answering your question.
I don't know about that. There are girls at my home club that offer a lot more extras than I do yet I still make out with enough to keep my satisfied; hell there are girls that are willing to go outside and bang customers for $250. If extras were the norm then I could see clean dancers hurting for money but if they are less than half then I don't really see the problem.
Maybe clean dancers have a bad rep with me because the clean dancers at my club sit in the back and complain about the rapid prostitution in the city while the extras girls are out there getting the customers.
NREXM: Would I be a nosy Rosy if I asked if you worked in a nude or topless club? You can pm me if it's private or not answer if it's personal.
Yep, this is a good thread with a better poll!
There's a good chance it won't stay that way. When girls start doing more and more, it can quickly become a race to the bottom for everyone. You're giving the customers certain expectations. What happens when they guy you gave extras to takes another girl to VIP and freaks out because she won't do what you did?
i def agree with this last part, although i never thought of it myself. but once i read it, it makes sense. i'd say many times the girls don't end up really doing the extras, i know many girls at my club believe in leading a guy into thinking that extras will happen in the CR and then drawing it out and end up not doing it. i've seen girls that i know are "extras girls" still do rooms with me and not do extras, but be masters of leading them on... for HOURSSS. while i'm great at landing rooms cleanly, holding onto them for hours without help is quite difficult, that's why i work with another girl 85% of the time, thank god. and its not like i have one set partner, i work well with lots of girls, if they do extras or not.
also, NREXM mentioned girls going OTC to bang for $250 and i was SHOCKED to hear tonight from a customer with me in a CR that a girl offered to leave with him for $300! i was making the same for hanging out topless with him in the CR for 1/2hr. surprisingly he said he liked how i actually danced on stage (cause the DJ played Britney's newest song for me) and took me to a room just so he could smoke ciggs (he was from London). makes me think of this quote...
thanks medio ;)
Like I said, if you're working in a club where literally EVERYONE is doing extras you're right, you're not hurting anyone's money. However, the few extras girl at my club do hurt my money bc for the most part I work in a pretty clean club. Just bc your past experience tells you otherwise doesn't mean its right. Nor is assuming that we're all sitting upstairs bitching about the lack of money. I work my ass off. And Im a clean dancer.
okay... i'm drunk and using the iphone calc... but the poll adds up to 172.61% :whistlebl
Laurcon: I am guessing because you can choose more than one option/ as many that apply. Why are you doing math drunk, lol!
I was told there would be no math in stripping.
This thread makes me really happy to be (soon, hopefully) working in a low-contact club. Unfortunately from what I've heard, the rules seem to change depending on the shift manager, which means while other girls are giving the guys everything and I'm following the rules my customer is pissed off and belligerent because I won't give him what everyone else is giving. For me it's not the case of less money. I've figured out a long time ago that if you play things safe, you will most likely get the smaller reward than the other people who take a chance. That's fine. What scares me is the customer who feels entitled to extras because other girls have made it the norm. Now, this is more the belligerent customer's fault than any girl who does extras, but I can't help feeling like it's an enabling mentality from other girls and I have to reap the horrible consequences because of it.
Don't mean to step on toes; just something that scares me a little. :-[