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It will get better... just keep going. If you are around a lot of girls who are talented on the pole you are bound to picking up more yourself. This could be a really great experience for you.
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If u want to learn a really nice routine this week go to polewaxers university in Canton (really Marietta Area) Robin is the owner/teacher! She'll help out a lot w any ques u have! Tuesday night is 2 for $15 I may go! But her class is fun as hell and you will know at least some extra basic moves for your stage pole dance routine! Prepare to feel sexy and sore lol! Also if you cant make it Tues log onto polewaxersuniversity.com to see her schedule she has all types of classes (other than pole)! think Thursday is booty/ lap dance night! drop in Friday @5 and Saturday Ladies night cant remember price but $5 all u can drink mixed drink and if it helps you to see how u look urself u can go up on stage and she will video u for $10 bucks :-)
also class runs from 7pm - 9 or 9:45 if crowded
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If u want to learn a really nice routine this week go to polewaxers university in Canton (really Marietta Area) Robin is the owner/teacher! She'll help out a lot w any ques u have! Tuesday night is 2 for $15 I may go! But her class is fun as hell and you will know at least some extra basic moves for your stage pole dance routine! Prepare to feel sexy and sore lol! Also if you cant make it Tues log onto polewaxersuniversity.com to see her schedule she has all types of classes (other than pole)! think Thursday is booty/ lap dance night! drop in Friday @5 and Saturday Ladies night cant remember price but $5 all u can drink mixed drink and if it helps you to see how u look urself u can go up on stage and she will video u for $10 bucks :-)
also class runs from 7pm - 9 or 9:45 if crowded
OMG thanks!!!!! I'm going to log on. I work on tuesday and have to get my money up before i take the classes.
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I wish that class was in Ohio. Damn that looks like a good place to study the pole at
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Double bonus just because they have Pantera booked as a guest instructor!
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Double bonus just because they have Pantera booked as a guest instructor!
Darn I didnt even know she had anyone booked! I have to logon
thx girlie
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UGH and i was wondering what do I do when I don't stick out. The men at this club only want white girls, even the ugly ones, or the black girls that have hugeeeeeee asses! It's only 2 of those. I was about to cry yesterday in front of a customer lol i had to go in the back. But hmmm I'm thinking about gettin butt injections. Because they make all the money. One girl was like yesterday was her bad day and she made about 300. She was like she doesn't even go up to people, she doesn't get many tips on stage, but when people tip her that's the people she goes up to afterwards. I'm like WTF am i doing wrong then. I go up to everyone. I sit and chat for a long time, and then ask for a dance n they say no that's ok I'm just relaxing. And like 5 minutes later they get a dance frm someone else. My confidence is really going down. I try to keep a smile on my face, but hmmm it doesn't really doesn't help, i still feel like shit on the inside. I only made about 63 on a tuesday . I'm going back today and tomorrow. Hopefully I'll get my money up.
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Maybe instead of asking them if they want a dance just TELL them you're going to give them a dance. "Hey hun, I've been eyeing you up for a while now and I've been dieing to dance for you, you look like such a good time,I'm going to give you an amazing dance ...." blah blah fucking blah. Men like you to stroke their egos and their dicks with one hand while you're robbing them blind with the other.
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UGH and i was wondering what do I do when I don't stick out. The men at this club only want white girls, even the ugly ones, or the black girls that have hugeeeeeee asses! It's only 2 of those. I was about to cry yesterday in front of a customer lol i had to go in the back. But hmmm I'm thinking about gettin butt injections. Because they make all the money. One girl was like yesterday was her bad day and she made about 300. She was like she doesn't even go up to people, she doesn't get many tips on stage, but when people tip her that's the people she goes up to afterwards. I'm like WTF am i doing wrong then. I go up to everyone. I sit and chat for a long time, and then ask for a dance n they say no that's ok I'm just relaxing. And like 5 minutes later they get a dance frm someone else. My confidence is really going down. I try to keep a smile on my face, but hmmm it doesn't really doesn't help, i still feel like shit on the inside. I only made about 63 on a tuesday . I'm going back today and tomorrow. Hopefully I'll get my money up.
Don't be sad, it happens to all of us. I know what you mean, I am working a customer and then this ugly b** comes and takes all his money, like in the twilight zone. But the most important thing is to seem confident, that's what really seems to sell. Also, girls lie about what they make and try to intimidate the new girls. Just act like you're hot shit and try to stand out with the way you dress, do your make up. I was thinking about the butt injections, too because I thought that was the magic secret for money but there are also places where that is not seen as sexy, so don't do anything just for the money
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Don't be sad, it happens to all of us. I know what you mean, I am working a customer and then this ugly b** comes and takes all his money, like in the twilight zone. But the most important thing is to seem confident, that's what really seems to sell. Also, girls lie about what they make and try to intimidate the new girls. Just act like you're hot shit and try to stand out with the way you dress, do your make up. I was thinking about the butt injections, too because I thought that was the magic secret for money but there are also places where that is not seen as sexy, so don't do anything just for the money
thanks hun! yea, i'm like ugh!!!!!!! but i have to save up my money to get some new outfits because i only have 1 stripper bikini. and only 1 pair of shoes. so i'm straight out of luck. so i have to work like a full week in order to get some new outfits. but yea hmmm ur right.
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Congrats girl where are you working??
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you could wear some sexy lingerie if you already own some, like with stockings etc. I used to always think that you have to have stuff from the stripper store, but from my experience guys love the lingerie thing and it might make you stand out if nobody else is wearing any. Spending a lot of money on outfits is usually not worth it IMO. Does make you feel good though..
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I go up to everyone. I sit and chat for a long time, and then ask for a dance n they say no that's ok I'm just relaxing.
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These two things might be your problem. You can't do both. Either pick your targets CAREFULLY like the other girl you described or you need to do a hit-and-run hustle.
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The other girl knew damn well that she was getting dances from the men who tipped her, so she went over to them. That way, the other men always see her dancing for every man she talks to, which makes the others want her as well. ETA: That was my approach.
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Or, you can hustle the floor, talk to everyone BUT only chat for 5-10 minutes AT MOST. Sit down at the beginning of a song and ask for a dance at the end of the second. By the end of the thrid, if you're not dancing, pick your ass up and move on. You can't give the men heaps of attention for free and then expect them to give you money. They already got what they wanted: attention. Sometimes, that's all they're craving. Make them pay for it before they get comfortable.