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LOL. It's about confidence. If I am on stage whether someone hands me a $50 or $100 I assume they mean it and accept it graciously and sexily lol.
A couple of weeks ago a guy gave me a $100 and I did a dance for him on stage and then when I got off I saw him on the floor and he said he thought he gave me a $10 and he was embarrassed but he really couldn't afford to tip $100. I said that was fine and then asked if he wanted to use the $100 for a really hot lap dance. He decided to. So all worked out in the end :)
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jaizaine
LOL. It's about confidence. If I am on stage whether someone hands me a $50 or $100 I assume they mean it and accept it graciously and sexily lol.
A couple of weeks ago a guy gave me a $100 and I did a dance for him on stage and then when I got off I saw him on the floor and he said he thought he gave me a $10 and he was embarrassed but he really couldn't afford to tip $100. I said that was fine and then asked if he wanted to use the $100 for a really hot lap dance. He decided to. So all worked out in the end :)
When I first stopped in my club many years ago, I inadvertently tipped a dancer I didn't know $20 by mistake. I pointed that out to her a minute or two later and she just returned it. She asked me for a dance that night, which I couldn't afford (otherwise I wouldn't have cared about the $20). I came back the next night and did the first of the two dozen or so CR's I eventually did with her. Had she not been so understanding that first night, she'd likely never have seen a CR from me.
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Once they put the money on the stage, it is mine. If someone pointed out that they gave me the wrong denomination I might negotiate with them, but if someone puts say $100 on the stage (which has happened many times) I don't argue. It's that whole "don't look a gift horse in the mouth" theory.
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Kylea2
Once they put the money on the stage, it is mine. If someone pointed out that they gave me the wrong denomination I might negotiate with them, but if someone puts say $100 on the stage (which has happened many times) I don't argue. It's that whole "don't look a gift horse in the mouth" theory.
I have this same theory. Once it's on the stage or in my garter, it's mine. Fuck if you made a mistake - that ain't my problem. ;D
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I have this same theory. Once it's on the stage or in my garter, it's mine. Fuck if you made a mistake - that ain't my problem. ;D
Agreed. I never give money back, ever.
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Agreed. I never give money back, ever.
Me either. Doesn't matter what the denomination. Once it's out of your hand, it's mine.
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jaizaine
A couple of weeks ago a guy gave me a $100 and I did a dance for him on stage and then when I got off I saw him on the floor and he said he thought he gave me a $10 and he was embarrassed but he really couldn't afford to tip $100. I said that was fine and then asked if he wanted to use the $100 for a really hot lap dance. He decided to. So all worked out in the end :)
When he said yes to that offer, you should have told him - "See, I caught you in a lie. You can afford to tip $100." - and walked away.
This is why I always keep my larger bills for LDs in my back pockets and stage tip bills in my front pockets.:D
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I tip 5's at the stage all the time. I've never had a dancer try to give one back...
1's, 5's and 10's in my tip roll. 20's 100's in my wallet. I would never assume that I would get money back from a dancer if I made a mistake. I also wouldn't be in a strip club if the mistake was going to be something I couldn't afford.
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I've never given a stage tip back. Okay, I take that back, I've shoved a stage tip back at a customer, before. But mostly I always assumed that the customer meant to tip me exactly how much he put on that stage.
Of course, getting $100's were rare, but $20's were fairly common. I assumed that meant "Come find me when you are done with stages."
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I would never give back a big bill.
If a customer had the audacity to ask for a tip back, i would say "well i saw you put 100$ up there, so i made sure to put on a 100$ show. Sorry, now i cant give it back."
or i would just laugh at them.
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I look at how people carry, hold or count money.
Some count it with confidence, others fumble with it, still some touch it like its icky or on fire.
Those people are not comfortable with cash or money in general.
Some girls are not comfortable taking larger bills because in the real world some men would expect something for their generosity.
In the real world I will graciously accept a mans gifts without feeling obligated to give him something in return other than a 'thank you'.
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You can come to my club anytime and hand me big bills. Don't worry. I won't give them back.
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If it was an honest mistake ( like .... they really thought the $100 they put on stage was a 10 ) I'd just offer dances for the amount if they asked for it back. Dances or none would probably be the only options.
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Kylea2
Once they put the money on the stage, it is mine. If someone pointed out that they gave me the wrong denomination I might negotiate with them, but if someone puts say $100 on the stage (which has happened many times) I don't argue. It's that whole "don't look a gift horse in the mouth" theory.
