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The thing I want but I can never have...
K so maybe this is a depressing thread but Ill start it anyway cause Im tipsy and we all know alcohol is a depressant.... whats something you want but you can't have?
I'll start... I want my canadian friends and family to all move to Australia so we can all be together.
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I want to go back in time and change that night at the club.... :(
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To have a Captain n Coke and smoke a cigar with a special friend just one more time.
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world peace and a utopian society (whimsical bliss)
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A weekend long, ass smacking, hair pulling, porno sexin' threesome with my girl, and a certain hot, but unavailable chick on the other side of the world.
http://www.tdbimg.com/files/2009/05/...3937983713.jpg
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Bobby, I'm not that far from you! J/K! Luv ya!
I wish I could have my husband back the way he used to be when we first married. Kind, loving and sweet.
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OMG I wanna remember starting this thread... So me thinks I was a little more than "tipsy". Hahaha HB ;-)
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I want to go back to 1997.
Re-enlist as Infantry instead of re-uping for MP. The put in a packet for SF. What if that had been my time line? Shoulda, woulda, coulda.
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So many things. I want to find a job, and am starting to think I'll never have one again. I want to marry the one guy I truly love, but am not sure if he'll ever get over his issues. I wish I could go back to 1995 and tell him before he developed issues that I loved him but was afraid. I wish my uncle's live in girlfriend would survive cancer but she's a vegetable now and not expected to live much longer. The job situation and the guy situation might improve in time but not my uncle's girlfriend.
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For my friends and family to be 100 percent supportive and love me unconditionally. That includes my job, my SO, how we parent, school decisions, ect. I feel like I am constantly pulled in different directions by everyone telling me their opinion and what THEY want me to do. I still make my own decisions (obviously) but total peace and quiet from them would be absolute BLISS.
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I want someone who doesn't want me...the worst bcuz it cripples me' from moving on
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The question says - "The thing I want but I can NEVER have....."
In 2001 I was told I will never be able to have children.
So - children is my answer.
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To go back in time to right hundreds of wrongs.
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A solid year without any kind of bad luck, traumatic experiences, taking two steps backwards, anyone dying, any medical emergencies, car accidents, financial woes, overdrafted bank accounts, unemployment, drama, fighting, crying or injury.
It's not like I'm asking for a lifetime without all this stuff. Just one year would be nice.
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Sad to say it but real friends or hell i'll take a good friend. I just want a friend!
I have never had a best friend since i think since middle school. Literally my only friend is my daughter and soon enough she wont want to be anymore. :(
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To find someone whom I could be in love with who could have as much feeling for me. ESRD plus a variety of person deficits makes the sort of relationship I want unlikely to happen.
Rosay, I have experience with unrequited love. Even with the emotional pain of it, it was the best feeling I have ever had. I doubt I can imagine how it would be as a shared thing. For me, I recognized that she could not go there with me. I was able to use the invigorating part of it to help me grow. She disappeared much too soon (she was a dancer, a very good therapist, and a wonderful person). The emotional support she provided helped me to grow and feel possibilities in life that I had never imagined. But I was unable to make enough change in me during her time in Michigan. I hope she and hers are pleased with where their lives are taking them.
I suppose it was possible for me to use the energy of being in love with her because I genuinely believed I could not be that person in her life. I also strongly want to avoid a relationship built on deception and power issues (even friendships). You know, in order to be known, one must be open and honest with others. If one is not, others do not have a chance to respond to the real self.
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Originally Posted by
DirtyLittleSecret
Sad to say it but real friends or hell i'll take a good friend. I just want a friend!
I have never had a best friend since i think since middle school. Literally my only friend is my daughter and soon enough she wont want to be anymore. :(
I can identify with this... the older I get the more friends move away or I move to a new town or they get married and never hang out anymore. It's hard to meet new, quality people. And I tend to keep people at an arm's length anyway, due to having toxic friends. I think you'll find friends where you least expect them though and things will get better! And I think your daughter will always be your friend as long as you respect each other and the love is there. <3
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For the most part, my life has been good. But, to answer the question. I'm like a lot of people. I'd like to relive my life from the age of 14, but, knowing what I know now. Just think
no teenage angst, no nervousness around girls, no time wasted on deadends.
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Tanfan40D
For the most part, my life has been good. But, to answer the question. I'm like a lot of people. I'd like to relive my life from the age of 14, but, knowing what I know now. Just think
no teenage angst, no nervousness around girls, no time wasted on deadends.
I hear ya dude. I'd totally like to pull an H.G. Wells and go to 2000ish and set myself on a continual feedback loop to 2007. Over and over. Reset. Replay.
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PleasureVictim
To go back in time to right hundreds of wrongs.
This would be my second choice......
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I can't say. It makes me cry just thinking about it.
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1 to help a confused friend in need... but she wont let me
2 i want my talented mum to have her desired career which never took off due to too many kids too young
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This topic makes me depressed :'(
I wish that I could have my first child back that I aborted and was not pressured by people about getting an abortion at 18.
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To have not gone into that basement and let him lock that deadbolt.