7 hours a day, 3 days a week - I am learning so fast!
It's been a while since I've posted here, mainly because I've been extremely busy with, well, life!
I'd been having some issues with my marriage, but after a week at my parents' house and taking Valentine's weekend to go on a few dates with my husband, we're doing much better and working things out. It'd been affecting my work at first, getting me in real bad moods and, since I'm not the best bullshitter, yet, keeping me from hustling.
We've also been buying tons of things off of my new salary, paying off a shitload of debt and buying a few new toys for the house. I now have 2 whole dancing outfits bahaha Anyways! Onto work-related goods!
I've noticed that, so far, since I'm not to that stage of just being able to go up to anyone and work em for a dance, I tend to keep under the radar, watching and seeing which guys tip me, take dances from other girls, seem nice, sitting alone for a While, etc, and go after them. Last evening, I only work days for now, was my best evening ever! Very early on in the day, a redneckish guy tipped me on stage ( this close to opening few guys tip ), I should have gone after him right away, but I am so used to running away into the dressing room after my stage, because I get so nervous and I'm not sure who to go after. So I head upstairs to scope things out. Another dances procedes to talk to the guy that tipped me, and within 5 minutes is taking me upstairs! I am like 'grr, I should have just talked to him.' lol, however after a good 15 min he comes back down. A few songs later I go talk to him for a while, and he wants to dance as well! Well, I am Much better at finding the right guy and keeping him up stairs for a Weile, rather than turning a lot of different dances. He ends up getting a good $80 in dances!
By then I have around $100, and it's only 2 something ( i start at 12 ). I am doin my thing on stage and a familiar guy comes up to tip, he says are you gonna give me a dance this time? I don't really remember him, but I'm like Hell yea! I go up and talk to him and remember that he and his friend were there when I first started, but they had to leave early and didn't get any dances. I talk to them for a while and get two dances off the first guy, neat! :D
They leave, I'm walking around to the DJ booth and see a black guy that's been sitting upstairs, alone, for a while. SIngle guys that haven't been visited yet are USUALLY pretty open for dances, so I'm like let's do it! I go up and talk for around 30 seconds before he propositions me for a dance, neat! $120 dollars later I endure my first sweatpants D: !!! However I'm in such a good mood that I now have around $250 I don't care! I leave him alone the rest of the day. It's probably around 4 something now, about $300. I do a dance for an older guy who is kind of grabby, but I endure and take his $
I must be at around $350 or so, I don't remember, I refuse to count my money before the day is over. I see a couple against the railing that has been taking dances from girls and they seem really cool, they are playing pool now, so I go over to join them. Turns out they are friends, and the dude bets me $20 i can beat her in pool. I was THIS close, but he gives me a $5 anyways. MUCH better than having to bullshit a topless game around a bunch of douchebags. Another great event! :D
It's probably around 6:30 now, im about 45min from leaving, on stage, and a cute blonde comes up to tip me. I usually get intimidated by guys that are even decent looking, because I'm used to faking smiles around all the fat uglies! So IMMEDIATELY after my stage I walk over to his table and we start talking. I usually refuse to ask for a dance early on, it's a turn off, even to me. So we talk for a good few minutes, he seems really cool and knows most of the girls, so I ask if he usually gets dances. He and I agree that it usually depends on the day. I really don't remember what I said, but we go upstairs! We're sitting and talking and I'm doing much better than I've done with hot guys in the past. Several dances go by, and I realize I'm up soon. We're dancing to Tool, a song he really likes, and he is like I'm really sorry but I have to pee and it's distracting me, he feels real bad, but I'm like Lol it's no problem, go ahead. He comes back, we finish to a different song and he tries to pay me for more than one dance, I refuse, because we were only a few seconds into the Tool song. I think he found that pretty cool. He seemed about ready to go downstairs before that, but continued to sit with me. I go do my stage, come back up and tell him i need to ask the DJ if I can leave. The DJ says yes, I go back, do ANOTHER dance, and he says ugh I only have 100's. I jokingly say we can do 5 more and laugh, he say's ahh we'll just play it by ear. So we do a song and talk in between, he is Very polite, Very nice and is really appreciating my dancing, giving me compliments and such, not trying to touch me, either! AND He's hot! :D !!!
We've done 2 dances, and I say well I have to go soon, wanna do 3 more and be done? ( that would be the 100 ) by now I've been on him for a good 30 minutes doing dances, we've gotten to know each other and he's really comfortable. He says yes! We get some great songs and talk and laugh and he took great care of me the whole time. I am feeling so guilty I have to leave, and I tell him any time he comes in I won't expect a dance, that we can just talk and do whatever. He nods and smiles and such and we hug and I say it was so nice to meet you! He says can I walk you watch away? and im like of course! bye!! *sexy walk away*
A girl in the dressing room is like O_O is he your client? I respond he is now! and I am tired! She says yeah I figured you were on him for a while. I am SO happy, she's a veteran dancer and I was getting so many dances in a row from one guy! Before tip out and house rent, I easily made $500. Remember I'm a newbie on the day shift. I was so happy! My day went, stayed, and ended SO well! I have learned so much in 2 weeks
:hug: thanks for all the support, ladies!
Re: 7 hours a day, 3 days a week - I am learning so fast!
Re: 7 hours a day, 3 days a week - I am learning so fast!
Congratulations :) And I still get shy right after getting off stage too. I try to force myself to get dressed outside, but I still b-line for the dressing room if no one comes up to me before hand, just to breath and let my knees stop shaking!
Re: 7 hours a day, 3 days a week - I am learning so fast!
Re: 7 hours a day, 3 days a week - I am learning so fast!
^ Thanks! :D And yeah sometimes I forgot who tipped me or I don't know where they went to sit down :| lol
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Re: 7 hours a day, 3 days a week - I am learning so fast!
Nice work!
You'll be high-rolling soon! }:D
Re: 7 hours a day, 3 days a week - I am learning so fast!
mm Psshhh Maybe! I still get bad-mood days where I waste hours of potential hustling lol !