Originally Posted by
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I tried to set up such an arrangement with a couple of women (not dancers) on a sugar baby/daddy dating site. The only two who were really interested were both really, REALLY broke. I had expected somebody who had a mediocre job and was tired of living on the cheap. The first one was polite but serious, didn't really warm up to me much. But she was willing to enter the relationship. I just came out and said "you're in such a difficult situation, and you don't seem to like me at all, I'm afraid this will fell like a rape to you." For some reason, that REALLY pissed her off, she seemed to feel like I was patronizing her. We tried to hash it out but eventually she told me to fuck off. She contacted me later, said she had a job interview, wanted to met after for dinner to try again. I told her I already had an appointment with an escort, a late dinner would work, but either way I'd give her a ride home (she had no car). She said I was a man whore for seeing escorts, and that was the last I heard from her.
Second girl was very young (20 I think). We clicked really well conversationally. I thought she was cute but not very sexy. She had a thing with a dr. but he got sued for malpractice. She got attached to him and but he broke it off with just a phone call, no good bye envelope of cash. She kept telling me she wanted to proceed but was busy at the moment, even though she claimed she was bad broke. I got the impression she thought I was a nice guy but cringed at the idea of sex with me. I gave her $100 and said things had worked out with another girl (lie). I was sorely tempted to give her more than that (as a gift).
The website started overbilling my credit card. Between that and these two failures, I gave up. But I'm still interested in such an arrangment, just don't know how to go about finding somebody.
All related experiences and advice welcome. If I may suggest, just one flame "you're a pig" response from one nun stripper, and the others can hit thanks, to save space and effort.