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FREELOADERS that "dont get dances!!"
I know I've posted a similar case before, but a new situation came up last night..it was pretty busy, and had a good number of guys say "i dont get dances, its just a tease and i want sex with a girl for free and likes me" I went with the line of "you dont want a half naked girl in your lap?? you SURE you're not telling me something here ;)" of course got a good laugh, but still wouldn't get dances from me, or anyone. Have you girls gotten this before? What do you say to them, or is there no hope in getting dances from these guys? AGH! :banghead:
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I understand what they're saying, that they don't want a cock tease...whatever fine I get it. But why go to a SC then if they feel like that?? They need to STFU and stay home if that's how they feel about it IMO.
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When they tell me they want sex, I point them at someone that can help them. That fact that I can point them at more than one person that can help them is why I'm going to quit by fall.
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I remind them that we perform "Striptease"... we don't "please". If they keep bothering me about it I tell them that the club doesn't provide "take out" either.
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Oh man ........ I hate it when they say this. There is just something about this line that racks right up there with " where you last week when I spent $500 here ? " that just grates my nerves. I've responded with everything from cute responses to flat out just telling them they probably shouldn't be in the club.
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Rayna Skye
When they tell me they want sex, I point them at someone that can help them. That fact that I can point them at more than one person that can help them is why I'm going to quit by fall.
If they're an undercover though you'll go down too and oftentimes just as hard. My friend taught me this. I used to try and hook my friends up that escorted, when guys asked me for services I'd give them the numbers of my friends but once I learned this I totally stopped. :-\
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In my experience, there is not a lot you can do with these guys. Occasionally, I have seen a girl spend a lot of time with this type of customer and maybe get 1 or 2 dances out of him. But the vast majority of them have their minds made up that they just aren't going to be hustled, or at least not by you if you get this line. It's best to move on quickly and don't let them get you down. I usually depart by wishing him a good night and saying that I hope he'll at least come visit me at the stage.
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^^^ I know I can eventually sell them too, but in the time it takes me to sell one dance to a guy like this I could have sold 4 dances to some other guy. It's just not worth it.
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These guys are just looking for an excuse to not have to spend money. Trust me, if the 'I wanna get laid' excuse doesn't kill your hustle, they'll keep finding excuses until you give up.
I mean, let's be honest, how many of the guys who say shit like this are actually going to get laid that night? They're just trying to waste your time with the added bonus of making you feel shitty.
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I can't stand these guys, I usually just walk away when I hear this. I think the only thing you can try is a quick and demanding hustle, i.e. whispering in their ear that you'll give them the horniest LD of their life, it'll be better than sex if they come with you right now.
Failing this walk away and don't waste any more time on them, just be happy knowing if they really could go out and get laid for free they would be, instead they're pathetic losers that have just been rejected by all the girls in other clubs and decided to settle on perving at strippers and taking out their anger about their own inadequacies by attempting to degrade women who they'd probably be spending a fortune on if they hadn't just spent all their money trying (and failing) to get girls drunk enough to sleep with them ::)
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i tell them that the real reason is that they probably can't afford it...9/10 of them throw a hissy fit and say shit like, nu-uh yes i can. and i roll my eyes, tell them good luck paying their rent, and walk away.
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^^ HAHA you girls are great. I totally agree , it's probably better to move on to a guy that you can get more dances out of in less time, but, a LOT of guys in my club say this- the way they say it, is pretty much they dont want a 'cock tease' and *think* they can get sex for free, theyre not asking for sex in the club, theyre pretty much asking me out- and of course the "sorry babe i dont meet anyone out of the club" which is what they want..not to pay for ANY type of sex/tease/lapdance etc and want to be "liked for them" haha...i've said well, what are you doing here?! lol. Just so frustrating, was wondering if there was any hope for idiots like that, but, I guess the move on, maybe come back later thing is probably best, agh..we should all make a sign " FREELOADERS WILL GET A POINTED HEEL SHOVED WHERE THE SUN DON't SHINE..TIPS APPRECIATED :D " hehe.
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Originally Posted by
sunshine16
I know I've posted a similar case before, but a new situation came up last night..it was pretty busy, and had a good number of guys say "i dont get dances, its just a tease and i want sex with a girl for free and likes me" I went with the line of "you dont want a half naked girl in your lap?? you SURE you're not telling me something here ;)" of course got a good laugh, but still wouldn't get dances from me, or anyone. Have you girls gotten this before? What do you say to them, or is there no hope in getting dances from these guys? AGH! :banghead:
When guys try to go back and forth with this shit, I just look him straight in the eyes, smile, and say, "Excuse me, I need to go to the ladies room" or "I am next on stage" and I just walk a few steps over to the bar and sit down and talk to the bartender, I try to be very obvious that I am blowing him off. I look back at the guy, and he usually has this stupid look on his face and I know he is thinking I am the biggest bitch in the World, and I love that. I am the epitome of the type of girl that they despise, so I really love coming face to face with one of these guys.
