Any of my cam girls married?
My husband finally agreed to let me do camming about a month ago. I told him many times that I don't want him to watch me while I'm working because I don't want him to see me doing those things while other guys watch. Today, he just came into the room while I was working and I got mad and told him to get out and close the door. Now is he mad at me because he think he should be able to watch me whenever he wants. I'm pissed because I want my privacy and I don't want him to bother me while I'm working. It distracts me. Do you think I'm wrong? I know it's hard for him to know that I'm getting naked and masturbating for other guys online but it's just a job! He is my husband and he is the only one I care about and the only guy I let touch me. :'(:banghead::confused:
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I'm married. My husband is aware of my work in the adult industry. He respects my decision to be a web cam model and PSO. Out of respect for him, I usually do my web cam modeling or phone sex sessions when he is away at work during the day or while he is sleeping late at night.
Does your husband work outside of your home? Maybe you can schedule your web camming so it's done mostly when he is out of the house, or you can do it while he is asleep.
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I think this is so cute! I can't wait to get married .. sorry I just had to say that! lol!
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Raven69Skye
My husband finally agreed to let me do camming about a month ago. I told him many times that I don't want him to watch me while I'm working because I don't want him to see me doing those things while other guys watch. Today, he just came into the room while I was working and I got mad and told him to get out and close the door. Now is he mad at me because he think he should be able to watch me whenever he wants. I'm pissed because I want my privacy and I don't want him to bother me while I'm working. It distracts me. Do you think I'm wrong? I know it's hard for him to know that I'm getting naked and masturbating for other guys online but it's just a job! He is my husband and he is the only one I care about and the only guy I let touch me. :'(:banghead::confused:
My camgirl friend Kandi Grant lets her hubby watch her. He even records her vids sometimes. She's sooo cute and he's soo hot (I tell her all the time how hot her hubby is) LOL! I think you should let him watch you. I just think it's another way to bond ya know? I know it would be kinda weird at first but soon it'll be something fun for yall.
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Nope, I'm 100% single. I probably wouldn't do it if I was with someone. I had a boyfriend before when I first began camming but at that point I wasn't really doing anything "sexual" yet just stripteases mostly. Stripping I can see, but masturbation/penetration with toys I don't think I could do if I was in a relationship and I'd likely look for another job if I was getting serious with someone... not saying you should though! Just that's what I would do. If I was going to keep doing it and the guy was down, like Malaya said, the only way I'd really want to keep doing it would be if he could watch me and I was (in my mind) doing it for him, not to make money, or possibly even camming together for some extra cash (I LOVE watching couples on cam, so hot).
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i do porn so it doesn't bother me if my husband is there. i just tell him when to stfu when im busy or turn the tv on mute... sometimes to me its a bit ackward...i like to be by myself when im working but if its no where for him to be he can stay just shut up...
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MsClaireVoyant
Nope, I'm 100% single. I probably wouldn't do it if I was with someone. I had a boyfriend before when I first began camming but at that point I wasn't really doing anything "sexual" yet just stripteases mostly. Stripping I can see, but masturbation/penetration with toys I don't think I could do if I was in a relationship and I'd likely look for another job if I was getting serious with someone... not saying you should though! Just that's what I would do. If I was going to keep doing it and the guy was down, like Malaya said, the only way I'd really want to keep doing it would be if he could watch me and I was (in my mind) doing it for him, not to make money, or possibly even camming together for some extra cash (I LOVE watching couples on cam, so hot).
Ditto! lol
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i'm married and he always comes into our room when I'm working. He gets a kick out of how fake I sound when I'm doing a show or just bs-ing with dudes LOL. Sometimes its distracting (esp when I'm doing a fetish show) he thinks its so weird and i have a hard time not laughing and keeping a straight face when he's around. He just gets curious from all the noise i make
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bluexxxtasy
i do porn so it doesn't bother me if my husband is there. i just tell him when to stfu when im busy or turn the tv on mute... sometimes to me its a bit ackward...i like to be by myself when im working but if its no where for him to be he can stay just shut up...
ditto on all this
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I'm married. My husband also works from home, but he spends some time outside the home occasionally. I don't mind that he's here. Most of you know that I didn't tell him I was camming at first, and he found out randomly by going to some Streamate affiliate site, and found me there. He took it all quite well (since I already dance in clubs anyway), and doesn't mind at all. He thinks it's pretty cool, lol.
