Originally Posted by
Simone NinaNin
The cost of a bait and switch to your persona can never be worth the money you make form it.
Always be in control of your customer. They have our money in their pockets, and it is our job to get it out.
I have been dancing since 1992 and I have NEVER even sat down with a customer. Never. Not even once. If he wants to talk to me, he is going to do it on the couch where I am in control. If I agree to sit with him, I am at his level, and he is the one in control and my stage persona is lost. My persona is my paycheck, and it is worth a hell of a lot more than any money that a customer might give me if I sit down with him.
The same hold true for doing a bait and switch. If a customer asks me what he is getting on the couch, I tell him the truth, and that is good enough because I believe that it is good enough. If I have to lie to him, then I am acting insecure and giving up control. If I give up control, then I am nothing.
It is all about my attitude. I am confident that I am hot, my dance is hot, and I WANT to go back there with him and have fun. I go up to him and say, "Baby, I caught your eye when I was up on stage. I spent the last song of my set imagining what it would be like to fuck you and I got so horny. Come to the couch with me so I can get naked and show you what you did to me"
I reach for his hand with my palm facing down (this is assertive, rather than palm up which is submissive)
When he says something like, "You aren't going to fuck me back there", I say, "I wish I could, but we are going to do the next best thing. I am going to get naked and show you how wet I am. Then I am going to bend over and show you my favorite way to fuck. Come play with me!"
All the while I am leaning over him, breathing in his ear and shoving my tits in front of his face. I am telling him that I want to play with him, and I do. I really, really do. When I get to work every night, my goal is to get on the couch. I am a horny little slut who wants to play. wink! wink! I don't care about the money, I only charge him because the house charges for a dance. I never talk about money with him except to tell him the price.
I actually believe this, and against his better judgment, HE believes it a little bit too. And all I need is for him to believe it enough to go to the couch with me.
*Never count your money while sitting at the table. There’ll be time enough for counting when the dealing’s done.
If you are tempted to do a "bait and switch" it is a sign of fear and insecurity. Many men are going to ask for more. It is their nature to see how much they can get, and if we agreed, almost every single one of them would want to fuck. I know that they are asking all the girls, it isn't personal, so I don't get offended. I simply keep my cool, and sell him on how hot my dance will be. I have used these choice lines in the past:
Guy-(pointing to the girl hanging from the pole) How come you don't do that?
Me- Baby, cause I don't have to.
Guy- I will give you $100 for a blow job.
Me- baby, I wish I could, but I can't. I am so horny though. Take me back to my private room so I can play with my pussy. (if your club allows this, obviously)
* Use what is called a “support sandwich” Say a positive thing (I wish I could) then the bad thing (I can’t) then another positive thing (The thing that you are going to do) The “bread” on the sandwich are the two positive things and the “meat” is the negative thing.
I have been training girls at my club for a very long time and have many more pointers. I hope you found these helpful. Feel free to hit me up if you have specific questions.
Let's make a lot of money!
xoxo
Simone