Five sets??? No way. I think I'll stick to Southern Charms or something like that, then building my own site once I get situated.
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Five sets??? No way. I think I'll stick to Southern Charms or something like that, then building my own site once I get situated.
I was top girl at my old club before it turned to shit and I quit/got fired--making $4000/week. I am not exactly "very heavily" tattooed, but I have almost one sleeve finished now and one about half done plus a chest piece and my neck done, my palms, my hand, a small piece on my back and on my calf. How did I do it? Covered them all up all the time. I wore lots of necklaces over my chest piece so that it was hidden, I wore my hair down so my neck piece was covered and wore a black knit pullover while on the floor to hide my arm tattoos. I even sometimes kept it on onstage. And when I was dancing, I definatley took it off but the dance areas were so dark, no one could even see the tattoos.
I had regulars that saw me 10 times and never knew I even had a single tattoo! I was careful to put the black knit jacket thing on as soon as I hit any brighter light.
It also helps that I have a baby face and look really young. SO when the tattoos are taken out of the picture, I look very "innocent", which is partially why I got them in the first place, lol. I got so sick of looking "innocent"! I do have a nose ring and red/black hair, but in the dark light red/black hair just looks black and the nose ring is so small no one notices. I have a seamless ring in so there is no ball.
Other than that, when I hustled guys, I would always sit super close to them or on their lap and try to always look them in the eye so that their eyes would remain on my eyes, instead of on my (tattooed) body, and I'd flirt with them so much that they'd not get a chance to see anything but my face and my eyes (which are nice, I think). AND if they did happen to see a tattoo, and wanted to discuss it, I'd quickly change the subject. I HATE HATE discussing my tattoos because it's so asinine and boring since there is no way I can truly tell them what the tattoos mean--and I really don't want to. Plus, it's a way for the man to avoid the lapdance--which is really what needs to be discussed, but obviously not overtly.
It's possible to be "top girl" and tatted up--you just gotta pretend you don't have any tattoos and you have to cover them up strategically. That, and you gotta hustle HUSTLE and never take no for an answer---charm them into submission then keep them hooked until that money's gone. HOnestly that ability is MUCH more important than any looks or physical qualities--the ability to make a man fall head over heels in love with you--that's GOLD. Absolute GOLD.
i have quite a bit of tattoos and i make quite a bit of money. over a thousand a week, and i work alot of day shifts. true, i dress like a stripper at work, have stripper hair and do my maekup tastefully. when you look nice, tattoos arent that big of a deal. the only times ive had problems were in barbieesque clubs..but even then, i can usually find my niche. be engaging, look nice, and have a decent hustle and youre fine.
Thanks, Ava and Black Widow for getting the thread back on track!
THIS!
That is a great suggestion about sitting close and engaging their eyes to lock into yours. I am gonna start doing this....tonight. As far as the talking about tattoos, I hate it, I really, really do. I am gonna start changing the subject to something sexy and bring the convo back around to getting a dance....I have been reading alot on the "ABC"....always be closing. Keeping the conversation centered around the sale and not letting it go astray. I also agree with you that alot of guys are probably using the tattoo questions to divert the conversation there and avoid the subject of getting a dance. Maybe some of them are genuinely interested, but I think it's few and far between. Either way, I don't want to sit and talk about my tattoos. Everyone has their opinions on the tattoo conversation, some say it's a good thing and to humor the customers and just talk about them.....but I really don't want to. It just ruins my sale EVERY time.
I'm sorry! I didnt mean to threadjack...
On topic though, I have 35% of my body tattooed, and I have been a top earner at almost every club I've worked at in the last 10 years. Sometimes I have to work harder and prove that I'm approachable, and sometimes its just too easy. The best advice I can give you is to really listen to custies, so you can figure out what they want to hear, say it, and make the sale.
I wish you nothing but luck, and again, sorry for helping to threadjack your topic. I really didn't mean to.
Er ya, I'm sorry too. I helped.
lol. I started it...