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handling customers
I am still sent emails from my old club and I got this one recently about jealous customers. Ive never had an obsessive customer like this before but was wondering if anyone else has, and how did u handle it?
Regular customers spend so much time and money on you , Suddenly that nice guy to whom you met before one or two month ago is a complete asshole. he criticizes your beauty when you are in the top ten money maker. You don't need to deal with such asshole.
Your jealous, bastard 'admirer' says, "Why should you have fun with others when I'm paying for you?"
You don't require some customers like this beating you off your game. Nobody knows the reasons why they act like that. I just say that "men always get jealous over beautiful and successful powerful woman".
your regular customers will try to loosen their power. Nevertheless, they are the men with emotions, brains and your paycheck.
Anything is liable to ember a dispute:
You start dancing for other customer
You are standing them up at the club
You are getting much attention from other customers.
The way Regular will revenge:
Seek to get dance from your best friend
Try to spread rubbish rumors about you to your colleagues
Usually, They have breakable ego or proud to start with. You are source of stress relieving in his stress time. He will leave the club with better mood when he entered.
The other customers for frenzy are young lonely guys with no lives. You will find that their social life is at your strip club. They just wanted to create dramas and quarrel between dancers because creating drama is their passion.
In revenge this Loser will:
TELL all your co-worker's your personal business.
TELL all your co-worker's that you're into Drugs .
ANYTHING to get you're and your Co-workers fighting.
Most Regular's think of your club as a regular dinner theater where at last they get to play wildly.
But, at some point they will get a false notion and think "THEY" are the Stars.
I'd advise you to get away from any regular who tries to manipulate you. Hanging on to him is a waste of time and borderline abusive. And, he will end up stealing all of your energy. You won't even be able to concentrate on your other customers.
The customer is not always right, but he is the customer - and it's alright for the customer to be wrong.
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Re: handling customers
ummm yes. and all you can do is cut them off ... completely. Blantantly ignore them. Eventually they move on to someone else because they are a freak .
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I usually cut them off the minute anything like that happens. I just tell them I don't like their attitude, and to have a good night. A few have actually hunted me down in the club to apologize.
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haha i still get those emails too.
you need to consider the girls who work at this club... when you think about it, it should be kind of obvious why the owner sent out an email like this.
those girls mixed business with pleasure a lot. and a lot of them socialized with customers out the club. hell, there was even a girl who hosted stripper- customer pictionary games after work. so yea, these girls put themselves in stupid situations.
but yea, it does happen to girls who are not retarded also. i think that his advice on how to handle it was fairly sound... if it seems like its getting dangerous, drop him. you dont need a regular badly enough to jeopardize your safety, job, or relations with other customers.
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Sometimes I wish I had a flock of faithful regulars, who I could count on to come in every week and blow tons of $$$ on me.
Then I hear girls talking about this type of customer: jealous, overbearing, demanding, controlling, and vindictive. And I think, "It's probably not worth it in the end."
Every time I hear a girl talking about her regular, it's never in a positive light. Ever.
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^ I like some of mine. A lot actually. But it's prob about 50/50. For me it's worth it, but it takes a lot for someone to fuck with my head since I am so arrogant. LOL