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Custie asking if i do extras
How do i politely tell a customer i don't do extra's. Customer says "do you do extras" Me: "no im worth more than that" or should i tell the manager that he's asking about it. That totally grossed me out when he asked that. I also said "there are cameras back there and im not doing that ill loose my job" God i hate when guys think that.
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U can say him :extras are illegal and u dont do anything illegal ////
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^^^ Then they say "but no one will know".
Just tell them you aren't that type of girl, but you still love to have fun. Then smile & bat your eyelashes.
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A roundhouse kick to the face is pretty effective, IMO.
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"I'm sorry babe, I'm not a whore and this isn't a whorehouse. We don't do things like that here."
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mediocrity
"I'm sorry babe, I'm not a whore and this isn't a whorehouse. We don't do things like that here."
That's a good one. I always tell them that nobody does that here, but in a nice way. Even if it's not true, it's better than saying: I don't, but so and so.. Not just because that could get you in trouble.
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Im not a stripper, but id flat out say no, with a blank stare.
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Im I vote roundhouse kick to the face and then you calmly say "Roadhouse". Dear god I hope someone gets that reference. But seriously, just kick him in the face.
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"youre in the wrong place if that's what youre looking for, but i'd be happy to dance for you."
That is, if you arent creeped out by them.
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if someone is really creeping you out, its ok to just walk away and not respond. Usually if i continue to sit with the guy i just get frustrated or mad, if hes asking u that hes probably shopping around for a girl who will do shit and isnt interested in a dance at all.
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Dont tell the manager, the manager will just ignore that since many custies ask for such things, its a daily thing mostly.
But if he does touch you somewhere you dont want to, dont be scared to call the bouncer
If you still want to make money of him, then something such as:
"Oh.. I Cant do that, Ill loose my job" *smile* and keep dancing while ignoring their prays.
" You dont me to loose my job, now do you? *I* enjoy dancing for you this way." yet again smile and blah dance.
"No such thing as extras here, why dont you enjoy our time?"
"Extras? Nah-uh Im naughty this way" and ignore the requests and keep dancing
Or if he's just an asshole and acreep.. walk out.. swear at him.. leave.. you dont have to do anything with him you dont want to, just make sure you get paid for what you did
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"I'm not a whore, I just wear the uniform."
And my favorite,
"Dude, you come to a strip club to get fucked, not to get laid."
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Autumn Lily
"I'm not a whore, I just wear the uniform."
And my favorite,
"Dude, you come to a strip club to get fucked, not to get laid."
hahaha, thats great!! What do they say back to that? I can totally picture guys being like :O huh? with the last one..lol
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In my experience...you're better off walking away from this guy...IMMEDIATELY. It is a waste of time to "convince" the guy to just do a clean dance. He did not come in there for that and will ask and ask each girl til' one says yes...and this method works for him almost every time! Even if he agrees to a clean one...he will, during the dance, to push your limits. Bottom line: this type of guy will always disrespect a dancer and prefers a dirty dance to get the most out of his buck. It is a waste of time to talk to him. Don't try to explain yourself, stand up for yourself, or convince him of a dance. It is rare if you suceed, and in the end...if that rare chance happens...it will not be the clean dance you were hoping for...just another creepy handsy guy that won't even tip you because he is sooooo unhappy with your "level of service"! Trust me on this! Over and over...until I just learned to walk away from these types of guys. Let the dirty girls have them.
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I usually say, "sorry its called strip tease, not strip fuck" and direct him to the nearby brothel.
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I would just fuck him over and tell him... ooh I don't, but I reealy like you so you just might get a reeealy good dance in there... *bat eyelashes* then get paid upfront... next kick your feet up on the table and be like " sooo how was your day?" and relax for the next hour. SIKE! what's he gonna do? go to the bouncer and tell him "she wouldn't have sex/ (let me feel her up or whatever they were expecting) with me?" i hate these idiots that think all women that take their clothes off for money will also let them put their fingers or penis inside them for money, a bit of a far fetch isn't boys?