For the record, I didn't ask for it back. I agree that once its given, it belongs to the dancer. She had every right to keep it and that probably is the smartest route for a dancer to follow in general. Her actions definitely impressed me though and opened the door to me putting a few thousand dollars in her hands over the next few months. Would she have gotten that few thousand anyway? I don't know but I felt I owed her my initial patronage because of her actions that first night I met her.
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Cool. Glad it worked for her.
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I bet every girl that did that ended up getting more money as a result. Sure, some people might mistakenly throw out a big bill they don't mean but i bet its a small minority, the rest are going to be quite impressed by the gestured and end up spending more on you than they would otherwise.
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I had a young kid give me a tip with a $20 bill hanging in his mouth, and I questioned it. As it turned out he didn't mean to give the $20 and took it out of his mouth and gave me a dollar instead. We have pretty broke/cheap tippers most of the time, but I have been tipped large bills and I usually will not question it or will not give it back. Usually young kids are not so generous, so I did question it that time. I have never seen anyone question or try to offer back a $5 tip before. I will never, ever question a tip again and will assume that anything on my stage is what you meant to give me. If it was a mistake, not my fucking problem. If you are douche-ish enough to approach me about the mistake, then I would probably give some of it back because it wouldn't be worth you bothering mgmt about it and I would want to avoid any problems not giving it back would cause. It would annoy me and I would think you were a pathetic douche if you asked for it back.
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Wow what club was the OP in when this happened??
I have never heard of a dancer giving back a big bill. Plenty of times they have come and asked me if I saw who gave it to them, though. I never have a clue who it might have been, unless maybe there is one group of high rollers.
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I bet every girl that did that ended up getting more money as a result. Sure, some people might mistakenly throw out a big bill they don't mean but i bet its a small minority, the rest are going to be quite impressed by the gestured and end up spending more on you than they would otherwise.
What's impressive about a girl questioning if you can afford something and cutting down her own income?
I prefer to accept the tips and subsequently go sit with the man who gave me said tip.
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The thing that really gets me... is the OP only handed the girl a 5. thats not even a big bill. Im wondering how much the dancer in question valued herself if she thought that a 5 was a high amount for her performance :O.
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Five bucks is the minimum tip you can tuck in a g-string up here, as it's our lowest paper currency. I've seen a dude put a loonie on the stage in front of him while he sat in pervert's row. I felt embarassed for him, though obviously he thought it was ok. I wonder if he asked for change back later.
When I was a young man just starting out with the railway, I carried suitcases from the trains to the cab stand or the hotel across the street in Toronto. One night a man came off the first class coach, handed me his bag, and asked me to get him a cab. I did, and he put a folded up 50 dollar bill in my hand. When I got back inside the station, I noticed the denomination of the bill, and reported it to the Station Master in case he came back later. He didn't. The usual tip at the time was 50 cents or a buck for a suitcase, so I was thrilled...but wondered just the same if he'd made a mistake.
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Djoser
Wow what club was the OP in when this happened??
I have never heard of a dancer giving back a big bill. Plenty of times they have come and asked me if I saw who gave it to them, though. I never have a clue who it might have been, unless maybe there is one group of high rollers.
I'm pretty sure I know which club. The thing is with the clubs in this area, unless it is a real busy night there usually is not that many guys tipping at the stages. This is even more so during the day shift when there may be just one or two guys if that tipping at a time. Usually the dancer will approach each guy at the stage, do some moves, encourage some contact - sometimes fairly heavy contact and then collect the tip from the guy. So they usually have a very good idea of who has tipped what. A lot of guys are only tipping 2 maybe 3 dollars so if you tip above that it is not hard to get a dancer's attention.
I've never accidentally tipped with a larger bill than intended. I use the same basic idea as Yoda for keeping tipping money separate from the larger bills. I keep a roll of 1s and 5s in my pants pocket and the bigger bills in my wallet. Usually if I know I will be heading up to a stage to tip a particular dancer I'll put some 1s in my shirt pocket. That way can I just easily pull the stage tip out without fumbling around reaching into my pants pocket or reveling the size of my tip roll.
IF I would accidentally tip with a larger bill I don't think I would ask for it back. But I would probably be more likely to spend more on the dancer who offered it back to me than one who didn't.
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Trem
I bet every girl that did that ended up getting more money as a result. Sure, some people might mistakenly throw out a big bill they don't mean but i bet its a small minority, the rest are going to be quite impressed by the gestured and end up spending more on you than they would otherwise.
To be perfectly honest the only impression I would get if a dancer tried to give me back my tip would be that she either wasn't very bright, was drunk, or didn't care for middle aged guys. I wouldn't invest any time in getting to know her better...