girl, you read my mind. i don't care if you escort, hook, whore, whatever, but damn. some of these dancers/working girls are so damn obvious about it that it's starting to get offensive.
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girl, you read my mind. i don't care if you escort, hook, whore, whatever, but damn. some of these dancers/working girls are so damn obvious about it that it's starting to get offensive.
Oh, straddling is illegal in Texas, girl.
yeah i've seen a dancer pulling her underwear to the side and grinding, during a 2 for 1...i wanted to knock through the glass and yell at her, WE ONLY DO TOPLESS WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING??
^^ Haha. I would have. I've officially been dubbed the mean stripper. One of my coworkers, upon being asked about me, said to a customer "Oh, that's Catherine. She's really hot, but she's really mean."
I was horrified and proud all at the same time.
^ yeah i should've but i also snitched, it would've been more satisfying to yell at her though.
me not snitching is more related to values instilled by me from my friends over the yrs. In my circle, it was just really really frowned upon. I would have no qualms about getting a girl fired for getting her coochie rubbed in the club.
Being mean to them? For me this is different. I worked at a club with a lot of dirty girls in cleveland and one of the girls whose personality i liked the best was also a dirty girl. So i was kind of conflicted. On one hand, she offered full service to customers in the private rooms. On the other hand, she was a very nice and funny girl.
I have a weird relationship with the extras girls... i hate the fact that they do it so much, but i dont know if i can hate them for it. I used to hate them for it until one of my coworkers from the club said to me "well she has kids. When you bring kids into the equation things totally change." I dont have kids, but i feel like she was correct on this. I never feel the need to prostitute myself to make money, but i also dont have 3 children depending on me to bring them food. So I hate the girls for ruining the industry, but at the same time i cant hate them because i know that a lot of them do it because they are trying to bring home money to their kids.
I know, most girls dont agree iwth me here. But my personal philosophy is one where i try to save my hatred and malice for those who I believe are truly bad people. I dont and cant believe that the dirty girls are truly bad people. So i guess my unwilingness to be mean to them is a karma thing.
im not putting snitching in the category of mean-ness though. as i said, my hesitation to snitch stems from a different set of values.
Wow. Just. Wow.
I seriously think about my shopping list/what I have to do the next day/something I read earlier that day while I'm private dancing. Anything but actually think about the pervert staring at me.
I love money, so I mostly think about the things I can do with it. I don't see how anyone can get turned on by dancing for some PL in the private area!
Rubbing tits in a custy's face is legal, and hell, EXPECTED, where I live, but there is a 6 inch rule (that many dancers do not follow sadly) and a no grinding/contact (except for breasts in the face and touching on the arm, or whatever... innocent stuff).
It really intrigues me how different the laws are from city to city and state to state. I can't imagine the clit rubbing to be permissible anywhere? Or am I wrong?
Yea, clit rubbing is not legal anywhere. The only exceptions to this might be in Rhode Island when they used to have a loophole where prostitution was legal inside of a building or something like that, but that loophole was closed. And perhaps in states where sex shows/peep shows are ok, clit rubbing is allowed maybe by the girls but not by the customers (im not sure on this... im just assuming in some places it is legal for girls to masturbate as a show).
In legal brothels it would be ok for a customer to rub a girls clit.
But in the strip clubs? No, coochie rubbing is not legal, certainly not when done by a customer.
Friday night...
Customer: One last thing...would you rub your tits in my face please? (at the end of a dance)
Me: No; I don't do that, sorry.
Customer: Why not?
Me: Because I already make twice as much as the girls who do?
lmao charlie that is the best reply i've ever heard for that 'request'!
Honestly, I can't believe that putting tits in faces is even legal... especially where I am at, due to the strict no-contact/must wear latex thing they have going on.
Any suggestions for clubs near NE Indiana where I don't have to put tits in faces? I'm fine with full-nude. =)