Working with what you have got and customers
Hey, i have worked in a strip club for over a month now but I'm still making probably the least money. I am confident about my looks, I have a good body, but it is the lack of communication skills that bothers me.. not even that but the knowing that men know when a girl approaches them, that what ever we say we are after the money. Therefore i feel like I'm making a fool of myself whenever i start a conversation. I work in London, in Stringfellows and last week I made 5 pounds... and also the guilt.. why would anybody spend 400 pounds to see a lapdance while there isn't even touching allowed.
Other thing, i am young and i look very young, so i should play with my innocence, i am not a good actor, please give me some ideas, Thank you
Re: Working with what you have got and customers
Plenty of guys are into girls that are young or barely legal... play that up! Get yourself a few costumes & do some theme sets every once in awhile.
Stop thinking of it as paying you for a lapdance... they are paying to have you entertain them! There are plenty of other forms of spectator entertainment where customers can't touch (theatre, concerts, etc)... & you are another one.
When you approach them either flirt heavily for fast sales or or else try to have a normal conversation:
1. What's your name?
2. What do you do for work?
3. What are your hobbies?
Keep flirting though & eventually before going on stage make some comment that insinuates you two need to go do a lapdance when you come off the stage.
Re: Working with what you have got and customers
Girl, you need to read up on your Hustle Hut!! There is soooo much incredible information on this website. If you're a smart chick, then all you need to do is read the info and apply it to yourself.
Also, don't be so hard on yourself. You just started!!
Re: Working with what you have got and customers
Two words cutie HUSTLE. HUT.