got there and turned around
Help I drove to the club and couldnt get out the car. my hunny came with me with me to give support. He told me to go back tomm. and walk in like I am the shit! Only thing I am crazy nervous. Any last minute pep advice to get me through those doors. I know I can do it I just need to get over my initial audition. /:OHELP!!!!!
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Aw, that's rough. Just think of all the girls who've been in your exact position. Pretend you're someone else - a girl who's not afraid. Even if it doesn't work out, you are so much stronger for having done it. It's only a little bit of fear and then you're done! Take it one step at a time. Focus on the audition; knock it out of the park (which is easy to do if you just concentrate on having FUN and counting it as another cool life experience), and then you can worry about the rest as it comes. For now, YOU CAN DO IT! We're all rooting for you!
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You should go with a friend. My first time it was me and my roommate, and she did all the negotiating. I was the one that ended up becoming a real stripper, but maybe that's why it seemed so easy to me.
Do you have any friends that are dancers? If not, maybe get a girlfriend to go with you.
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I auditioned on my very heavy period and can't dance so you can do it!
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^^ blah, that woulda been me today but im a little bitch.
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BeautifulBlaGrl
Help I drove to the club and couldnt get out the car. my hunny came with me with me to give support. He told me to go back tomm. and walk in like I am the shit! Only thing I am crazy nervous. Any last minute pep advice to get me through those doors. I know I can do it I just need to get over my initial audition. /:OHELP!!!!!
i've totally done the same thing before! when i was younger and starting out, i walked into a place and said i wanted to ask about auditioning. the manager said i could audition now and i said "let me get my bag from my car" which i did have, but i went out there and drove away! lol. now i'm 27 and work at the best club in nyc (IMO of course ;) ). so have faith that you're not alone and you can totally go back and do it girl! :highfive:
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I was so freaked out, I remember sitting in my car and being like "no I changed my mind I can't do this..."
I just told myself, you drove all the way out here and used the gas, you have to at least walk in. And then my feet were moving and I was there somehow.
My first audition (and where I ended up working) was also my first time in a strip club. So if I could do it, you can ;)
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I did a similar thing. I've auditioned, been hired, and then not gone back ( I was pissed that they wouldn't let me work that same night). You can always try telling yourself " I'm just going to get through two songs on this stage and see how it goes ". I mean .... that's the first step. One you do that first step, you can decide to stay at the club or not , but at least you'll have taken step #1.
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I just got back home rom my audition and I rocked it. I was nervous but did it! I now have my job.I am so excited to start! My hunny is so proud his girl got the job. Thanks everyone giving me encouragement!!!
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Congrats!! You should be very proud - very few can be a stripper :D
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Yay, way to go :) See, the hardest part is getting through the door. After that you're golden ;D
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yaaay! congrats girl!! take this confidence and only add to it in your career. i wish you the best!
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make yourself drive there with the mindset that you will go in, whats the worst that canhappen, you dont get hired. but most lkely you will. when you audition no one is going to lauh at you and point and say dumb shit, girls are usually really nice to other new girls that are auditioning i did the same thing when i started dancing i went to the club and turned around, then i went back and told myself i would go in and talk to the manager and if i wasnt comfotale then i could leave, once you get in there, my main thing was walking into the club, not knowing where to go or who to talk to so once you get tthrough that part then everything else gos by really fast. good luck!!
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oops sorry i didnt read the end of the thread...congrats on getting the nerve up to go in the club, thats the hardest part when your new
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