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Webcam pvt from hell!! Has this ever happened to you?
I work on LiveJasmin. Only been there a week. I really get annoyed in free chat but It doesn't wreck my nerves and I don't mind getting paid to show my tail.
Anyway....last night a customer asked for a pvt. I performed as told. After 1 min he closes the pvt session.
Next thing I know he is ranting and raving that I did not perform. He filed a complaint with the admin, and continued to rant and rave in my room for 6 HOURS.
I don't know what happened. I contacted support and explained the situation and that I was being harrassed and wrongfully defamed. This customer also recorded me and posted it in some blog where they rate performers and more members entered my room saying that they saw the vid and that I didn't show anything during the pvt. session. They cursed me and continued to be very rude to me for hours.
I don't know where this blog is so I don't know what was posted. I contact admin and asked could they check the system on their end and could it possibly be a software problem to where my pvt. session with this customer did not broadcast fully. Admin agreed that something technical happened and the did not fine me or deduct from my earnings.
What I don't understand is why this customer FREAKED OUT and attacked me the WHOLE DAMN NIGHT. I was not rude with him. I did not curse him out or call him names. I vounteered to show him the correspondence I made with support that shows it was a technical glitch and he still did not believe me and continued to harrass me. Also he was refunded his $1.99 because of the problem. I attempted to take support's advice and try to resolve the issue. The customer would not hear it. Repeatedly I explained the broadcast was compromised & I even voluteered to tip his favorite $20 if he would leave me the hell alone, lol!. He still did not accept.
The "ban" option on LJ does not work. When I contacted support about the harrassment they told me that it is not advised to ban a customer and I should attempt to resolved the issue. I contact support again and they asked for screenshots for proof. This morning I got an email saying that the admins have been made aware of the situation.
I didn't want to leave LJ even though I have signed up on 2 other sites but I didn't plan to start working on them until my toys come in the mail; I didn't want to half step when I start. I don't even want to go back now.
I really believe that this person decided to target me for whatever reason just to have someone to f*ck with. :( This was a malicious act done for no reason. And because he is a VIP member there is no recourse for his actions. I feel awful because I was recommending this site to everyone. Are all webcam sites like this? Is there not a site where I don't have to put up with this and just perform and get paid? Why cant it be that simple? Should I record all my session to prevent this from happening again?
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Re: Webcam pvt from hell!! Has this ever happened to you?
I'm confused...what was te technical glitch? Do you not want to get naked on cam..or is that not what he was asking for when you were in pvt?(not every guy wants that...I"ve had guys who just want to see my feet or something)
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Re: Webcam pvt from hell!! Has this ever happened to you?
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Originally Posted by
CKXXX
I'm confused...what was te technical glitch? Do you not want to get naked on cam..or is that not what he was asking for when you were in pvt?(not every guy wants that...I"ve had guys who just want to see my feet or something)
I don't know what the technical glitch was. Whatever it was caused him not to see me perform. I did a specific act, took my camera for a close up of my privates so he could see me finish the act, then placed the camera back. Once I placed the camera back I ask him did he want me to do it again? I assumed he would give me some kind of response.
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Re: Webcam pvt from hell!! Has this ever happened to you?
If this ever happens again and people start bitching you out consistently? Stop working. Get off the site. Email tech support about it, but just go chill out for the rest of the evening. So not worth the hassle whatsoever. Come back in the morning and see what the issue was.
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Originally Posted by
WorkerBee
I don't know what the technical glitch was. Whatever it was caused him not to see me perform. I did a specific act, took my camera for a close up of my privates so he could see me finish the act, then placed the camera back. Once I placed the camera back I ask him did he want me to do it again? I assumed he would give me some kind of response.
Do you mean by zooming in with a remote, or did you physically pick the camera up? If so, do you think it could have pulled on the cord from the USB port or the camera itself?
