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Oh girl, I'm sorry! What are the odds?!
Take your pics down and deny, deny, DENY! I'm sure you're using a stage name and I highly doubt this person was savvy enough to take a screen shot of your listing. Just redesign the page without pics (or body shots/face blurred) and don't let anybody tell you different. Did this person email you directly or through NF? Did he call out your name? It also sounds like he may be trying some sick reverse blackmail shit. Don't fall for it! Block the account right away and send a copy of the email to PlayFair as well. Tell them you're being harassed and stalked. Don't give this person the opportunity to call you AT ALL. I've been on NF a long time. PM me if you want to.
Good luck!
OMG thank you so much! I will be contacting you soon
Please do. Let me know if you have YIM or Skype. We can exchange info and chat personally.
Also, despite your impulses, DO NOT contact the person threatening you. Just block the account. Don't write back at all.
and to make matters worse, today a customer wanted to hear me pee and i accidentally dropped my phone in the toilet!
Pee calls break niteflirt's TOS...
Block the sick fucker and consider blurring out your face on your pictures. I have several accounts with blurred faces and it hasn't hurt me any.
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I was just gonna say that. Too much effort goes into accommodating that, too and then you risk dropping your phone and ruining your business for the day.
whoops i didnt know that!
and how do i blur my face?
I use picnik to edit my pictures. Just go to www.picnik.com, it's free and you can either put something over your face or use the effects to blur it slightly.
I take a lot of pictures with my head turned or wearing a big hat so that people can see part of my face but not enough to really identify me. I also wear wigs which allows me to have multiple characters; redhead, blonde, brunette, punk and remain anonymous.
OMG... he told me that he has known me for several years (he wont tell me who HE is though) and that he is married but he has been lusting after me since before I was legal and he is blackmailing me to have sex with him or he will send the pics to my university!!!
I just want to chime in with 'DENY DENY DENY' and 'IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE'. This very recently happened to me in the video porn world (3rd video EVER found by ex-boyfriends brother, what are the chances?) and I made the mistake of engaging him in conversation. I found out what a sick and desperate person he really was, he started talking about how he always thought I was so hot and wanted me for himself and was imagining himself in the videos.... it just got worse and worse until I finally stopped responding. I think if I would have ignored him in the first place he would have just gone away. I would say take all of VivianBear's advice. He sounds like a sick f***er and is trying to engage you in twisted mind games for the attention.
If he continues his threats get a lawyer.. have the lawyer contact him instead of you. That should scare him... his comments - if you have them in writing -- have now become illegal.
He could be prosecuted for several crimes.
If he's married he has a lot to lose as well.
Good-luck.
wow. Do not let this sick loser get to you. Take your pics down or blur them and ignore every email or message from this guy after you tell him you have a good lawyer and he is breaking the law. Just deny everything if your father happens to find out from this guy (I doubt the loser will say anything). He is a sick pedo who is trying to blackmail you. He is already breaking a law by threatening you. *hug* It's going to be ok.
Yeah, I doubt he will say anything because that makes him show to everyone what a perv he is. In order to "FIND YOU" on Niteflirt or any other adult site he most have been looking for something. So who is the perv?
Deny it all, like everione tells you here. If he tells your father something he will be the one that will look awful after you tell your family that this "Sexual Predator has been harassing you for weeks, and it is so obsessed with you that you are taking legal actions. He is creating all these crazy stories on his head, cause it seems he is mentally unstable". So who is looking bad now?
Delete all trace (photos) you have in the internet. Create a new "Character" with new name, and blurred photos. You can use a wig also for your pictures, in case he goes on a hunt for you on the net, not even the hair resembles to you.
You can contact a lawyer so that he can send him a nice letter , for starts. That first letter, specially once he sees an attorneys letterhead, normally put the stop in further actions from him.;)
Oooooh Corner him with joy!!
Why have you not simply blocked and reported him yet? STOP interacting with him. Also, this person could be just lying altogether. I doubt he knows anything at all about you and is just throwing out phrases to make you nervous. Again, has he used your real name at you? Has he named your university? Block him. You're now letting yourself get worked up and dragged into it.
A person can't get in trouble with a university for having a phone sex job. Its legal, why should the school care?
He seems to have as big a secret as you do. Besides, has he said anything that can positively id you outside of the job? For instance did he use your family name or mention the neighborhood you live in etc? Things he shouldn't know?
I spent a few weeks camming and it seemed like everyday someone was pretending to "know" me. Just be cool and say something like, well, I'm pretty sure you have the wrong person. Make up a story to go along with whatever the individual is saying like: My husband is in the next room and knows all about my job doing cam.
There are enough people out there that look similar to one another that it could build reasonable doubt. Especially on a little internet photo.
Just an update:
Today on another cam site (not NF) I had a guy say that he knew me and actually named my city and area of town that I live in. I still denied that I lived here at all. I started making fun of him for being in my room with no money in his account. He then made a comment like "Why would I pay to see you when I can holler at you on the street?". I made the move to kick and ban him. I then reported his account to the site's admin.
At first I was a bit shaken up but I realized pretty quickly that this person was basically full of shit. Firstly, he said I live in a general area but couldn't actually name a location he'd seen me in. He couldn't tell me anything about myself (my residence/family/what I looked like dressed "down") or my routine. He just talked shit until I kicked him. Most likely, he knows absolutely nothing about me or where I actually live. If he did, he'd have to be crazy to approach me in public anyway. If I didn't kill him, my husband surely would!
These things happen. We take them in stride but we must never let the customers bully us in our line of work. These men don't have that kind of control over our lives.
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You go to a highschool? I thought you said you were in university?
YES, you can block him!! Go to My Account> Mail Center> View Details (link)> Options (tab)> Blocked Members (link). Enter his name into the Blocked Member field and press 'Block'. There you go. Problem solved.
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Can you not clock certain regions on NF like you can on other cam sites? If so..block your entire hometown or state and you'll save yourself a lot of trouble!
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You can't block regions on NiteFlirt, only individuals as they try to contact you.
My question is what is he doing on that site in the first place there is only about one thing i can think of but more then likely he does not want to go around telling people that her seen you on there when he was looking for a cam show more so if he is married or has a women in his life i would not stress it too much about all you can do it be who you are and i am sure that you dad will love you no matter what well i would even if my girls ever got in to this good thing i don't have too worry about it for a great many years here