He had my number saved as "Robert" in his phone
After wasting 6 months on a guy who gave out majorly suspicious vibes, I just discovered he had called me "Robert" in his contacts list in his phone.
So he was screening my calls while he was with another girl.
I feel so humiliated. I asked him why he did that and he has no answer. So I started crying and said he can at least give me the dignity of an apology after all the time and emotions he wasted.
It really hurts so much to know it was all a game. 6 months gone, all those feelings too - wasted.
He was like 'i'm sorry i fell for you, i'm sorry i saved your name as robert. good luck best wishes." Like, thats ALL I Get??
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Ugg... men. Sorry hun! You shouldn't have to deal with that. Just remember, the bad ones make you appreciate the good ones more. :-)
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On wednesday he said he loves me for the first time, on thursday I realize I am a joke to him...
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my own husband did that to me before! now ex of course... but i was shocked that men are like that..
if he's gonna do something that low to you, then you totally deserve better girl.
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Ugh, what a fucking jerk!! Douche guys like that wil never wake up to how generally douchey they are, until it actually happens to them.
Have you noticed the topic in The Lounge, "Revenge stories"?. Might be some good ideas }:D... just saying
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ouch.. what a dick. Make sure you stay away from him.
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What a tool! I understand how you feel
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This is gonna sound funny but my ex-bf/now very close friend does this with me. I think I'm stored as "Jeff" or something in his phone. His most recent gf (now ex), who was a close friend of mine, pointed it out to me one time when I called because she was using his phone and misdialed my number. I was just calling him back out of courtesy when she answered and told me I came up as a man's name in the phone.
I can see why he does that to me, his platonic woman-friend who he's had a previous relationship with. I know he's had gf's who would snoop into his phone and they would probably have raised hell just by seeing my name. I'm flattered that he does value our long-term friendship enough to take steps to not cause himself problems by just being in contact with me. I obviously respect his space and keep an appropriate distance, staying discrete about contacting him when I know I should.
I wouldn't appreciate this if, say, my husband tried this tactic on me, though. I'd be pretty damn furious, actually. But that's what wedding rings are for, I guess and someone who would take his ring off to pretend to be single would just as easily mask his own wife's name in his phone with that of a man. Good for you, LuvlyDancer, for knowing when its time to walk away from that treatment. You do NOT deserve that at all. I'm sorry you're left hurt and feel like you've lost time but really, you have your entire life to live past this. Fuck 'em. At least you'll see this trick coming next time.
BTW, this sounds so low but really, is this something popular going around? Who's tipping guys off that this could be a new, cool way to "play the field". This just reeks of that expert-dater, womanizer trend that that one Mystery guy would shill. if I ever find the asshole that's passing this out, I'm gonna pay someone to ruin his life.
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vivianbear
BTW, this sounds so low but really, is this something popular going around? Who's tipping guys off that this could be a new, cool way to "play the field". This just reeks of that expert-dater, womanizer trend that that one Mystery guy would shill. if I ever find the asshole that's passing this out, I'm gonna pay someone to ruin his life.
I have one for you......Maxim Magazine. We used to get it at the barber shop I used to work at. I swear, every other month, there would be a feature in there about "How to cheat and get away with it" THIS was one tactic that was mentioned in one of those articles. Also stuff like "Why cheating is hot/the sex is so much hotter", "How to sneak back into your house without being heard", and also how to have two girlfriends.
I hate that fucking magazine. The anorexic airbrushed models are one thing but articles encouraging men to cheat on their sposes/GF's is just absurd. The magazine glorifies it, as if it's some sort of hot trend.
Granted, no ones perfect, and us girls are just as guilty of cheating and bad behaviour too, but I don't believe there are any book or magazines out there that teach women how to cheat on men.
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He read Maxim and when I took a look I was really appalled, he is so vacant and shallow. I should have realized then, most guys I dated have never looked at a mag like that.
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^^ What a crumb....you're far better off without him.
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do yourself a huge favor and realize u deserve better. be lucky he only waste 6 months of ur time he probably would have wasted more if he could have.
if u ever have reasons to be suspcious its usually because something is going on.
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Ive stored plenty of guys numbers as a girls name in the past when i cheated / had male customers. Guess guys are just catching on. Who knows. Ive changed. Hope he does so too.
Move on, sweetie. Screw him.
I woulda broke his phone and said Robert did it. Just sayin....
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Oh gross. Men are so screwed up in the head sometimes. Good for you for knowing you deserve better, and I'm sorry you had to go through that at all. Jerk! :(
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Old post,but I have a similar story. I noticed my man had been calling a number in this phone called "Do nou" Literally. I asked him who it was,he said it was his friend BJ. I had his phone one day in the living room and this number texted him. I asked who it was and she said her name was Jessi or rather another name I can't remember,she was like "Oh your his finace,I've heard soooo much about you" I had noticed that he would stay out side in the mornings when he got home from work,just sitting there. He had been texting her. She was just an old family friend,but he thought I'd be pissed that he was talking to another girl. I later found old Delivery reports in his phone,he had sent her pictures of his chiseled abs. What a douche. Haha. My man is so insecure,he'll look for compliments from anywhere.
Nothing was going on with her,but I confronted him about it,he yelled at me so I grabbed his phone and snapped it in half. Try talkin to that bitch now mother fucker :)
Love you dear.