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Originally Posted by
sxcbbw
If this ever happens again and people start bitching you out consistently? Stop working. Get off the site. Email tech support about it, but just go chill out for the rest of the evening. So not worth the hassle whatsoever. Come back in the morning and see what the issue was.
That's what I wanted to do but felt the need to try and resolve the issue & clear my name. Oh well. I'm off work tommorow so I was planning on pulling an all nighter on LJ (specifically because only 2 members pay me and they told me that they would be back in town 2nite). I don't want this to get me down.
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Originally Posted by
Christany
Do you mean by zooming in with a remote, or did you physically pick the camera up? If so, do you think it could have pulled on the cord from the USB port or the camera itself?
I physcially picked the camera up. If I would have pulled the USB port I would not have been able to see myself either. I was looking at what I was doing on my own PC. I know I saw myself. There is no way I blacked out and forgot to perform because sitting to the left of me was uh.....evidence of the performance.
(what camera has zoom in remote? please provide links)
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Originally Posted by
WorkerBee
I physcially picked the camera up. If I would have pulled the USB port I would not have been able to see myself either. I was looking at what I was doing on my own PC. I know I saw myself. There is no way I blacked out and forgot to perform because sitting to the left of me was uh.....evidence of the performance.
(what camera has zoom in remote? please provide links)
Dude, I was just trying to help.
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I know Christany, lol. It's just such a weird and messed up situation because I don't know what happened or how it could have happened.
Sigh, I'm not going to let this get me down. I'm about to do 2hrs worth of homework and cook dinner. Once I'm done I'm gonna get back on LJ and I'll update y'all on how everything went.
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I'm confused. Is all of this over a show that lasted 1 minute, which the dude got charged $1.99 for? I hope he wouldn't expect you to have been able to show much of anything in the first minute. I don't think it can be determined whether or not a girl *refuses* to get naked within the first 60 seconds. When all a guy has paid is $1.99, he doesn't even have the right to complain about what he did or didn't get.
It sounds to me like this guy was just a general asshole who came into your room and wanted to get as much as he possibly could for the least amount of money.
In the future you may... correction... WILL... get more assholes who do fucked up things, but it is up to you how you handle it. Camming, whether indie or working for a mega-site, is one of the few jobs where you get to call your own shots. I'm not trying to be insensitive because I do understand how it feels to go through something like that, but nobody forced you to sit in that chat room for 6 hours while he went on his angry tirade. Guys will lie and say all kinds of things to get under your skin, to try to get free stuff, etc... you just have to know that you have the upper hand at all times. Really, you do.
Offering to send him $20 in any fashion to compensate for a private show that HE himself paid only $1.99 for and chose to end on his own accord, just to prove something to him... why? You didn't even do anything wrong. And even if you did, it is not your responsibility to pay the customers back out of your own pocket. They know how to charge back when they really feel like something is wrong. If he'd have accepted that money you'd have lost $20 and had the charge back. Don't ever let a customer trick you into thinking you have anything to prove to them. You never do. You simply do your job. If the guy doesn't like how you do business there are 345,332,345,335 other cam girls they can go fuck with. And if management/administration at whatever site you are on gives you too hard of a time, there are 233,232,559,339 other platforms you can use to provide your cam service. You should never be stressed out behind any bullshit either from the customers or the admins. You work for yourself. YOU call the shots.
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Re: Webcam pvt from hell!! Has this ever happened to you?
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Originally Posted by
AngelEyezXYZ
Offering to send him $20 in any fashion to compensate for a private show that HE himself paid only $1.99 for and chose to end on his own accord, just to prove something to him... why? You didn't even do anything wrong. And even if you did, it is not your responsibility to pay the customers back out of your own pocket. They know how to charge back when they really feel like something is wrong. If he'd have accepted that money you'd have lost $20 and had the charge back. Don't ever let a customer trick you into thinking you have anything to prove to them. You never do. You simply do your job. If the guy doesn't like how you do business there are 345,332,345,335 other cam girls they can go fuck with. And if management/administration at whatever site you are on gives you too hard of a time, there are 233,232,559,339 other platforms you can use to provide your cam service. You should never be stressed out behind any bullshit either from the customers or the admins. You work for yourself. YOU call the shots.
