Ripped off for the first time
So last night at around 10:30 it was still really dead so I ended up dancing for this guy that I wouldn't have wasted time on otherwise. I was kind of creeped out by him and should have listened to my gut.
After 2 songs I asked him if he wanted me to keep going and even asked him point blank if he had money. He assured me that he did. I chose to stop at 4 songs and requested my payment. He had $20 and a bunch of change and pills.
I got the bouncers, but it was obvious that the guy was fucked up and had no intention of paying. So he was kicked out and I wanted to plant my stiletto in his eye.
It was only $60, not that bad, but I was pissed off. I had already dealt with a dirty old man who got mad at me for not letting him lick my nipples earlier in the night, and I was ready to pack it up and go home.
Luckily, at that moment, one of my favorite customers came in. He spends $100 to massage my back, and that couldn't have happened at a better time. His friend also bought $100 worth of dances, and my night continued to be amazing after that.
So I learned my lesson about trusting my instincts, and I just hope karma also takes care of the thieving bastard. }:D
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I was ripped off $100 my first or second night. The guy bought dances earlier, so I figured he was good for it.
The bouncer was absolutely useless. Luckily the assistant manager was there and she loved me. She got me $20 from his wallet. More importantly, she called the cops and got his name from his license. She put in a complaint when the cops showed up and said he'll be court marshaled when he gets back from overseas (he was leaving the next morning with the military.)
I guess it happens to everyone. Still a pissoff, though.
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My first VIP I ever did, the guy owed me $680 ($600 for the VIP, $80 for two songs he did before). He basically just confused me with changing and halfing his payment methods, and he ended up shorting me $400. So in the end it cost me $70 to give that asshole the VIP, and he knew it the whole time and jetted out of there before I realized it and the bouncers could chase after him.
I was SO angry and depressed, if I ever see that guy I will fucking kick his ass like no other. But I haven't had that happen to me ever again. So it sucks, but at least we learn from it.
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Always ask for money in advance. I do and have never had a problem.
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The management in my club straight up tells girls that they won't force guys to pay if we don't ask for money up front.
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Autumn Lily
The management in my club straight up tells girls that they won't force guys to pay if we don't ask for money up front.
Same here.
I dunno though... if a custie seems decent, 95% of the time I'll wait until after the dance. I've had guys mention before that it really puts them off when they feel like girls are presuming they're going to run out, and in a year and a half of stripping I've never had anybody short me so it's going ok so far. On the other hand, if a guy is wasted or sketchy, it's money-in-my-hand first time!
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in stripping career, ive been successfully ripped off once. the bouncer actually chased the guy to his car and tried to stop him... it was for 80$ and i was...ugh... it was an awful feeling.
ive had lotsa other guys try.
at the 3 clubs i work at now, 2 of them have lap dance vending machines... at first i hated these but lately ive actually been a fan, because it forces the customers to pay up front and the machines dont give change back so i end up making more money.
last night i worked the club with no machines. i danced for some guy from houston who was honestly the first bad apple from houston i have dealt with, despite the horror stories i have encountered on here. i got hte money up front for the first dance, but he wanted a second dance and i asked for the money after that.
he only had 25$ in his wallet, he owed me 30$. he gave me the 25$, and despite the fact that it was only 5$ and the club was busy (meaning it would have been smartest money wise to let it go) i didnt want this asshole to have a discount. so i got the bouncer and the bouncer intimdated him into getting 5$ in credit. which quite frankly, i found hilarious.
i ended up giving the 5$ to the bouncer.
a girl has to have her principles!
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Athenathefabulous
he only had 25$ in his wallet, he owed me 30$. he gave me the 25$, and despite the fact that it was only 5$ and the club was busy (meaning it would have been smartest money wise to let it go) i didnt want this asshole to have a discount. so i got the bouncer and the bouncer intimdated him into getting 5$ in credit. which quite frankly, i found hilarious.
i ended up giving the 5$ to the bouncer.
a girl has to have her principles!
Hahaha, that's hilarious!
But man, cheap asshats like this really make me appreciate the good tippers out there!
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First ask the guy if he's had any other dances yet. If not always tell him it's $20 per song. At the end of the first song I always say "Keep it going for another?" or I ask if he wants to go to vip.
At the end of the 2nd song say we're at $40 now do you want to keep going or would you like to go to vip?
I finish every dance on my knees so the guy can't try to run off because I'm blocking him.
Unless you know the guy never do more than 3 dances without getting paid.