Going back to escorting....
...I miss the money WAY too much, and I'm gonna need more of it coming in now that I'm getting my house. It's $1250 a month so I'd really only need to do one appointment a week to make the payments, but I'll probably do about 4 appointments per week. I want to be very low-volume and still mainly focus on camming.
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Please please if you do decide to get back into it. Let me know I'd love for us to tour together!
My advice: Yes yes yes proceed! Raise your rates if you go indy and brand yourself VIP!!
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Were you escorting before, were you with an agency (Would you return to that agency or have you decided to become independent)
Well it depends on your city for the escorting business, and of course you have to factor in the slow times but if your camming regularly that wont be a problem for slow times.
Pretty much everything else would be on Amanda Brooks website her blogs and her books then everything else is up to you.
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I actually have a question related to renting/buying a place because I was thinking about it and not sure how it works..If you are escorting whether it be indy or with an agency how do you declare that income to show you do make money? OR do you just save up a ton and show them your bank account to show them you do indeed have the money to rent it? CONGRATS on your new house btw, thats awesome!
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SexxySadie
I actually have a question related to renting/buying a place because I was thinking about it and not sure how it works..If you are escorting whether it be indy or with an agency how do you declare that income to show you do make money? OR do you just save up a ton and show them your bank account to show them you do indeed have the money to rent it? CONGRATS on your new house btw, thats awesome!
Escorts have bank accounts. At least Responsible escorts have bank accounts. No you dont' save up "a ton" You just put money in the bank every week..don't forget your money WILL be taxed if you put ALL your income in the bank. :)
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wish you the best! I'm just getting into it and I feel paranoid about LE all the time. Can't wait to go indy.
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I know escort have bank accounts lol but what I am asking is how do you put that down as a job to a rental agency for them to verify you get paid monthly? All the rental people I have ever rented from needed to know what company, see a pay stub etc etc..
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SexxySadie
I know escort have bank accounts lol but what I am asking is how do you put that down as a job to a rental agency for them to verify you get paid monthly? All the rental people I have ever rented from needed to know what company, see a pay stub etc etc..
I tell them I get paid weekly because I deposit my earnings weekly. I show them a bank statement proving my claim and I've never had one person turn me down.
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hm thats good to know..maybe AZ renter are more strict or maybe I just rent from a-holes
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they're just assholes. I've been using bank statements for everything.. lol
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As an escort you're a self employed person. Just put the money in the bank, file taxes april 15th, and your tax return is your proof of your income.
i've been in the adult business taking cash since 18, never worked a vanilla job, and have had no problem getting apartments/houses, cars, loans, credit cards, etc.
Plenty of ppl are self employed these days and dont receive paychecks. As long as you're responsible on filing you'll have no problems getting approved for things.
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man, if I wasn't married I would seriously consider escorting. lol. grrr
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As an escort you're a self employed person. Just put the money in the bank, file taxes april 15th, and your tax return is your proof of your income.
i've been in the adult business taking cash since 18, never worked a vanilla job, and have had no problem getting apartments/houses, cars, loans, credit cards, etc.
Plenty of ppl are self employed these days and dont receive paychecks. As long as you're responsible on filing you'll have no problems getting approved for things.
Here in the state of NC you can do anything with a bank statements. I know a lot of escorts that don't and wont' file taxes and they have no problem getting approved for apartments/cars..
I do that that if they were to buy a house they would need to show that they have filed ...
You don't have to have filed taxes to get approved of things. Either A bank statement, paycheck stub and w2 works just fine. Trust me I know I just started filing last year.
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man, if I wasn't married I would seriously consider escorting. lol. grrr
A lot of married women escort.
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A lot of married women escort.
Yup my client and I was talking about this yesterday. Personally I couldn't do it. 1.) I don't think I would want to marry a man that could put up with me escorting. 2.) My man/whoever Im marrying would have to be financially stable to where I didn't have to escort. 3.) Sure there are alot of men that marry pornstarts/escorts but I don't want to marry a man like that. Just by choice. Kudos to those that make it work.
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no I know. lol. Just my hubby wouldn't like it and I wouldn't feel comfortable.
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I would not mind escorting if I were married. personally. I would try to explain as best I can how it is only a business and just remind my spouse that we have trust, honesty, and communication then we can make it work even while doing this job. But if he is really uncomfortable with it and not sitting right with him then I probably would stop because I wouldn't want to make him feel in away insecure or whatever he is feeling from it. But I am single so no worries there for now and I love my single life..hahahaha
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Yeah I couldn't do it. ONLY if somehow my husband lost his job or hurt himself and couldnt work and we were in some serious debt then maybe i'd consider it if he let me.
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^ holy crap beans!!! Malaya did you just say "...if he let you"???? I think my world may be caving in... lol, kisses hun.
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^ holy crap beans!!! Malaya did you just say "...if he let you"???? I think my world may be caving in... lol, kisses hun.
:rotfl: I was waiting for someone to point it out but yes I said IF he lets me. My hubby will be forever so I will compromise if I had to to please him UNLIKE a boyfriend.
I'm not that bitter ya know.. lol
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Hahaha, ahhh so you DO understand then when I talk about being confused about mine because my bf has already started puting rings on my finger,lol. Good to know! You are so adorable, I adore you, you're the best.
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LOL! Well he's not your hubby yet so he dosen't really count. Big difference between hubby and bf.