Re: 2,3,4 hour appointments?
Im guessing Ill have to change a few things on my website so some of these things dont happen..
Re: 2,3,4 hour appointments?
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babybambi08
How do you get these appointments, do people just ask for it or do you talk them into it, if you talk them into it how??
Do I ask for a multi hour appointment and "talk them into it"? UM hell no. You can't really "talk" these guys into ANYTHING. If they want to see you they will if not then they won't. It really depends on the girl on how she presents herself. Either the guy hires her because he just wants to bang her OR he hires her because he's interested in getting to know her and would like to spend time with her...... and later bang her.. LOL!
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Where do you advertise?
What do you do for these long times? I just did my first two hour appointment.....
Do you chat with your customers on yahoo!?
December was my WORST month.. and I had so many ads out there BUT february so far has been my best month and I had one ad on cityvibe and that's it. So it's pretty much hit or miss.. Right now I advertise on cityvibe and escort message boards.
What do you mean by what do you do for these long times? Ummm.. have them buy me whatever I want, have dinner, go to the strip club, hang out, watch tv... walk around ummm.. whatelse are we supposed to do? ;)
Do I chat with customers on yahoo? HELL NO! Though I have an msn account for business, the only person I talk to on it is minnie.. ha! No one hits me up on there lol. For me it's just email. They fill out the screening form on my site.. i screen them, then i call and make small talk THEN book the appointment. I have a business phone but no one calls it either. It's all email for me then I CALL them!
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I have had a few guys that want to "chat" with me on IM to see if they want to see me, I've done it twice and I really didnt want to but I thought it would help. This one guy asked about an appointment, but I couldnt get him to confirm and it was about an hour away and the next day he was like I waited for you.. but I never answered him because he was an idiot! This guy I just talked to wanted me to go two hours our of my way and I was like ok, sure.. but then I just got an email, someone got in my stash I do not have enough to see you. I mean really?? seriously? you dont even have $300 dollars and you asked to see me, we fucking chated forever online and then you cancel like that??
Bullshit, Don't talk to anyone.. Just don't do that.. ugh! These men kill me. They know the first 5 seconds of admiring your photos if they want to see you so don't even waste your time with IMs. You'll only run into major problems that way.. like really what the hell do they need to talk about.. LOL!
I have got a few shady guys ^^ and I had a feeling that they were going to be weird.
I mean do you take every customer that passes screening?
Do you blacklist someone that cancels? or doesnt show?
How do you politely insist that someone showers? even after they say they just took a shower?? Ive had lots of nasty smelling guys that claimed they just showed.[/quote]
Re: 2,3,4 hour appointments?
http://www.saafe.info/ most of what you ask is answered here.
Re: 2,3,4 hour appointments?
Raise your rates. The cheap guys just want a pump and dump. The guys who want to spend several hours with a woman go to higher priced providers. They also know how to shower.
Your rate dictates the type of client you will attract.
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well I charge $300 an hour, the rates around here are like $200 an hour! thats $100 cheeper than what I typically charge!
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babybambi08 -
Message boards are great! You can gain potienal clients from there.. :)
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How does the message board thing work? You just chat and interact like we all do here? Or do you mean more like, advertising posts or ads?
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Again with the bad B.O......omg that is such a huge pet peeve of mine....to bathe or not to bathe.....ummmmm mudafuka wash yo ass! Oh gosh, I hate to hear this Bambi. If you are having a major issue with guys who don't know how to wash everyday then I would suggest you do what a friend of mine did to every client. Politely ask them if they can go freshen up in the bathroom bere you can begin your date. I don't know what to tell you, really. I would turn down someone who doesn't smell right, because I am wondering why don't you care about being fresh, and well bathed? Some guys just can't stop and shower if they are coming to see you after work or something, that is when having plenty of soap and clean towels will come in handy. As far as chatting with them fools on yahoo is concerned, just don't do it period. That is just asking for trouble. There are so many incriminating things that COPS can get you to say without you even knowing it! I bet one of the questions the "chatters" are asking is "So, how long have you been in the escort business?" hhhmmmm? I know that's one. Or they probably wanna sit on yahoo telling you all the stories of how they have met all these famous hot escorts lol. and they know so much about the business that they wanna give you some good advise, because your such a nice girl, and hate to see anything bad happen to you. Or worse, they want to discuss what acts you are comfortable with doing to see if you are compatible. I just would not chat with them. A good call or email is "Hi my name is_____I would like to know if friday around noon is a good time to meet" and that's it. Screen and book it. The real men don't even have time to chat with you on yahoo, let alone try that small talk crap! Damn these guys can be so annoying.
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josiecamgirl
Again with the bad B.O......omg that is such a huge pet peeve of mine....to bathe or not to bathe.....ummmmm mudafuka wash yo ass! Oh gosh, I hate to hear this Bambi. If you are having a major issue with guys who don't know how to wash everyday then I would suggest you do what a friend of mine did to every client. Politely ask them if they can go freshen up in the bathroom bere you can begin your date. I don't know what to tell you, really. I would turn down someone who doesn't smell right, because I am wondering why don't you care about being fresh, and well bathed? Some guys just can't stop and shower if they are coming to see you after work or something, that is when having plenty of soap and clean towels will come in handy. As far as chatting with them fools on yahoo is concerned, just don't do it period. That is just asking for trouble. There are so many incriminating things that COPS can get you to say without you even knowing it! I bet one of the questions the "chatters" are asking is "So, how long have you been in the escort business?" hhhmmmm? I know that's one. Or they probably wanna sit on yahoo telling you all the stories of how they have met all these famous hot escorts lol. and they know so much about the business that they wanna give you some good advise, because your such a nice girl, and hate to see anything bad happen to you. Or worse, they want to discuss what acts you are comfortable with doing to see if you are compatible. I just would not chat with them. A good call or email is "Hi my name is_____I would like to know if friday around noon is a good time to meet" and that's it. Screen and book it. The real men don't even have time to chat with you on yahoo, let alone try that small talk crap! Damn these guys can be so annoying.
I agree with an above poster, A higher rate attracts a different caliber of men. I've gotten the bad B.O client when I was with the agency. now how many bad B.O or bad clients have I had since being independent? Zero! it's all about the way you present yourself ONTOP of your rate structure and don't think you're gonna get high end clients showing your naked self online because it's the EXACT opposite. In all my pics, I'm full clothed. I don't even do the whole peakaboo thing.
So bambi, Just find what works foryou hun and DO NOT chat with clients on messengers.