I hate groups. Hate hate hate. Group of 3+ guys come in, usually one guy is treating his buddies to drinks and titties but not tipping the girls, or you're lucky to get one guy who tips at all.
How the fuck do you handle groups. Seriously.
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I hate groups. Hate hate hate. Group of 3+ guys come in, usually one guy is treating his buddies to drinks and titties but not tipping the girls, or you're lucky to get one guy who tips at all.
How the fuck do you handle groups. Seriously.
I usually convince one of them to buy a dance for one of his buddies. That often either ends up with a bunch of them buying dances for each other, or you luck out with one who decides to stay in VIP for a long stretch.
However, sometimes they are a group of cheap bastards. Then I usually call them out on it. Either they feel bad and spend, or I cut my losses and ignore them for the rest of the night.
haha I was just thinking today how much I prefer a lonely guy over a group of 3-4 guys. To hustle them, you gotta usually do a lot more (at least down here, and I am usually not willing to lower myself like that, for example boob grabbing and having to shake my ass in their face). It helps to just be very flirty and energized, have a good joke and make them wanna outdo each other. But in reality, it takes much more effort and you usually end up getting less out of it.
My strategy is to work on just one ( " I really want to do dance for YOU and ignore the rest ). I just think it looks weird to try to go from guy to guy asking. But .... I usually focus on the lone guy or two guys together and rarely bother with groups too. In defense of groups though .... we were treated to the most wonderfully well behaved bachelor party recently. There were 6-7 of them and each girl was leaving the stage with $35-$60 a set. ;)
Sometimes groups can be good.
99 percent of the time, I work alone. But for certain groups and on really busy nights, it really helps to have good hustle buddies (girls with a similar hustle that you trust well enough to work with). I have 2 at work-- they are hot, fun and great hustlers. We usually play party girls, get the group drunk and then say "oooh lets go to VIP, we get champagne!" Lol... sounds lame but it works nearly every single time.
It's a well guarded secret. ;)
If you feel too shy to approach the whole group, try locking eyes with the guy who seems to be their leader, and beckoning him over to you. If you can get him to do a private dance, and he enjoys it, he'll talk you up to his friends. Or maybe just take you upstairs to show off :)
:D With bachelor groups, always target the bachelor or the best man (the one who is paying for the bachelor). They sometimes take a while to warm up, so don't be disheartened if they just want only one dance. You can always come back when they are ready. Remember to act like the party girl. Next best thing is to look for the guy with 'interest' signals, or sometimes, the type of guy who tends to like you i.e. tall, dark haired men.
With a group of business men, sometimes it's a business owner taking out a client. These are the best customers for VIP. Act classy not slutty. Usually these guys have been through the ropes before.
Guy's night out groups: crap shoot. More luck if they are tourists.
I am completely FED UP with the groups that come in my club. Always mixed sex and in bad moods. I don't mind groups if they are cool.....I mean it's not my favorite thing in the world but I will approach them if they seem open to having fun.
The groups that come in my club are MISERABLE fucking girls that look like they are forced to be there and their poker-face boyfriends who can't even hold a conversation and answer simple questions. I have tried to hard to break through to these people but I give up. I try the best I can to make the girls comfortable who may be a little out of their element in the club but I get shut down every time.
Even our best hustlers and most skilled girls complain about the groups that come in our club. We get the coolest customers in that place but man those groups are just not happening.
^^^ Those miserable young mixed-sex groups who fill clubs on weekends are less annoying if you think of them as scenery instead of as customers. They're there to make the club look busy and give the real customers one more reason to get a private room.
With groups, I will single one out and try to engage him while I am on stage. If I can get him to buy some dances, I will give him my best then go back to his table with him and sit for five minutes or so, maybe see if they all want to do a shot, then tell him to pick which of his friends gets a dance from me next. I'll keep doing that as long as it works.