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$8,500 Weekend getaway!!!!
Ok, so this guy emailed me about a weekend in San Fransisco, Cali (Im in Texas). I really didn't think he was serious but he emailed me back and said ok, I'll need you the last week of March, where do we go from here. I'm like WHAT!!!!! I still have to screen him, so I'm hoping this works out because that would be sooo bad ass! I am thinking that a deposit would be a good idea, what do you guys think? 40-50% deposit? Ahh I really hope this works out, It could help me soo much! Hell and if I kiss his ass enough maybe I could do a weekend a month and work at home! He said he is a doctor, so we will see!!
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Screen screen screen. Ask for a scan of a bank statement.
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Ya I will def screen well, I don't want to get killed, but I don't know about the bank statement, I'll ask for providers, work and home address and all that.. if he hasnt seen any other girls Im not going at all, I think it would be too risky, but you think that a deposit is a good idea?
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Girl you'd be crazy to go on such trip and not collect a deposit. How else would you you collect the money.. upfront when you get there? Collect 4k upfront and SCREEN the hell out of him. Do not let the lure of such amount get you caught up.. Most of all GOOD LUCK! Hope it works out!
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I think a 50% deposit of that much money would risk scaring him off - maybe a 10% deposit would be reasonable and reassuring. Get the money via cheque - not PayPal etc.
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sxcbbw
I think a 50% deposit of that much money would risk scaring him off - maybe a 10% deposit would be reasonable and reassuring. Get the money via cheque - not PayPal etc.
I don't think it would. Works for me everytime. Depends on the guy I guess.. but it really depends on the girl .If he knows she's legit (reviews, message boards.. ), he'll go for it.
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Wow, thats alot of $$ for a weekend....is this offer from an Eros ad? I just started so I'm hanging in there.....it can be frustrating at times..lol ...:)
Background check is a yes! .......girls do you take same day appoinments? Or is it safer for a 24-48hr advance booking? :)
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malayataylor
Girl you'd be crazy to go on such trip and not collect a deposit. How else would you you collect the money.. upfront when you get there? Collect 4k upfront and SCREEN the hell out of him. Do not let the lure of such amount get you caught up.. Most of all GOOD LUCK! Hope it works out!
Thanks Girl!
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SALLY101
Wow, thats alot of $$ for a weekend....is this offer from an Eros ad? I just started so I'm hanging in there.....it can be frustrating at times..lol ...:)
Background check is a yes! .......girls do you take same day appoinments? Or is it safer for a 24-48hr advance booking? :)
No its not from eros, another Ad, I work with an agency almost every other week (out of town), and when I'm home I usually book 24 hours in advance, but most girls do same day appointments. I will do same day appointment with my regulars that I've been getting. I have about 5 local guys that say they just need one girl and want to see me every week.. Since I know them pretty well and I know they will not flake out on me and they know we are both very busy. I try to get as many regulars as I can!
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babybambi08 -
thanks for the tip! I was thinking the same thing...same day appts with regulars only...I'm going to see how indy works if not...I can go back out being a personal assisant/booker for traveling companions :)
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good luck, If you dont have any other responsibility I think same day app. are available.
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sxcbbw
I think a 50% deposit of that much money would risk scaring him off - maybe a 10% deposit would be reasonable and reassuring. Get the money via cheque - not PayPal etc.
ARE YOU AN ESCORT?! I didn't think so.
50% is a standard deposit for providers doing overnights. Don't risk getting ripped off and short-changing yourself.
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vivianbear
ARE YOU AN ESCORT?! I didn't think so.
50% is a standard deposit for providers doing overnights. Don't risk getting ripped off and short-changing yourself.
LOL @ Cheque first of all.. Umm.. Not a good Idea. I'd take a bank transfer for the deposit or make him do greendots till I get a full deposit lol. I wouldn't accept cheque from a client AND 10% is pretty ridiculous for obvious reasons.
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vivianbear
ARE YOU AN ESCORT?! I didn't think so.
50% is a standard deposit for providers doing overnights. Don't risk getting ripped off and short-changing yourself.
Jesus Christ, dude. Down girl!!! Yeah 50% is a standard deposit but to people who don't work in the business 50% of almost 9K as a deposit is a little mind boggling. She was just trying to be helpful.
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malayataylor
LOL @ Cheque first of all.. Umm.. Not a good Idea. I'd take a bank transfer for the deposit or make him do greendots till I get a full deposit lol. I wouldn't accept cheque from a client AND 10% is pretty ridiculous for obvious reasons.
Well perhaps just not a personal check? Business or certified would probably work, but in cases like this I'd go with good ol' Western Union.
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wanderlust08
Yeah 50% is a standard deposit but to people who don't work in the business 50% of almost 9K as a deposit is a little mind boggling. She was just trying to be helpful.
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Seriously, then, people who don't work in the business need to STFU. It's throwing out shit like that that confuses women into taking less than they deserve. 10% and a check? What woman in her right mind takes a check for adult services? It's just the opposite of helpful, actually and potentially dangerous.
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Really guys the standard is 25%-50%. 10% is really setting yourself up for a setback. I have to agree with vivian on this one.. most HDHs require 50%...Hell I require 50% and Who accepts a check for such service? .. That's pushing it.. lol
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We haven't to the party about how he sends the money.. I'm kinda worried about that.. I wont give him my address, and I really dont want to give him my real name so how could i do that...I undstand green dots like a prepaid card but how could that help me? how do I get the funds in cash off a card? and western union, money order wouldnt he have to know my real name?
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Congrats!! I hope this works out for you! :)
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Congrats hun, I hope it goes well! You deserve something like this, what with all the crap it seems like you've gone through recently. Def make sure to get y nice big deposit just in case he turns out to be a freak.
And buy yourself something really sweet! ;D
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lol ya I do need it! I would love it! It would help me so much! I would catch up on my car payments lol!! I wanna pay off my car before the fall..thats my goal anyways.. about 13k
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You can get a Mailbox - that is what I do - then have them fedex the 50% deposit. My mailbox - which is an actual address not a P.O. Box is in my working name. If Money order - it is made out to cash. I have not tried Greendot. I am not sure how much one can put on it as my required deposit is quite high for overnight or longer. No cheques ever.
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genevievela
You can get a Mailbox - that is what I do - then have them fedex the 50% deposit. My mailbox - which is an actual address not a P.O. Box is in my working name. If Money order - it is made out to cash. I have not tried Greendot. I am not sure how much one can put on it as my required deposit is quite high for overnight or longer. No cheques ever.
Love it! I'll have to try this.
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Im learning too...so not giving advice, just asking question about what Ive read so far, guys :) If you took a payment via deposit to YOUR bank account....you have to give your account number, real name....all kinds of info...correct? That seems sure...but not safe...
A money order sent FedEx to a PO box or somethin seems like the best option? Maybe? Other than the risk of FedEx losing it!