^^^ Honestly, why would you want those men in the strip club!?
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^^^ Honestly, why would you want those men in the strip club!?
because a lapdance here and a lapdance there can add up pretty fast. and if guys aren't used to getting more for less, they won't think they have a right to be all grabby and stuff.
i mean, when stripping was big business and the money was great, do you think guys like that didn't exist? of course they did. they just didn't have any other options. so it was either buy a regular dance and keep your hands to yourself or stay home while your wife nags you a ton and fucks you never. men took what they could get.
now, they can get full service for 30 bucks from some pimped teenager locked in a cheap hotel room with another pimped teenager who is being forced to do the same, and money is only good for the pimp because he keeps them busy all day long. or for the guys who aren't total sickos (or just really broke, which is part of that too), they can get a regular or even rather pretty independent girl too do gfe for 200.
people will do what they're able to do. that's why people are always telling girls not to give it up on the first date if they want a dude to respect her. because if a guy can get something easy, he will. men are lazy like that.
I'm sorry. I trudged my way as far through the link as I could until I hit myth number 12. After that, I lost any interest I had to begin with.
I say legalize it and put some EXTREME regulations on it.
This times a million. I wrote a good chunk of my senior paper about this very issue. Most anti-trafficking groups and sites have a strong anti-sex work bent. The stupid thing is, we should be fighting against slave-like conditions in ANY work place, not just those involving sex work.
Also, a note to those saying legalization would be a disservice or harm to women:
Really? I think regulations and worker's rights have benefited workers EVERYWHERE in all sorts of jobs. I think most people who take this position do so because they do not see prostitution (or other sex work) as legitimate WORK, but as some sort of horrible degrading thing that women (and men) are forced into. It's just looking at it the wrong way.
Prostitution has existed for a long time. There will always be adult men and women who choose to be prostitutes, and people who will choose to purchase their time and services. Don't you think these WORKERS deserve the same rights one would have as a waitress, a factory worker, a doctor? Don't you think they deserve the right to go to the police to report a customer who was violent, or didn't pay (since that's theft)? Don't you think there would be a better safety net out there for prostitutes who don't want to do the job if they don't have to worry about coming forward and admitting what they do?
If a man feels he's entitled to rape a prostitute, do you really think he's going to be an ok customer for you? Or is he going to push your boundaries? Is he going to respect the rules you lay down, or is he going to do what he wants?
It answer seems obvious to me. I don't care how much money I could potentially make, I don't want to be around rapists. It seems strange to me that in one breath you're complaining about how dangerous these individuals are, and in the next you're complaining that they're not coming to you for business.