This. Please stop even thinking about this instance. Its a non-issue. Please move forward in your camming ventures and realize this is not a "customer is always right" kind of playing field. There are a million belligerent psychotics with access to the internet out there. I'm sorry you bumped into one but it will happen again. I hope you feel more empowered next time to shut him down immediately and cancel him out of your customer base. Good luck, you'll need it.
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WorkerBee
Sigh, I'm not going to let this get me down. I'm about to do 2hrs worth of homework and cook dinner. Once I'm done I'm gonna get back on LJ and I'll update y'all on how everything went.
There should be no "update". There's nowhere to go from here. This is just another one of those "Dude, you'll never believe what happened to me on LJ"-stories. Get back to work.
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Re: Webcam pvt from hell!! Has this ever happened to you?
That sucks that that happened but LJ sucks! If I were you I would work elsewhere.
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Wow I can't believe the admin didn't back you up. Go to a better site IMO.
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Re: Webcam pvt from hell!! Has this ever happened to you?
Fuck this guy and fuck LJ. Don't take this shit. You really didn't do anything wrong.
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This guy sounds like a professional asshole. I would never let anyone get me bent out of shape for a 1 minute paid session. Guys will always complain about this and that, you just have to ignore them and move on. Some ladies gave you some good advise on how to handle this in the future. Good luck!
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josiecamgirl
This guy sounds like a professional asshole. I would never let anyone get me bent out of shape for a 1 minute paid session. Guys will always complain about this and that, you just have to ignore them and move on. Some ladies gave you some good advise on how to handle this in the future. Good luck!
I didn't bother read the whole thing becuase there was no point, any site that offers per minute billing. you will expereince guys coming in for only 1 minute or less and asking for everything under the sun to get a refund. or clam the charges on their credit card are not valid. they are the scam artist of the webcam world.
All you can do is keep working and ignore the guys who come in for one minute. you shouldn't have talked to him while in free chat when he returned becuase your room with paying members who want to spend more then a minute with you are in the room waiting.
We have seen and experienced that the customer service for these websites are horrible with the models and studios not much we can do about it. unless there is an issue without being paid.
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Kudos, homie! Don't let the pricks get you down. It's just a sad coincidence that you had a terrible thing happen in your first few days! I've cammed before and the money can be good, so stick it out. Take this as one more piece of armor under your belt. It's smooth sailing in dollar-dollar bills from here on out!
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definitely do not let it bother you. some people are just assholes in general and there is nothing you can do. keep on working it your bound to end up running into jackasses here and there. fortunately for everyone of them there are 10 more that love ya! if you can try to find the site he posted about you on, contact them and see if they will remove the content.
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Re: Webcam pvt from hell!! Has this ever happened to you?
Guys troll like this for fun. They try to get girls to cry and shit. It's hard but you shouldn't let them win by giving in to he bullshit or arguing back, or paying any attention to them, period. Like someone said above. If something like this happens and you're not able to ban the user, just log off/go to another site.
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Re: Webcam pvt from hell!! Has this ever happened to you?
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kinkydirtybitch
I'm sorry to hear about this mysoginist troll.
LJ can suck my ass if it thinks I'm going to give it more than 50% of my earnings - what a joke!
I'm off to NinaNin!
Hi hun I think I recognise you- do you work on adultwork.com? :)
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Re: Webcam pvt from hell!! Has this ever happened to you?
BIG time! I'm on the front page once a month, upload content daily (so you will see it on the front page), blog daily & feature every one of my services daily so I'm probably quite tricky to miss!
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Haha, KDB!!! That post was from a million years ago. :) I always recognize you and absolutely love you. I am two notches away from being your absolute filth buddy--you are just too good. ;) I love what you are doing right now.
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Well you know what to do when you are only one notch away! ;)