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Yes kissing can be more intimate then sex definitely. But I don't find kissing girls gross. Im into girls. My husband knows this. So it's not cheating for me. And as long as it's a dancer Im cool with I dont mind this.
That said, I would NEVER kiss a customer. Female or male. EVER.
I haven't done it. I don't like people's saliva in my mouth.
I voted in the poll.
I had a girl pounce me in the dressing room and kiss me, but I'm not into girls and wouldn't do it for money. She was wasted and I did something nice for her and she grabbed my face and kissed me. I was pretty surprised but I wasn't mad at her.
I also voted.
i voted, and i'll kiss girls at work if we're cool.
there were a few girls at my old club that i was tight with, and we'd do double dances and make out all the time. *shrug* at my new club i wouldn't do it cause i don't know any of these girls that well.
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no never not when i have my shanghai sweetie x
I wouldn't do it. Especially since, as you pointed out, you have no idea how much kissing is a part of this girl's regular work day. I'd be wondering how many people she'd been kissing that night, and I'd be worried about catching something. Seems like a bad idea during flu season especially.
hell no.
the object of my affection is the only person i kiss. if i am dating someone and we happen to be working at the same club, we will usually keep our pda limited to the dressing room. i really don't like the idea of people getting aroused because i am in love, and i hate when women belittle my love by using female-female kissing as a tool for male titillation *end feminist rant*
THAT SAID, i once pecked another dancer on the lips for a bigger tip from a customer. i wouldn't do something like that for free, and i really don't like customers barking requests like they're ordering dinner at burger king. i recall being extremely uncomfortable with the whole thing and i don't really remember why the peck happened in the first place.
I have the same stance as JayATee on this one.
I'm into girls, but I'm very selective about it. I need to be attracted to them. I have kissed a co-worker before at work, but only because they were a close friend and we'd do it to generate more stage tips.
Most of the girls I work with, you could not pay me enough to make-out with... I know what kind of shit some of those girls do in VIP!
I would also never kiss a customer, whether they were male or female. Gross.
I can't at one club I work at because it's against the rules; although I did pash one girl when we were both trashed but that was for our own benefit. :)
I have done it at clubs where it is allowed, but definitely wouldn't do it if the girl was unattractive to me. I work with a girl friend of mine and we regularly get it on outside of work, so we do it all the time in VIP. I would never do it on the floor though and definitely never kiss a custie. I also wouldn't just suddenly kiss another dancer knowing she may be uncomfortable with it. I think I can tell if she will be cool with it or not before I go for it.
I don't find it disgusting to kiss people. Of course you may catch a cold or the flu, but it's not like I'd kiss someone who has huge cold sore or obvious cold/flu. In fact, in the 12 months I've been dancing I've gotten sick way less than the 12 months before when I worked in an office. Do you know how much germs are on a keyboard and telephone...eww!
I also don't think kissing is that intimate... "you must remember this, a kiss is just a kiss!" But then again in Australia people are a lot more affectionate than north america. You kiss everyone on the cheek when you greet them so maybe that is why.
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hmm yeah thats common to kiss on he cheek when greeting someone in the uk, i don't think its an australian thing and kissing someone on the cheek is alot different to kissing with tongues!
^^^ ummm yeah Im blonde but I'm not that dumb. I didn't mean that it was exclusively an Aussie thing hence why I compared to North America and not the UK. I realize it's common in the UK and also in Europe (where you kiss each cheek). I'm just saying in North America (where I am from) you generally do not enter people's personal space. In Australia people in general are more affectionate compared to Canada and America in my experience. Also my european and Brit friends tend to be more affectionate. I would never dream of cuddling any of my Canadian friends but here in Aussie my friends and I will hold hands walking down the street and cuddle up on the couch watching a movie... 'twas all very foreign to this Canadian when I first arrived.
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Do we kiss each cheek?!
yeah also still not the same as kissing with tongues thats a bit more than entering personal space!
I'm referring to europeans kissing each cheek.. sorry if not clear.
oh right?! all the europeans i know must have been forgetting to do it on both cheeks! silly us we've only been doing it on one cheek::)thanks for the reminder! i will be sure to tell all my family and friends too!!
back on track here, the thread is about french kissing at work, people kiss each other on the cheek just about everywhere no biggie. french kissing is more than invading personal space its very intimate!
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Ok so its late and I've taken a sleeping tablet so maybe I'm not making sense or being overly sensitive, but I'm just wondering why you seem to be arguing for no reason? Can't you just say you feel french kissing is intimate, instead of saying I am wrong? That is the point of a forum. I understand for you it is intimate. For me it is not. It is just a sexual act for me. For me something is intimate when it has a spiritual or emotional feeling behind it. Like sharing a secret. For example, porno stars kiss but I hardly see it as intimate because they are making a porn. That is just my opinion to share. You may have a different one than mine but please don't judge mine.
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oh right so i should tip-toe around you and carefully word what im saying ,while you tell me what every single person does in europe even though i live here and know your wrong about what we do!no its intimate, even alot of prostitues refuse to do it, maybe you have just cut yourself off from your emotions!
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sweetie i live here its not an arguement!
My club does lesbian shows and highly encourages two girl action on stage and the floor in order to sell shows and just increase tips. Girls typically have partners that they work with all the time to sell private shows. There is also a big show on the main stage every Saturday and you and you partner need to sign up several weeks in advance. So it is fairly common for girls to make out, but only with their partners. I don't think it's gross when this kind of behavior goes on at my club, but I definitely wouldn't make out with a random dancer I wasn't comfortable with/accustomed to working with.