P.S. watch out for undercovers, never say YES even if you're just hustling those worthless fuckers - :) i really don't like distespectful custies can you tell?
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I always say I can not afford to do anything illegal and extras ARE illegal. The whole 'no one will know' line, I have heard that a lot too. I always tell them I will know, obviously, and I work for the police department. They usually leave. Yes, I know I lose money but I'd rather lose money than lose my freedom being caught up in some prostitution sting. They say no one will know but someone will always find out one way or another! Never ever say yes, even if you do not intend on doing anything. That is all an undercover needs, for someone to say YES..thats all it takes and you're done.
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Well i was confronted with this last friday 3 times. i avoid saying anything close to implying that i will or someone else will. Undercovers are usually wired and can use that in court against u. The last guy I was told was a regular. I said, "i only do hand jobs." he said" ok!" i said "10 bucks up front and lets wait till the next song." When the next song came on i massaged his hand. He said, "what are u doin?" I said "a hand job!" and walked away with his 10 dollars.
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^OMG. I'm in love. lol. You go girl!! Literally LOLed haha!
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I would be too scared to actually say, "I do ____" even if its just a handjob and you only massage, the legal system can fk people over with their words and not actions.
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Love it. Yes. We are a class act. This type is what ruins our clubs, our families, and our beautiful American Way. Teach the jerk a good ol lesson and EMPTY THAT WALLET. Give him.....NOTHING. Take care of your loved ones with that dough!
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Working in a clean club I tell guys "we don't have back rooms for a reason, that doesn't go on here" and "I'm a dancer, I dance" just smiling at them.
(In the dirty clubs) Even though it could've gotten me in trouble if talking to an uncover cop, I used to tell guys "I'm too expensive" and "you can't afford me" asking $700 blowjob and $1k fuck when girls are doing it for 60/100. I actually sold a lot of dances to guys who tried and were interested in me because I was some expensive prize. Unfortunately at my clean club there ARE guys who would take me home for $1k sex so that line was retired. Most of those guys are a waste and don't deserve more than 15 seconds of your time after asking for extras.
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I like what someone else said, and just say you're not that kind of girl. Because in my experience if I say it's illegal or I don't want us to get in trouble, they'll say "no one will know" and they would be right. Because they got it from someone else before and management won't care.
If they get really pushy and say "BUT THAT OTHER GIRL DID IT!" I found saying "So go to her" seemed to work and they stop wasting my time and at least get a dance or spend some money. Just common sense stuff.
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Not a huge fan of the "I'm not a whore/this isn't a whorehouse" line. There's no need to throw full service girls under the bus. In my club extras are common and most girls do them, so I just say "No. I don't do that." and keep hustling for dances for a bit. If it's clear they only want extras I just move on. Most customers know what girls to go to and wouldn't waste their time trying to convince me to do extras if I won't budge. So there's a good chance I can still get dances out of them if I spend a bit more time with them (which is worth it if the club is dead for example). But I don't humor them, I don't give witty remarks. I just straight up say that those are services I don't provide.
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I've got no issue with escorts, which is why I love recommending escorts to guys like this. I politely say I don't do extras when asked, but if someone persists in asking for extras and isn't spending money on anyone in the club, then they're a bad customer and they need to leave.
So I help them out the door. "Sorry, sweetie, that's prostitution, and this is a strip club. I'm a dancer, not a whore. If you were looking for a whore"--starting to talk louder at this point--"then you should get on Backpage"--very loud now--"and do a search for whores, since what you want is to purchase sex." By this time I'm yelling, and people around them can hear. Then I leave.
Usually they're out of the club by the time I come back. If they aren't, I'll loudly ask them why they aren't out getting a prostitute every time I pass until they do. Again, I only do this to guys who aren't spending any money on anyone and who are obnoxious about demanding extras. Fuck 'em.