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dELETING EVERYTHING EVERYWHERE.
I might be old school, but I never meet customers outside the club. I think it is unsafe, and just as important, it gives up your control. The reason a customer keeps coming back is becasue he wants more. If you go meet him, he is in control and you have lost your appeal.
I have suggestions for you on how to make more money from him by giving LESS. I swear! and I have been dancing for a very long time.
You need to call me.. I have one of those really high tech phones and i get my words all mixed up that's why my text messages are so short! lol! Don't be afraid to call girl, I don't bite!
As far as the SD is concerned, If You met him at a SD website , then he already know what the deal is. Do not beat around the bush and only accept what you think you're worth. I don't do the SD arrangements because I feel like it's too time consuming. For 1k a week I'd probably see him 2 times that week for 1500 maybe 3-4 times that week.. That's how you'd have to hustle them. With escorting it's a different ball game so i can charge that $400 an hour every time i see a client...
Having said all this, YES ask him to compensate you for gas money. Whatever you need, Tell HIM! He was not on eharmony.com was he? he was on an sd site.. so Tell him don't ask! Always be aggressive with these men so they know you mean business and If ANYONE tells you "You have to wait two weeks till i get my paycheck" You do NOT want him as a sugardaddy so cut him off in the begining before it turns out to be a mess lol. I don't know what else to tell you but call if you need me hun. I'm just a little ify about the whole arrangement because i'd want my money upfront and i'd want it in full and i'd hate for someone to try to negotiate with me.. they wouldn't want me as a sugarbaby if they tried lol!
well said!
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He probably won't want to give you gas money up front... I've been on that SA site too and I would insist on them coming to ME. That way you don't waste your time or money... traveling to meet a potential SD and using your own gas money sounds like a bad idea to me. Just saying.
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Yeah I always think to myself "why dosen't she just call? lol! Call anytime girl and If I don't answer I'm too tied up with my little one and if im in an appointment I'll hit you afterwards.
The Iphones are only $199 now.. they were $300, I have a blackberry though. I might as well get the damn iphone I have att and my phone bill is already pretty ridiculous.
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Yes you want to be aggressive, Fuck their feelings! You can still be sweet and agressive without being a "bitch". If you meet an guy on an SD site and he's complaining about money or throwing a fit about how he hasn't gotten paid yet or whatever.. CUT HIM OFF! Don't play his little games.
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He didn't even offer to five your fourty dollars for gas!!! What a creep!
If he wants to blatantly talk about sex, then you should blatantly talk to him about money. I would.
Reading that email between you and the potential SD tells me that he is not even THINKING about giving you gas money. If he was as wealthy and interested as he said, he could easily come to you for the 1st meeting. He wants to see how the chemistry is? Uh, sounds like he justs wants to play games and have sex for little or no money, or FREE. He is hoping you will be smitten or dumb enough to give up the goodies. I wouldn't be surprised if he says he needs a "sample" before any cash comes out his pocket. He knows exactly what that site is about, and he would like more pics? The first set of pics should have been good enough, and if he is so excited to meet then he don't need anymore pics. He did not even get to the business at hand. All SD's know they have to pay. I can't believe he did not even respond to you saying you are low on cash, and will have to post pone the trip. He sounds like a huge time waster.
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Time waster darling. Don't waste your time!
But emmm, Nice response! Let's see what he says ..
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Xiomara that was a great response to him, and now he knows you are not playing his little dumb ass games. Aint no tellin how many pics he collected this week! Now I'm dying to see how or IF he even responds to what you wrote!
Xiomara, I just read your last post.....in my experience it was hard as hell to find a SD. It was alot easier for me to just meet up clients. Sd's are on some other shit, IMO. They are looking for some hot chick to date, or for arm candy. They want you to jump thru hoops for some bill money. They have a whole list of crap they want to put you thru for a little bit of change. I use to put adds on them sites and all I got was pic collectors, pervs, and time wasters. One guy, whom I never had sex with, was paying my bills for about a year. He 1st met me as my client and decided he couldnt go thru with the "act" but wanted to help me because I'm so sweet lol. That lasted a year and then he dissapeared. I am assuming because he was always giving me things, and money and wanted more A RELATIONSHIP! but that wasn't gonna happen. Maybe finding a SD works for some girls, but it sure is hard as hell to find someone who is serious!
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It's ok. My pics are all over the place. Guys use to trick me in the beginning. I would send maybe 1 pic, then they say omg! you are so sexy! can I get another from a different angle? So I would do it lol. Then he wanted another and another. Eventually I learned that they are just getting off to my pics and will never meet me. Just wasting my precious time. I am sure you will be able to weed out the time wasters!
Hey Xiomara, do you do cam? I know what your trying to do is very time consuming. Might as well pass up the time on cam and get paid, you know?
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It's not very hard, and I started out using my built in cam, and still made good money. It's easy to start. Just make up a name you want to use, fill out the paper work and email it to them, and they will approve you probably in one day. I am working on imlive. You should just go to the site and look at the sign up process. And I think as long as your room is clean it is fine, for starters. People work in different areas of the house.
LOL... your ex clients from escorting? that's the great thing about having a website.. I state on my website not to ask me for pictures and not to email me unless they for sure want to see me in the near future. I've never sent my pics and when I do my ads I watermark them with my website url .. lol! Arrrgh men!
Good idea!
How to get started is pretty much easy.. just find a site and give it a try.. with $60 you can get a damn good cam.. and that's all you need.. Oh yeah and good lighting. It's not hard at all.. you could be making money girl.
Hey Malaya, yes my ex clients from when I first started escorting. They use to get me with that send more pics crap, and I thought I had too. And I had a nice add with lots of pics too when I 1st started. I admit it did take me a while to figure out that if they were intrigued enough from seeing the pics I already had, then they should not need more! It doesnt bther me that people have my pics because my face was blurred out. So if anyone even thinks they might recognise me, I will deny, deny, deny! LOL. I swear I would easily spend hours sending more pics in emails. Also I found that when men ask for more pics they just simply are not serious. If they thought you was hot enough to contact in the 1st place then what the fuck do they need more pics for? A serious man is going to call you up and say "Hi Josie, I saw your add, site etc, love your pics, and would love to set up a time to see you" Boom! Set the appointment, and hope he don't fuck up by asking stupid ass questions when he shows up like "So what all do I get for that $300?" Uh oh, either he's a cop or a fucking idiot! Time to go...
Xiomara sign up as a free member on one of the cam sites so you can check out the different webcam models. You will see how they do it. Hopefully you get to check out a good one :) Trust me, it's better than playing email tag!
ROTFL.. You are hilarious girl! Sooo true though!
I don't think it's a bad idea Xio. At least you'll have some extra income coming in ... at LEAST $500 a week .. so give it a whirl.Quote:
Xiomara sign up as a free member on one of the cam sites so you can check out the different webcam models. You will see how they do it. Hopefully you get to check out a good one :) Trust me, it's better than playing email tag!