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^^ haha I'd love to do that, but I dont pull off the bitchy girl well, i'm the girl next door type, but last night WAS awesome when this asshole got really grabby in a dance and I grabbed him HARD and held him down..hehe..looked him straight in the eyes and said "you DONT DO THAT" of course he kept trying to..ended it early, got up and said "that was the worst lapdance ever!" I said "good, because i save the good dances for the nice guys" lol. But for the idiots I described out on the floor I just pull off a sweet/sexy smile and say " thats ok babe, have a great night.." I just wondered if there ARE ways to get these guys to get dances, or at least ways to make them feel like shit about it..I'm still learning on how to not be so nice and less in friend zone and more sexy/sweet but still somewhat bitchy if need be..=/
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sunshine16
^^ haha I'd love to do that, but I dont pull off the bitchy girl well, i'm the girl next door type, but last night WAS awesome when this asshole got really grabby in a dance and I grabbed him HARD and held him down..hehe..looked him straight in the eyes and said "you DONT DO THAT" of course he kept trying to..ended it early, got up and said "that was the worst lapdance ever!" I said "good, because i save the good dances for the nice guys" lol. But for the idiots I described out on the floor I just pull off a sweet/sexy smile and say " thats ok babe, have a great night.." I just wondered if there ARE ways to get these guys to get dances, or at least ways to make them feel like shit about it..I'm still learning on how to not be so nice and less in friend zone and more sexy/sweet but still somewhat bitchy if need be..=/
It just comes with experience, how to specifically handle each individual asshole. Like, I had a guy who was soooo grabby, and I just kept trying to laugh it off like, "he he you can't do that!" but eventually he wouldn't stop, so I stood up and pushed him against the couch with my heel against his chest HARD! He still thought it was a game, and kept trying, so I shoved him back down, and ripped his shirt open so all the buttons flew off (it was an obviously expensive button up) He was so shocked that I did that, he finally just stopped. When the song was over, he went downstairs to tell all his friends how I was the best dancer in the entire club. You just have to flip it to work in your favor, maintain your boundaries, don't let it get to you, you always have the upper hand and there are ways to make a guy stop, but he will still be having a good time. I don't know, it's hard to describe!
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Oh, it didn't bother me at all, I still got his money :) I've tried the playing it off cutsey like that, and just moving his hands ever so slightly..but most often than not they get really pissed even if I add in extra eye contact or whispering in his ear, something to take his mind off of it, sometimes works, sometimes just turns them into dry humping rabbit machines, guys don't put bare butt+friction on anything= PAIN..I've tried the "slow down babe, i LOVE to be in control.." doesnt always work though =/ ...what am i doing wrong :( trying all the tips I've read on here!
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sunshine16
Oh, it didn't bother me at all, I still got his money :) I've tried the playing it off cutsey like that, and just moving his hands ever so slightly..but most often than not they get really pissed even if I add in extra eye contact or whispering in his ear, something to take his mind off of it, sometimes works, sometimes just turns them into dry humping rabbit machines, guys don't put bare butt+friction on anything= PAIN..I've tried the "slow down babe, i LOVE to be in control.." doesnt always work though =/ ...what am i doing wrong :( trying all the tips I've read on here!
i have seen one very cute dancer who carried handcuffs in her purse. idk if i could pull it off, but i thought it was a GREAT idea.
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My favorite thing another girl said was to pin him against the wall and make it *seem* like you're playing dom, I think it didnt work for me because i'm not forceful enough, I guess I have to work on really believing I'm in control, does that just come with time? I hope sooner rather than later!
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Zinaida
If they're an undercover though you'll go down too and oftentimes just as hard. My friend taught me this. I used to try and hook my friends up that escorted, when guys asked me for services I'd give them the numbers of my friends but once I learned this I totally stopped. :-\
If the cops weren't in there buying pussy while on duty, I'd worry about that. If the owner wasn't paying off everyone in town I'd worry about that. I'm not even making a deal with these people. They say "how much for sex"
I say, "talk to those hoes." I point and walk away. But no. Cops come in there all the time, on duty in their uniforms and buy pussy. I've been filling out aps all week.
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Even when it's pretty dead? I guess could always say "thats ok..you can tip me cuz I'm cute!" or something like that, someone else had that idea.
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Freeloader: "i dont get dances, its just a tease and i want sex with a girl for free and likes me"
Me: Isn't this the wrong place for something like that? ::)
With a turn of a nine inch heel and a flip of the hair. Too bad. So sad.
If they're shitty about it I just turn to their buddies right then and there or go back later and hit up their friends.
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Stripper Hacks
Freeloader: "i dont get dances, its just a tease and i want sex with a girl for free and likes me"
Me: Isn't this the wrong place for something like that? ::)
With a turn of a nine inch heel and a flip of the hair. Too bad. So sad.
If they're shitty about it I just turn to their buddies right then and there or go back later and hit up their friends.
This! Quick, to the point, and you're gone before he can even open his mouth to retort something dumb at you.
And if the guy's being extra douchey, it doesn't hurt to "accidentally" bump the table getting up so his drink falls in his lap.
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^^ I like the way you think Jade lol!!! Very true, I do like that line, I'm always afraid to come off bitchy though, not sure why, since apparently a lot of guys like that, or want what they can't have kind of deal..maybe it'll work for some guys too since I'm always so smiley, maybe if I pull a quick bitch card and shock em, they'll shut their mouth or maybe give in and get at least one dance :) Thanks to all you awesome girls, will try this over the weekend!!
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There is no need to even be polite or nice to losers like that especially if they have the nerve to waste more than 20 seconds of your time.
Those are the same type of scum who will go to a bar and not even tip a dollar a drink. If a guy tells me that he does not buy dances immediately when I approach; then I say thanks for being up front and I walk away immediately. There is nothing worse than a loser who has no concept of business and will allow girls to waste their time "talking". How do those scumbags even have the money to get into a strip club in the first place.
Sounds like the bouncers working the door at your club are not doing a good job of chosing who not to let into the club.