How Do You Ask For A Private Dance?
Im new to this, I make pretty good money. I dance in a rural club, on the weekends I do well on stage but dont sell any room dances (which is where you will make the most money).
This is my fault becayse I dont ask anyone for any room dances. The dances that I do get, I get asked. I'll be on stage or sitting at the bar and sometimes the guy will approach me and ask for a room dance, luck I guess.
But I cant depend on luck when the bills are due. I just dont know how to ask without just saying "hey you wanna room dance" So what do I say?
I need to be the one to initiate it because just sitting and talkin to the custie hoping he'll eventually ask for one is a sure time waster. Any suggestions? Thanks
Re: How Do You Ask For A Private Dance?
Do you talk to any of the guys when you get off stage?
If I see a guy or two I'll sit next to them and chit-chat for one or two songs and then I'll ask the guy if he'd like to go into the private room for some one-on-one time. If they decline then I'm on to the next.
I'm new as well, so idk how much value my advice will hold but it's going good for me so far :)
Re: How Do You Ask For A Private Dance?
Look through the Best of Hustle Hut thread for some advice. Listen to what the other girls are saying in your club, maybe you could even team up with a dancer you get along with to approach groups of guys.
Our job is a sales job, and you need to treat it as such. Here's the basic script I usually follow:
- Hi there, how are you ? (customer answers)
- I'm feeling awesome, what's your name ? (answer)
- Nice to meet you [name], my name is Diane, so what brings you in here tonight ?
(customer answers)
According to his answer, I'll then usually give a one-liner inviting him for a dance. For example, "Well you're here to have some fun, so let's get started straight away! I'm sure you can't wait to get a lapdance"! Smile, and take him away.
You can make basic chit-chat (where are you from, etc), but keep it fairly short unless the club is dead. Just adapt a basic script so it fits your personality, and it fits the customer.
Don't feel down if you get rejected, it happens to all of us all the time, and has nothing to do with your worth as a person. So don't let it get to you!
Search the web and this forum, there's plenty of info for newbie dancers. And remember, it's the kind of job where you're always learning :)
Re: How Do You Ask For A Private Dance?
I ask him if he is ready to step into my office.
Re: How Do You Ask For A Private Dance?
OOOOOH that's a good one. I'm so using that tomorrow.
Re: How Do You Ask For A Private Dance?
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flamerose
I ask him if he is ready to step into my office.
Oh my, I love that... I must dress in an office slut outfit and use that one night!!!