Originally Posted by
MissMynxx
Look, part of going to a strip club is getting captivated by a dancer and the fantasy she spins for you. If you're buying dances from her and VIPs from her because you enjoy her company - AND YOU AREN'T, I repeat, ARE NOT looking for or expecting anything extra (dates, OTC contact, etc.) then by all means - enjoy your time at the club and enjoy your time with your ATF.
I didn't read your other thread, but you sound like a few of my regulars. Just a nice guy who's a little lonely or looking for some company while he has a drink that really likes me, and enjoys having a conversation with me, but who respects that I am at work, I'm providing a service to him no matter how enjoyable on either part - and pays me accordingly. If that's the sort of guy you are, and you really don't expect anything extra, then you're an OK customer in my book. AND, if you are what and who you portray, then you're probably looked upon fondly by your favorite dancer. I know that while I never considered OTC contact with my regulars, I liked seeing them - and not just for the money. Some of them were honestly, really nice guys.
But if you're a true PL and you're hoping for dates and a girlfriend and possibly delightful little sexual favors from this pretty lady ... yeah, go to hell and stop wasting the poor girl's time. She has better things to do than deal with guys like that. All of us do. :D
EDIT: Hoooo, boy. Okay. I found your other thread. Do your favorite dancer a favor and don't go back. Wow, dude. Just ... wow. ::)