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bad habit
when im working i have a horrible problem of being too nice and friendly with the customers,i always act like im there to have fun and forget im at work and i end up wasting time to be making money. i am wanting to cut back on working,so im going to have to start making work just thast strictly work. anyone else have this problem,and what are some ways to quit being like this? i know i could make at least a extra 100 plus a day if i would just stay focused and work instead of sit and make buddys with the custies.
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Re: bad habit
That is a matter of discipline.
Are you afraid to ask for their money? It's the only thing I can think of.
Just say "I'm having a lot of fun talking let go have some more fun playing."
Something to that effect.
You deserve to make money and I promise you they want to give it to you.
But you have to ask.
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Re: bad habit
Trust me, this happens to the best of us. Putting yourself on a "limited schedule" will help a lot though. Try not to stay with any customer(s) longer than about 15 minutes at a time or 3-4 songs.
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Re: bad habit
i used to be too freindly, but now im just too picky, i prfer the older customers, like 27+
and we hav latly been getting alot of young lads in, dont get me wrong, a few younger ones hav been nice, but most just seem cocky, big headed, skint, and love themselfs.
i have to learn to stop being picky.
being friendly wore off me after a while, it just clicked that im wastin time and prob never gonna see them again an that im there to work, a long chat with my bf helped me realise this, you can still be friendly, just make sure you ask for a dance after about 5-10 mins depending how busy it is, if its real busy i give about 5 mins tops b4 i ask if they havnt asked already, sumtimes ill say it after 30 secs lol depends if the guy is borin an hard to talk to.
jess xxxxx