To answer your question, I guess everyone is different.
I personally kinda like to have my privacy, just because I don't want it to look like I'm not completely focused on the customers when I'm trying to do the chat hustle. He's very distracting to me. My husband is also sometimes loud and he's not always graceful. I don't want to take a chance on anyone overhearing him, or some sound he's caused or actively making while I'm working. I also don't want him to let his imagination start working overtime just because he sees me saying things to guys that he feels are "inappropriate," "too personal," or what have you. I don't want to have my attitude all messed up while I'm trying to work because I know I'm going to be busy arguing with my husband about something said in chat as soon as I finish my time on cam for the night.
I don't hate him for being curious about what I'm doing, but we've discussed it enough to where we've been able to reach this agreement: I cam in the spare bedroom, and he knocks if he needs to talk to me while I'm working. It seems to be working so far. I think eventually having him come in my cam room wouldn't be as distracting because he'll be used to the whole idea. And, actually, he's been thinking about doing couples cam work, so that might be a really good way to get his feet wet as far as seeing how it is to interact and meet the needs of the customers.
He is also a paying customer on a few different cam sites at this time, so he understands that it's best if he just lets me do my thing, lest he ruin the customer's experience or perception of me on cam. He understands my motivation for camming, and wants me to have every advantage/opportunity to make money.
If you aren't comfortable with your husband watching you do your cam work while you're just starting out, maybe you could gently explain to him that a big part of what you're "selling" is the fantasy of being a woman alone at home doing naughty things on camera. Tell him that you're probably not going to make as much money if people feel like you're not focused on them, because really, that's what makes the big difference in camming. If you're distracted, you're probably going to make less money, and you may find it more difficult to retain repeat or regular customers.
Good luck!
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Thanks guys. Kimbre, great post. Thank you. :)
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I am not married but I may as well be. We have done a few cam shows together, we ended up faking it doggy style and he got a kick out of hearing me fake moan. The other night I was in the middle of a show when he got here, he got a nice surprise when he walked in. Unfortunately the show ended shortly after, I don't think the custy heard him I think he ran out of money. I couldn't keep him off of me after that! Then later that night I told him I was going to get back to work and he was like "Okay I'm going to watch my movie." I said "whaaaa you don't want to watch!?" Lol... I do prefer being alone, it's less distracting and he likes to give me shit about things I say to custies [even though I know he's playin around]. But its def. a fun way to spice things up from time to time.
If I was in a relationship with somebody that didnt understand my work or respect my privacy though, he wouldn't last long.
ETA: If your man wants to get upset that you are doing these things on camera for other guys, just remind him that its better than getting groped in some dirty strip club by drunken sweatpants boner man.
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lmao. ewwww. boner man. haha.
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SadieN
I am not married but I may as well be. We have done a few cam shows together, we ended up faking it doggy style and he got a kick out of hearing me fake moan. The other night I was in the middle of a show when he got here, he got a nice surprise when he walked in. Unfortunately the show ended shortly after, I don't think the custy heard him I think he ran out of money. I couldn't keep him off of me after that! Then later that night I told him I was going to get back to work and he was like "Okay I'm going to watch my movie." I said "whaaaa you don't want to watch!?" Lol... I do prefer being alone, it's less distracting and he likes to give me shit about things I say to custies [even though I know he's playin around]. But its def. a fun way to spice things up from time to time.
If I was in a relationship with somebody that didnt understand my work or respect my privacy though, he wouldn't last long.
ETA: If your man wants to get upset that you are doing these things on camera for other guys, just remind him that its better than getting groped in some dirty strip club by drunken sweatpants boner man.