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Series of Questions
1. How exactly does a table dance go?? My club offers table dances but there is no way in the world i can get on those tiny little tables in those 6 in. platforms!!!!
2. What should my goal be for my first night (money wise)??
3. I have never danced on a pole in my life!! I've seen girls kind of just dance around the pole, but how can I be sexy without gettin too wild (lol I'm a wild child: I love to swing my hair, bounce and shake my ass, bite my lip)
4. I know a lot of people say that you shouldn't walk around the club butt naked, but it seems like the girls do. They'll be on stage, take all their clothes off and go straight with a customer for a lap dance. :/
5. How can I not get too tired on my first day? I know when I'm dancing at a regular club, if i dance really hard with a guy for about 5 min my legs feel like they're going to fall off! lol
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Re: Series of Questions
1. How exactly does a table dance go?? My club offers table dances but there is no way in the world i can get on those tiny little tables in those 6 in. platforms!!!!
Watch the other dancers. In some cities table dances are performed on top of a small table/pedestal. Others it means the dancer performs with the table between her & the customer, or if there is no table it means she leaves the distance of the table between her & the customer.
Also, I really want to say THANK YOU for asking! I get so irritated when I'm at clubs that offer table dances & lap dances, & I seem to be the only dancer who knows the difference. Its really hard to upsell to lapdances when the ignorant/naive dancers are selling lapdances for the price of table dances!
2. What should my goal be for my first night (money wise)??
To walk out in the positive. If you really want to challenge yourself & have never danced, ask the manager what the girls average for take home & make your goal to earn half of that. It will be super hard the first few weeks.
3. I have never danced on a pole in my life!! I've seen girls kind of just dance around the pole, but how can I be sexy without gettin too wild (lol I'm a wild child: I love to swing my hair, bounce and shake my ass, bite my lip)
Until you are more comfortable with it just start by leaning up against it.
4. I know a lot of people say that you shouldn't walk around the club butt naked, but it seems like the girls do. They'll be on stage, take all their clothes off and go straight with a customer for a lap dance. :/
In some cities/states being on the floor nude is illegal, if it's not you will see dancers do this because they already have a dance lined up. If you sell a dance before going on stage, or while you are on stage, be sure to ask the customer before just starting the lapdance nude. Some customers really do enjoy striptease & if you don't start with your clothes on they you aren't doing a striptease.
5. How can I not get too tired on my first day? I know when I'm dancing at a regular club, if i dance really hard with a guy for about 5 min my legs feel like they're going to fall off! lol
A shot of wheatgrass with Red Bull can keep a person going all night, but I don't suggest it unless you REALLY need it. Other than that I'd say to take some asprin or advil before work, & bring some nuts or protein bars to snack on.
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Re: Series of Questions
1. go to the club. buy a table dance. it's the most educational $10 you'll spend. the only place in georgia that does ACTUAL on-the-table-dancing is boomers in marietta. so no worries there. it takes place on the floor.
2. eleventy billion dollars
3. watch the girls on stage. copy what they do.
4. every club has different rules about nakedness on the floor. do what makes you money. i worked with a girl at the crazy horse in forest park who would be butt-naked, ALL THE TIME. her first stage set, she got naked, and stayed that way for the next 6 hours. she made her money, aparently... i can't do that. i wear my outfit, ask a custie for a dance, get naked, get dressed, repeat.
5. dancing in a club and dancing in a strip club are two totally different things. in the SC it's about slow and sensual, not about bumping and grinding.
also, this is not to sound rude, but stop asking questions and JUST GO WORK. DO IT. Stripperweb can answer some of your questions, but not all of them. it's all on-the-job training, learning as you go. so just do it.
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Re: Series of Questions
3. I have never danced on a pole in my life!! I've seen girls kind of just dance around the pole, but how can I be sexy without gettin too wild (lol I'm a wild child: I love to swing my hair, bounce and shake my ass, bite my lip)
A lot of it is your upper body strength. It takes a lot of muscle to lift 100-some pounds and make it look effortless. If you don't have a pole to practice on, you can try doing some basic upper body exercises like pull-ups and training your body. Maybe you'll be at the playground and can borrow some monkey bars for this purpose while you're there with your kid. Or if you happen to get to work early and the club hasn't opened yet, maybe they'll let you goof off for a while. Some clubs are cool with this, some not so much. Just feel it out.
5. How can I not get too tired on my first day? I know when I'm dancing at a regular club, if i dance really hard with a guy for about 5 min my legs feel like they're going to fall off! lol
Whatever you do, don't ever accept any "energy pills" from anyone or any pills at all. You probably already know that, but still.
Forgot to add, congratulations by the way!