Need Advice: Getting a Private Show (girl-girl) for my wife
Okay, so my wife is bi-sexual/bi-curious and has mentioned that she wants to get a lap dance and such from another woman. Rather than going to a club, I'm going to get her a private girl-girl show for Valentine's Day.
Anyway, I'm totally new to this and have been looking up various agencies online. There are so many choices and I have a few questions. I'm hoping some of the dancers here can help.
1) Can you recommend any good agencies or dancers in California (Bay Area, northern CA)?
2) Are there certain specific questions you'd recommend we ask the agencies when booking / evaluating our options.
3) Most of the agencies advertise $400 for a 2 girl show, would this typically include everything or should I plan on another $200 EA in tips and such for the "full show?" (does this vary by agency or is there an industry standard?)
4) Is it standard to bring a bouncer for private shows? It seems kind of creepy to have another guy hanging out in the room while my wife is being turned on by the show.
Hopefully these questions don't sound stupid, as I said we've never done anything like this and I want to be sure it goes great for my wife.
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First off, a two girl show means two dancers. You only need a single dancer. Another thing is that some agencies won't book shows for other women. Not all dancers will bring a bouncer, but some will - so ask.
Another option you have is to take your wife to a really nice club and just buy a private room/champagne room with a dancer - then the bouncer won't actually be in the room but normally monitoring via video cam.
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^I would do that. Honestly your wife will probably have way more fun getting a dance in a champagne room at a club than her living room. Plus she can watch girls on stage and pick out which girl SHE wants.
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A couple of years ago my SO arranged for two dancers to surprise me at a hotel room that we had booked for my birthday. My SO found them online thru an agency (to this day I am amazed at how well she did in selecting the agency that she chose, since she had never done anything like that before - my SO is ultra conservative, and for her to even offer to do such a thing for a perv like me is truly priceless.) The dancers did not bring a driver or bodyguard, and I believe that the cost for the 2-girl show was all inclusive, though tipping was appreciated.
The only strange thing that happened was that I knew one of the dancers from a local SC! Talk about an awkward moment when she walked into the room...thankfully we both played it off well. With all of the agencies & all of the dancers here in LA, what are the odds of that happening? :eye-poppi
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I think you should try a club first too! Unless..of course, your entire motivation is to try and get a threesome out of it. Which, I feel, it what you are really after? Am I right?
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Thanks for all of the replies so far, very helpful. We have discussed the idea of going to a club for her dance, but thought maybe a private show would be more intimate (at a hotel out of town, not necessarily in our living room). We're not against the idea of going to a club, but neither of us are big into going out to clubs and drinking, so we wouldn't know where to start (obviously Google, lol).
Kylea, you mentioned only needing a single dancer. Do you think that is a better idea than getting a two girl show. IE, will having a single dancer give my wife more attention, and how "frisky" can we expect her to be during the dance? (I'm sure it varies by dancer, but just as a general industry guideline.)
As for the threesome thing, if I was after that I'd just hire an escort. A threesome is certainly something we've discussed and may do in the future (more likely with a friend than an escort), but that's not what I'm after in this case.
Again, thanks for all of the replies and I look forward to any other information and suggestions that you may have.
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I'd highly suggest a drink or two at a club and then try it out. If she's never done anything like this, it will be an adjustment even if she thinks it won't be. Just go out to a club and have a drink to relax and have a couple dances... then do the private show.
For me, I've been to a club a dozen times or so, and I love it! But the first experience took some guts. I don't think I'd like if my hubby suprised me at home or at a hotel with a private dance. I like the club atmosphere. And I love having my hubby watch.
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Lurking, most women drive off of sensuality... and sometimes it's hard to provide that when there's two women and the customer because you are competing for space in order to get in close and create the right connection.
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1) Can you recommend any good agencies or dancers in California (Bay Area, northern CA)?
I can't offer advice on specific agencies, but I do know that most agencies use photos of models on their websites. When requesting an entertainer have some general requests like age/ race/ style of show etc. This will give the agent the ability to select the best dancers for your party. Insisting on a particular person usually leads to disappointment.
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Lurking
2) Are there certain specific questions you'd recommend we ask the agencies when booking / evaluating our options.
-Are they usually on time or do you need to set aside a 2 hour window for the dancer to arrive?
-If you would like the dancer to stay longer, how much is the over-time rate?
-Does she provide a music player?
-What is their cancellation policy?
-Do they require a credit card to reserve the dancer? How will the charge appear on your statement? Are there refunds available in case the dancer is a no-show?
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3) Most of the agencies advertise $400 for a 2 girl show, would this typically include everything or should I plan on another $200 EA in tips and such for the "full show?" (does this vary by agency or is there an industry standard?)
That is the fee for the girls to show up. The tip amount sounds fine, plus have some extra set aside in case she does an extra great show.
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Lurking
4) Is it standard to bring a bouncer for private shows? It seems kind of creepy to have another guy hanging out in the room while my wife is being turned on by the show.
Yes and no. It depends on the girl or agency you use. Definitely ask this when placing your reservation.
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Lurking
Hopefully these questions don't sound stupid, as I said we've never done anything like this and I want to be sure it goes great for my wife.
Not at all! I've worked as a dancer since 1998 and have been booking girls for an agency since 2004. If you have any questions, really the only way to get answers is to ask.
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I say find two dancers that are attractive (to your wife's taste )and bisexual --nothing worst then a fake completely uncomfortable show by girls your wife might not even find attractive or be attracted to each other in any way.
When you don't select yourself you just don't know what you get. That is my issue with agencies--plus I like to pay cash directly to dancers myself when they arrive.
I watch club girls and dancers at certain clubs that play bisexual for money and it's very unsexy when you notice how uncomfortable they are and thats the last thing I would want your wife to get.
Of course I would stick to standard rates and tip extra, but I would expect a show that would be hot with two sexy bisexual dancers for my money. Not sex or 3/4 some cuz for that I would be hiring an escort instead who is open to that. As for bodyguards thats usually a given at private parties, but I'm sure you could talk him into leaving the room to give yr wife a few minutes alone w/the girls if you tipped well.
I knew when I did g-g shows with my coworkers it was sexy not only cuz we played into the whole lesbian vampires for a few which was my favorite kind of show routine we did, but we were generally lovers with each other so it was like we were getting paid to play & our customers knew that we were giving them the kind of show that turned us on to give. I have the best story about how one of our custies had to replace the carpets, but yeah ginger was insane & it was very very sexy. I miss dancing w/her and doubling up on our customers. Trust me your wife would have been turned on and once we left so be wishing her bday came everday.